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August 2001 - June 2017
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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.
I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.
I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.
I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.
I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.
Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.
Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.
-SoulRiser
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"You've GOT to focus on this project. It's important!"
Lately, my mom has been nagging me about doing this shitty, pointless project for Physical Science class where I have to make a mousetrap car. Today, when I told her I needed this product from the store to untangle one of my cosplay wigs she nearly bit my fucking head off! She asked me, "Have you even assembled your mouse trap car yet? You need to be worrying about that." Well, no, because YOU still haven't bought the fucking special glue or epoxy I fucking need to even do that. But whatever, fuck my interests and things I actually care about, let's focus on making something that'll only earn me a retarded letter that says "You're smarter than a brick" because school and grades are more important than anything else in the universe.
GO DIE IN A FUCKING HOLE, SCHOOL. YOU ONLY FOLLOW ME EVERYWHERE AND RUIN MY LIFE. DIE.
/end rant
"No matter what I do, it'll probably forever remain a pipe dream that will never come true,
but the fire burning in my heart cannot be doused by anyone.
Even if the black rain falling from the sky drenches me completely and doesn't stop,
I will never allow the fire in my heart to be extinguished. That, is my 'pride'." - Core Pride
Both Will Richardson and Seth Godin are parents, and have TEDx talks as well.
Things are changing... explore what people are saying, use items like these to facilitate conversations with others in your life, and report back on what comes of it.
That's one way to channel that very understandable anger and frustration.
In short, it doesn't have to be like this forever. Interest-based learning is a key starting point... all kinds of interests can be followed to learning things that do matter. So, if that viewpoint is understood by more people, maybe there can be less pointless projects, and more awarding of points for things that people want to work on.