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Heres what happened. It was in my French class. The class is really loud and noisy and people don't give a shit, my teachers pretty nice (or I thought so) and she acctually tries to help us. Anyway while the class was fooling around, this one REALLY religious kid and atheist kid were arguing about same sex marriage. I was sitting beside them reading. The religious kid is the biggest asshole i have ever met. He makes fun of different race people for being that race, like he makes fun of an African person for being dark-skinned. And he thinks that its fine because he goes to church and god will forgive him. The atheist kid is really nice. He's a smart kid, he's helped me out alot. Anyway so their fighting, and the religious kid asked me, "Your christian right? Don't you think gay people are stupid?" I simply told him, "I don't have a religion and I dont believe in god." THAT'S LITERALLY ALL I SAID. The kid goes to the teacher and tells her about how i don't believe in god. And she said she would see me and the atheist kid after class. BTW this is a public High School, not a catholic or christian school. She doesn't get the principal involved, she just lectures us about how believing is healthy for us, and that we need god in our life, and she asks if we were gay and gave us these fucking panflets! I really don't know how I ended up here, all I did was answer the fucktards question. My mom always knew I wasn't religious and she was respectful of that. The teacher emailed my mom and the other kids mom, now we have detention for a week. My moms pissed the fuck off. And im scared shes gonna start a riot or something
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Oh my. That's blatant constitutional rights violation. Religion (and political views as well) are not supposed to be preached in high school. You could actually take this to court, especially with the favoritism.
Oh, and that Christian kid is a massive douche. I hate Christians that are racist/terrible people. Hypocrites. Reminds me of Frederick Douglass' opinion on religious slaveholders.
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RE: I got Detention for stating an opinion
If your mom is on your side, just don't go to detention and let the teacher face her wrath. Also, let the admins know about this. It might be enough to get that teacher fired or at least warned.
Hello, traveler.
This is an ancient account I have not used in a long time. My views have changed much in the intervening months and years.
Nonetheless, I refuse to clean it up. Pretending that I've held my current views since the beginning of time is what we in the industry call a lie. Asking people to do so contributes to moralistic self-loathing. "See, those people have nothing damning! I do! I'm truly vile!"
Because you can never be a good person with a single blemish on the moral record, I thought that simply entertaining some thoughts made me irredeemable. Though I don't care for his writing style, William Faulkner presents a good counterexample. He went from being a typical Southern racist to supporting the civil rights movement. These days we'd yell at him for that, probably.
People are allowed to change their views.
Nevertheless, this period of my life has informed some of how I am today. In good ways and bad ways. To purge it would be to do a disservice to history. Perhaps it will not make anyone sympathetic, but it may help someone understand.
If, after reading all this, you still decide to use the post above as evidence that I am evil today, ask yourself if you have never disagreed with the moral code you now follow. In all likelihood you did, at some point. If some questions are verboten, and the answer is "how dare you ask that," don't expect your ideological opponents to ever change their minds.
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I would take it to court. Talk to the school, if they don't do anything go to the board, if they don't do anything sue them. ACLU might(and probably will) help you. Although if I were there....I would have yelled at her. Then again my dad would go batshit insane and call the school(and the board) and threaten to have news stations down there(which isn't entirely impossible), and might actually take it to court.
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At least it seems like your mom is with you. The religious kid sounds like an asshole, and that teacher doesn't seem to know what "Separation of Church and State" is.
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RE: I got Detention for stating an opinion
I dont think that's legal at all(unless you're in a Bible Belt state)
I hate the religious folk that do stupid/bad shit then say "God will forgive me" as an excuse. Fuck that shit. God wont forgive you and I sure as hell won't either.
"My wife's cooking sucks so Im going to blow her brains out with my shotgun. Im not afraid because I know god will forgive me!"
My belief is that its your intentions that factor in here. If you intend to do something wrong or act like an asshole, expecting god to give you a free pass because you think you're doing the right thing doing wrong, Im doubtful god has any intention of forgiving. Especially those who frequently use this excuse.
I think it is better thought of as god forgives the repentant and mistakes, not the repeat offender who just expects a pat on the back.
You should have said "That kid got god in his life but his god must be Satan cause he is one bigoted son of a bitch!" XD
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Sue.
Sue sue sue sue sue sue sue sue sue sue sue.
SUUUEEE THE FUCKING SCHOOL.
BLATANT violation of the constitution.
Do it.
I don't care. Do it. Sue. You'll win.
Unless you live in Texas, you'll win.
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Don't sue. Go to the admins and talk to them. Tell them about being punished for your beliefs, and demand reversing the detentions and an apology from the teacher.
And if they side with her, sue their fucking asses off.
Also, I don't mind it if someone is against homosexuality as a practice (As long as they keep that belief IN CHURCH and not in the government. And they don't try to "change" homosexuals or condemn them.) But, "Gay people are stupid?" Asshole.
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Once again, I am ashamed to call myself a Christian...
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but the fire burning in my heart cannot be doused by anyone.
Even if the black rain falling from the sky drenches me completely and doesn't stop,
I will never allow the fire in my heart to be extinguished. That, is my 'pride'." - Core Pride
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Thanks for the help guys, my mom and I just told the lawyer, he said all I have to do is confirm this when he explains it to the judge. My moms not during just trying to get the teacher dired or transferred to a Christian school
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That's crazy. Blatant abuse of power. Keep us posted, I'm interested to see how this develops.
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I'd assume he pursuing some legal action Xcriteria.
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(01-19-2014 04:55 AM)xcriteria Wrote: Well, yeah, I'm just curious about the details.
I guess the big question is whether this is just a move the teacher made, that the school didn't know about, or whether the school is the root problem.
Doesn't matter. The teacher violated the constitution. And she deserves consequences.
Maybe I'm being too harsh. But I'm big on separation of church and state.
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Im big on annihilation of church and state.
But not many people feel comfortable discussing this topic in a non-idealist style. Supposedly only idealists are permitred to believe in radical ideas.
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freedom of not having a religion.
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(01-19-2014 05:08 AM)Night Wrote: (01-19-2014 04:55 AM)xcriteria Wrote: Well, yeah, I'm just curious about the details.
I guess the big question is whether this is just a move the teacher made, that the school didn't know about, or whether the school is the root problem.
Doesn't matter. The teacher violated the constitution. And she deserves consequences.
Maybe I'm being too harsh. But I'm big on separation of church and state.
No, no, take it from a level-headed Christian; what you're saying is perfectly reasonable.
This constitutes not only a failure (on this teacher's part) to uphold the law of the land, but the metaphorical law of God Himself. To force one's will on another, even to pretend it's for God's sake, is sinful.
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(01-19-2014 04:36 AM)SoulRiser Wrote:
That's crazy. Blatant abuse of power. Keep us posted, I'm interested to see how this develops.
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I think it's more fun to be a racist atheist personally.
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French class was awkward today, people are starting to take it seriously cause exams are coming up, and me and atheist kid were the only one to raise our hands and she only picked the kids without theirs up. Religious kid is still being a douche, he claims he is a quarter native, and keeps telling people to get out of his country
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You should claim to be half-native then tell him to GTFO.
Why is it bad that you weren't picked? What were you being chosen for, exactly?
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I hate ANYONE who is ultra-religious/Ultra-Ahiest who like shove their crap down each throats
Wake up people, and look at life around you
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(01-21-2014 11:27 AM)Gwedin Wrote: You should claim to be half-native then tell him to GTFO.
Why is it bad that you weren't picked? What were you being chosen for, exactly?
She was quizzing us and we get participation marks if we answer
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