Monogamous sex with multiple partners

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What is it with people and fucking? On my bus, this dumb bitch was bragging about how many people she had on her "hook up list" (for those who don't know like I used to, it's a list of people you want to fuck), and how she was almost done with it. There was a freshman girl who bragged about how she got fucked without a condom on her 13th birthday, and laughed over how her parents made her take the morning-after pill when they found out. And then there's always those girls who give seven consecutive blowjobs and wonder why they feel like puking afterwards. It seems like every single girl in my school is a total fucking whore.
The guys are worse. There's guys brag about how many bitches they "bagged" and how much fucking they did when they got drunk/high at some random person's party, and that anyone who hasn't had sex before is a pathetic quasi-human who doesn't deserve to live, as if the number of times you've had sex is proportional to how masculine you are and the more sex you've had the better you are than everyone else.
Hook-up lists? What the fuck? Humanity has reached a new low if it's the "cool" and "popular" thing to do to have lists full of dozens of people you want to fuck for no reason whatsoever. Why the fuck don't people know how to think, instead of being mindless, teenage-stereotype-enforcing fuckwits who think mindlessly fucking "bagging bitches" is the only way to get respect?

EDIT: Oh, and I forgot to mention, intimate relationships are based entirely on looks. Personality is never taken into account, ever. And because of the continuous stupidification of people, nobody's ever going to learn that relationships based entirely on appearance fail. Expect relationships to be based entirely on looks some time in the near future.

[Sunbourn]

http://www.sojones.com/news/1636-facebo ... vs-sister/

[CrayolaColours]

|55555| Wrote:http://www.sojones.com/news/1636-faceboo...vs-sister/

I think I remember you posting that earlier.
That was awesome.

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|55555| Wrote:http://www.sojones.com/news/1636-faceboo...vs-sister/

That's the thing that made me create this topic.

I'm tired of fucktarded dumbasses having conversations like these:
Guy: "hey ur hot, wanna fuk 2nite?"
Girl: "lol sure ur hot"
*mindless fucking*
Guy: "ok gtfo i need to fuk more girls"
Girl: "nooo i luv u!"
*Girl secretly marks Guy off of her hook-up list and proceeds to have more sex with other random people*

[HeartofShadows]

God you make me so happy I'm out of high school.

On another note nice avatar and you and Ceiling cat have alot in common.

[Wingless]

Quote:The guys are worse. There's guys brag about how many bitches they "bagged" and how much fucking they did when they got drunk/high at some random person's party, and that anyone who hasn't had sex before is a pathetic quasi-human who doesn't deserve to live, as if the number of times you've had sex is proportional to how masculine you are and the more sex you've had the better you are than everyone else.

Fucking this. I fucking hear way too much of "hurr durr I fucked a girl im cool now and i have a life", or "hey man you need to be a real man and fuck a few bitches, or else you're a nerd hurr hurr". Even worse, I see at least one stupid fuck couple practically fucking each other through their clothes in the halls every few days. I've seriously wished that execution for being a fucking moron was acceptable.

[Rebelnerd]

Don't expect it to get any better in college. The other day I had dinner with a girl I really like, and when I got back my roommate asked me if we were "just friends" or more. I said that at the moment we were friends, but I was hoping that would change. He responded "well, you know drugs and alcohol can get you pretty far." I told him that people who do that are the scum of the Earth and if I ever did it too, then I would have to kill myself. He looked at me like he thought I was crazy.
Very few things enrage me more than people who show no respect for the people they have sex with. Admittedly I don't know much about this kind of thing, but it seems to me like having someone who loves you and trusts you enough to do that would be unlike anything else a human being can experience. I can't even imagine it. It sounds wonderful. And these people treat it like a cheap toy that they can throw away when they get tired of it.

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Rebelnerd Wrote:Don't expect it to get any better in college. The other day I had dinner with a girl I really like, and when I got back my roommate asked me if we were "just friends" or more. I said that at the moment we were friends, but I was hoping that would change. He responded "well, you know drugs and alcohol can get you pretty far." I told him that people who do that are the scum of the Earth and if I ever did it too, then I would have to kill myself. He looked at me like he thought I was crazy.

Humanity is doomed.

[Happy Camper]

Rebelnerd Wrote:Don't expect it to get any better in college. The other day I had dinner with a girl I really like, and when I got back my roommate asked me if we were "just friends" or more. I said that at the moment we were friends, but I was hoping that would change. He responded "well, you know drugs and alcohol can get you pretty far." I told him that people who do that are the scum of the Earth and if I ever did it too, then I would have to kill myself. He looked at me like he thought I was crazy.
Very few things enrage me more than people who show no respect for the people they have sex with. Admittedly I don't know much about this kind of thing, but it seems to me like having someone who loves you and trusts you enough to do that would be unlike anything else a human being can experience. I can't even imagine it. It sounds wonderful. And these people treat it like a cheap toy that they can throw away when they get tired of it.

Guh. I am currently in a situation in which my best friend, someone I'm very intimate with in spite of a lot of mileage between us is in a relationship with someone he doesn't really respect. His previous girlfriend was like that too. He have a lot of chemistry and we've connected on an intellectual and kindred level that both of us acknowledge to be incredibly rare and we're not sure either of us have encountered it before we met each other. But he's not sure he can be in an emotional relationship with me because it would spoil our intellectual bond we have. He actually respects me and he feels it's criminal to enter an intimate relationship with me.

So...when I find a guy I'm finally willing to fuck (because I haven't yet, have you seen the scum that infest high schools and colleges?) he's in a position to idolize me rather than treat me like a person.

And I never get any because I like pillow talk to consist of the cosmos and philosophy and literature and I haven't found anyone who I really respect enough and enjoy talking about those things with who I'm also attracted to.

God damn, shit, fuck. That is essentially the story of my life.

[Loxor]

Monogamous sex with multiple partners?

What?

Do you mean Polygamous?

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[Vatman]

I don't really see that much wrong with having multiple sexual partners. Okay before you hop on the hate train hear me out.

I am not saying that it is intelligent
I am not saying that it isn't rediculous to have fuck lists
I am not saying that it is moral

I'm just saying that two concenting individuals having sex isn't wrong. Yes I agree that popular culture has turned lovemaking into something of a joke, and I absolutly agree that people who use drugs and alchohal to seduce people into sleeping with them are the scum of the earth. But I don't understand is why your treating the people who waste their lives pursing an ungratifying string of one night stands as criminals. Although I am not of this breed and really never have been, I still sympathise with them.

What do you think about the moment you see a really attractive person. Do you think, woah I would really like to get to know them better....No, you think about having sex with them...possibly in the bathroom of a 7/11. Lets just assume that these are people who don't have better judgement, because lets face it. They don't. They are just following their natural human impulses. And personally, I don't see anything morally wrong with actually acting upon your desires.

I personally subscribe to the belief that sex should stop being such a taboo, its so important to human psychology as well as human evolution that this overidealization of sex is actually hurting more than its helping.

[Faby]

What is so bad about having non-committal sex?

If both (or more) parties agree, and if both, or more, parties know that all there is to it is just pure, normal sex, and not love, and if they use condoms and not have mindless bunny reproduction sessions, then I don't see anything wrong.

I prefer fapping, but if the time came when I wanted just sex and not love, and if there were an individual as free-minded as to not go "ZOMG SEX WITHOUT LUUUUV HOW EVIL" on me, I'd be happy to do it with her. Or him.

I'm much more bothered by people who think sex should be some unattainable, holy, sacred thing that should only be done once a year at full-moon and when the lavenders are in full bloom. Sex is dirty, it's animalistic, primitive and most of all, natural.

[Rebelnerd]

Hey, nobody's saying that we should try and stop people from having noncommittal sex. As long as its consensual then it's their right. But that doesn't mean I have to like it. There's a lot of things people do that I think are wrong but I still recognize their right to do it, just as they should recognize my right to hate them for it.

[Ceiling Cat]

I wouldn't hate people for that, but apparently our world is overpopulated because nearly every person in HS soon morphs into a Zerg Hatchery constantly consuming vespene gas alcohol, and spawning more overlords. And oh, if you bring up the biological clock - fine, but you forgot it's been meant for times when we had half the lifespan we do now.

Oh, and they shun me and keep calling me a faggot for not becoming one of them. Enough of a reason to rage at sight. Not to mention active fighting any signs of self-control, to the point of aggressive conversion tactics or getting them out of the way (sup nuthouses and suicide).

It IS a reason to be concerned when those who see the threat are nearly extinct.

[returnal]

Quite honestly, I think sex itself is quite disgusting.

+1 anti-social points

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Loxor Wrote:Monogamous sex with multiple partners?

What?

Do you mean Polygamous?

The definition of "monogamous" is "having only one sexual partner at a time." While I'm technically using it correctly, there are many situations where "polygamous" would work too. Like, at a dickfag's party where only the deemed "popular" and "cool" are invited and they all get drunk and end up gangbanging a drunk girl.

[Happy Camper]

Vatman Wrote:What do you think about the moment you see a really attractive person. Do you think, woah I would really like to get to know them better....No, you think about having sex with them...possibly in the bathroom of a 7/11.

I don't mean to stick to my high horse. But never. Never ever.

The brain is the sexiest organ of them all. The body counts for something too, I'm not gonna fall into that hole where I'd say I'd fuck an ugly intelligent person in a heartbeat.

But I could fuck someone really smart and not great looking. I don't feel I could ever fuck someone incredibly good looking whose intellect and conscious being, I didn't admire.

I'm told men are very inclined to be experts at separating sex from emotions. And girls are inclined to be unable to do so. (Stereotypes, yes, but also generally true.) I don't appreciate it becoming acceptable.

Granted, I do say this as someone who has hooked up occasionally. But it doesn't happen often and all parties I knew as friends for several years first.

[Vatman]

The 7/11 thing was meant to be a joke. Never ever is absolutely right. I'm a Wendies sort of guy myself.

The thing is, you can't separate the physical from sexuality. Imagine if you will an 84 year old man on stage speaking in almost lyrical perfection on philosophy and all other aspects of life... Your mind can be enthralled by what he has to say, it can fall in love with the very thought of him. But I would be completely bewildered if you were to say that your mind would immediately thrust itself into ideas of sexual intimacy.

The fact of the matter is, that women are just as sexual as men...if not equal than even more sexual. I don't believe that anyone can separate sex from emotions, women or men. And I believe lust to have the qualities of an emotion.

I don't doubt for a moment that for you personally to develop a physical relationship with a man you would have to respect his intellect; I'm merely suggesting that your mind in its most primitive level first see's a stimulus and then reacts to it, i.e. the attractiveness of a male comes first into question before he ever opens his well formed lips.