Threaded Mode | Linear Mode

Christian Hellhound · 03-05-2014 10:59 AM

So, you probably all know that I have no friends and don't really desire any since I am extremely introverted and anti-social and everyone at my school imitates each other and is a dickhead. Last year, in the 7th grade,my best friend decided to fit in with them.

She became exactly like everyone else--cursing excessively, wearing the newest gay fashion trends, dyeing her hair, keeping her iPhone in her back phone, etc., In other words, she had conformed, and so I stopped talking to her since she wasn't the same person anymore. Now she's cutting herself and getting suspended from school for long amounts of time. She used to be such a good kid. It's pretty sad.

Not to mention that she tried to kick me out of "her" lunch table to make room for her friend, which REALLY proved her asshole-ness to me. She tried telling me that there were plenty of empty tables I could sit at in the lunchroom when she knew DAMN WELL THAT THERE WERE NOT. Luckily I didn't move an inch and I still sit at my spot today. What really bothers me about this is that she basically told me "You're not cool enough to me anymore. Go sit at a table by yourself so my brand new friend has somewhere to sit."

I usually don't refer to other female humans as the formal term for a female dog but...

What a bitch.

James Comey · 03-05-2014 11:01 AM

It's okay. I think one day you'll find decent friends, whether it be in school or outside of school.

Christian Hellhound · 03-05-2014 11:18 AM

I'd rather try and make just 2 close friends at an anime con since I'll have more in common with them. I'm sick of all the kids who are just carbon copies of each other at school.

craxyguy562 · 03-05-2014 11:34 AM

My best friend dumped me becuase I'm too flaky. We were having a school talent show and she knew I was shy so she assumed I was going to flake out and not say anything and she kicked me from her group which
lead to her dumping me as a friend. It was a long time ago. Third grade. I still live near her.

Your ex-friend is rude. I hate the concept of a certain group of kids "owning" a table. None of the kids own any tables. It's the school that owns the tables.

craxyguy562 · 03-05-2014 11:35 AM

Could you consider us your friends?

Christian Hellhound · 03-05-2014 12:28 PM

Well I try to be really careful with whom I the title of "friend" to now so I'll call you all my comrades instead.

Potato · 03-13-2014 08:29 PM

lol rejected

Potato · 03-13-2014 08:54 PM

Quote:Well I try to be really careful with whom I the title of "friend" to now so I'll call you all my comrades instead.

like any of us are soldiers

timf · 03-13-2014 11:09 PM

I was talking to a guy once about the subject of rejection. He was almost paralyzed by the thought of rejection. I suggested he consider a worst case scenario. Suppose he asked a girl out and she climbed up on a table and pointed at him and laughed at him in front of a crowd.

He might be mortified, or he could say, "I am so grateful you showed me what you were like before I wasted a lot of time and money."

Being rejected has an often unappreciated beneficial side to it. Yes, it can hurt to discover that we made a false assumption of trustworthiness. However, being thrown off a sinking ship is not the worst thing that could happen.

It is sad to see someone we once cared about walking down a path that will cause them pain. However, we have to follow our own path also. Disengagement opens the possibility for new friends who could lift you up instead of bringing you down.

Cianna200 · 03-14-2014 02:29 AM

I'm sorry that this happened to you, you will find friends in time.

Ilija.m · 03-20-2014 07:15 AM

(03-05-2014 10:59 AM)Christian Hellhound Wrote: So, you probably all know that I have no friends and don't really desire any since I am extremely introverted and anti-social and everyone at my school imitates each other and is a dickhead. Last year, in the 7th grade,my best friend decided to fit in with them.

She became exactly like everyone else--cursing excessively, wearing the newest gay fashion trends, dyeing her hair, keeping her iPhone in her back phone, etc., In other words, she had conformed, and so I stopped talking to her since she wasn't the same person anymore. Now she's cutting herself and getting suspended from school for long amounts of time. She used to be such a good kid. It's pretty sad.

Not to mention that she tried to kick me out of "her" lunch table to make room for her friend, which REALLY proved her asshole-ness to me. She tried telling me that there were plenty of empty tables I could sit at in the lunchroom when she knew DAMN WELL THAT THERE WERE NOT. Luckily I didn't move an inch and I still sit at my spot today. What really bothers me about this is that she basically told me "You're not cool enough to me anymore. Go sit at a table by yourself so my brand new friend has somewhere to sit."

I usually don't refer to other female humans as the formal term for a female dog but...

What a bitch.

in my class they talk behind your back or do something silly and is really annoying and i tend to ignore them i also don't have many friends because they all are bunch of idiots but i talk with the other class in school i socialize with them .
Don't worry to much you will find other friends who will not do this kind of silly things

Quote:She became exactly like everyone else--cursing excessively, wearing the newest gay fashion trends, dyeing her hair, keeping her iPhone in her back phone, etc., In other words, she had conformed, and so I stopped talking to her since she wasn't the same person anymore. Now she's cutting herself and getting suspended from school for long amounts of time. She used to be such a good kid. It's pretty sad. .

Trar · 03-26-2014 08:48 AM

That's pretty bad. I do hope she finds her way out of the forest, so to speak.

I had a friend in the sixth grade that I got along with, us both being class clowns of a sort. Then he started 'maturing', joking around less, and assumed a position on the Student Council. He was still a good person, but not exactly the goof I liked anymore, and he was content to be a model student. This process was completed, as far as I could see, in the next grade. What made things just that bit more unbearable was the fact that the other student that we were both friends with who also was sort of a goof moved out of town that year. It was good while it lasted...

(03-13-2014 08:29 PM)Potato Wrote: lol rejected

I hope CH is not too distraught at being rejected by this forum's equivalent of that abusive drunk I used to live with.

(03-13-2014 08:54 PM)Potato Wrote:
Quote:Well I try to be really careful with whom I the title of "friend" to now so I'll call you all my comrades instead.

like any of us are soldiers

CФMЯДDE!! WE MUST ЯISE UP IИ GLФЯIOUS PRФLETДЯIДT ЯEVФLUTIOИ TO ФVEЯTHЯФW THE CДPITДLIST PIGDФGS!!

[Image: A-1967-Soviet-propaganda--007.jpg]

brainiac3397 · 03-26-2014 08:55 AM

(03-13-2014 08:54 PM)Potato Wrote:
Quote:Well I try to be really careful with whom I the title of "friend" to now so I'll call you all my comrades instead.

like any of us are soldiers

Comrade =/= Soldier

tootsie_turtle · 04-10-2014 02:52 PM

(03-05-2014 10:59 AM)Christian Hellhound Wrote: So, you probably all know that I have no friends and don't really desire any since I am extremely introverted and anti-social and everyone at my school imitates each other and is a dickhead. Last year, in the 7th grade,my best friend decided to fit in with them.

She became exactly like everyone else--cursing excessively, wearing the newest gay fashion trends, dyeing her hair, keeping her iPhone in her back phone, etc., In other words, she had conformed, and so I stopped talking to her since she wasn't the same person anymore. Now she's cutting herself and getting suspended from school for long amounts of time. She used to be such a good kid. It's pretty sad.

Not to mention that she tried to kick me out of "her" lunch table to make room for her friend, which REALLY proved her asshole-ness to me. She tried telling me that there were plenty of empty tables I could sit at in the lunchroom when she knew DAMN WELL THAT THERE WERE NOT. Luckily I didn't move an inch and I still sit at my spot today. What really bothers me about this is that she basically told me "You're not cool enough to me anymore. Go sit at a table by yourself so my brand new friend has somewhere to sit."

I usually don't refer to other female humans as the formal term for a female dog but...

What a bitch.

Feel like slapping her... Mwahaha

I am so sorry, though. It is truly horrible to see someone, someone close to you, screw you over. Better sooner then later, right? I'm glad you discovered her holy assholeness. My best advice for you would to get revenge Mwahaha

Backstab that female dog every chance you get! As timf said, rejection can help you discover who a person is before it's too late.

KFC Nyan Cat · 04-11-2014 05:41 AM

Wow....that sucks.

James Comey · 04-11-2014 09:29 AM

By the way Christian Hellhound, I really hope you pull it through. One day, the lack of friends is really going to get to you. In my experience, it definitely did.

Christian Hellhound · 04-13-2014 07:58 AM

(04-10-2014 02:52 PM)tootsie_turtle Wrote:
(03-05-2014 10:59 AM)Christian Hellhound Wrote: So, you probably all know that I have no friends and don't really desire any since I am extremely introverted and anti-social and everyone at my school imitates each other and is a dickhead. Last year, in the 7th grade,my best friend decided to fit in with them.

She became exactly like everyone else--cursing excessively, wearing the newest gay fashion trends, dyeing her hair, keeping her iPhone in her back phone, etc., In other words, she had conformed, and so I stopped talking to her since she wasn't the same person anymore. Now she's cutting herself and getting suspended from school for long amounts of time. She used to be such a good kid. It's pretty sad.

Not to mention that she tried to kick me out of "her" lunch table to make room for her friend, which REALLY proved her asshole-ness to me. She tried telling me that there were plenty of empty tables I could sit at in the lunchroom when she knew DAMN WELL THAT THERE WERE NOT. Luckily I didn't move an inch and I still sit at my spot today. What really bothers me about this is that she basically told me "You're not cool enough to me anymore. Go sit at a table by yourself so my brand new friend has somewhere to sit."

I usually don't refer to other female humans as the formal term for a female dog but...

What a bitch.

Feel like slapping her... I am so sorry, though. It is truly horrible to see someone, someone close to you, screw you over. Better sooner then later, right? I'm glad you discovered her holy assholeness. My best advice for you would to get revenge Backstab that female dog every chance you get! As timf said, rejection can help you discover who a person is before it's too late.

Yeah, I'm really thankful that I figured out how much of a conformist dickbiscuit she was before too much damage was done. Actually, after musing about some of her past behavior for quite some time, I think she was going to change into what she is now all along.

And I don't think revenge will be necessary. Besides, she's transferred to a new school now. Yesterday I heard that she's still getting into trouble and is bisexual/a lesbian now. What a troubled, confused soul she is. She was a good kid not even 2-3 years ago. It weird how fast people can change when they hang out with the wrong peeps.

(04-11-2014 09:29 AM)MichaelTownley Wrote: By the way Christian Hellhound, I really hope you pull it through. One day, the lack of friends is really going to get to you. In my experience, it definitely did.

Ehh, I'll be fine.

04-13-2014 08:05 AM

Shallow kids are shallow.

Illuzion · 04-16-2014 11:27 AM

It's okay. If you need a digital friend I don't cut myself Yes

butidoswearalotsonorefundsfuckalsoihategayfashiontrendsbecausetheyaretoohomosexualformeohfuckthisislong

brainiac3397 · 04-16-2014 01:21 PM

Suits are for real men.

craxyguy562 · 04-16-2014 01:37 PM

(04-16-2014 11:27 AM)Illuzion Wrote: It's okay. If you need a digital friend I don't cut myself
butidoswearalotsonorefundsfuckalsoihategayfashiontrendsbecausetheyaretoohomosexualformeohfuckthisislong

Translation: It's okay. If you need a digital friend I don't cut myself, but I do swear a lot so no refunds, fuck. Also I hate gay fashion trends because they are too homosexual for me. Oh fuck this is long!

brainiac3397 · 04-16-2014 02:10 PM

I call that hipster hippy fashion.

Threaded Mode \| Linear Mode My ex-best friend.
Author	Message