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Rude vs Respect (POTATO!!!)
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craxyguy562
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Rude vs Respect (POTATO!!!)
If two don't respect eachother(don't look up to or down to) does that give the right to be rude AKA a total to the other becuase "respect is a two way street"?
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No.
If you don't respect each other, then it ends there. Being rude just means you're taking it personally.(and being very immature)
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Brain summed it up pretty well.
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RE: Rude vs Respect
(05-27-2014 01:10 PM)Hansgrohe Wrote: (05-27-2014 12:42 PM)DoA Wrote: Brain summed it up pretty well.
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(06-14-2013 08:02 AM)Potato Wrote: watch the fuq out, we've got an "intellectual" over here.
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(05-27-2014 01:27 PM)brainiac3397 Wrote: (05-27-2014 01:10 PM)Hansgrohe Wrote: (05-27-2014 12:42 PM)DoA Wrote: Gwedin summed it up pretty well.
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Potato
Pretty Much my only signature...I'm mainly a lurker....you can find me on the IRC (or on DnE and their IRC).
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I don't think there even is such a thing as a "right" to be rude...
But yeah, I agree... definitely potato.
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RE: Rude vs Respect
#UNBANPOTATO2014
Hello, traveler.
This is an ancient account I have not used in a long time. My views have changed much in the intervening months and years.
Nonetheless, I refuse to clean it up. Pretending that I've held my current views since the beginning of time is what we in the industry call a lie. Asking people to do so contributes to moralistic self-loathing. "See, those people have nothing damning! I do! I'm truly vile!"
Because you can never be a good person with a single blemish on the moral record, I thought that simply entertaining some thoughts made me irredeemable. Though I don't care for his writing style, William Faulkner presents a good counterexample. He went from being a typical Southern racist to supporting the civil rights movement. These days we'd yell at him for that, probably.
People are allowed to change their views.
Nevertheless, this period of my life has informed some of how I am today. In good ways and bad ways. To purge it would be to do a disservice to history. Perhaps it will not make anyone sympathetic, but it may help someone understand.
If, after reading all this, you still decide to use the post above as evidence that I am evil today, ask yourself if you have never disagreed with the moral code you now follow. In all likelihood you did, at some point. If some questions are verboten, and the answer is "how dare you ask that," don't expect your ideological opponents to ever change their minds.
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#WHEREISPOTATO21CENTURY
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(06-14-2013 08:02 AM)Potato Wrote: watch the fuq out, we've got an "intellectual" over here.
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RE: Rude vs Respect (POTATO!!!)
If kindness doesn't seem to work, be kind anyway. There is power in kindness and little to no power in disrespect and spite. The more positive person is more deserving of respect than the negative one. ( there is nothing good about rudeness, it is a sign that your ego is emerging, ego is destructive so watch out!)
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Ego = I(self)
Not to be a smart-ass...but ego gonna be a smart-ass.
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(06-14-2013 08:02 AM)Potato Wrote: watch the fuq out, we've got an "intellectual" over here.
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SCREW POTATO, UNBAN GORE GORATH!
Seriously, Gore was the disrespectful one. Potato was undoubtedly a troll. I wasn't sure about Gore.
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RE: Rude vs Respect (POTATO!!!)
Self centeredness to be exact.
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Anyone else getting tired of the "unban" jokes?
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RE: Rude vs Respect (POTATO!!!)
(05-30-2014 11:48 AM)DoA Wrote: Anyone else getting tired of the "unban" jokes?
no.
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RE: Rude vs Respect (POTATO!!!)
You called?
Hello, traveler.
This is an ancient account I have not used in a long time. My views have changed much in the intervening months and years.
Nonetheless, I refuse to clean it up. Pretending that I've held my current views since the beginning of time is what we in the industry call a lie. Asking people to do so contributes to moralistic self-loathing. "See, those people have nothing damning! I do! I'm truly vile!"
Because you can never be a good person with a single blemish on the moral record, I thought that simply entertaining some thoughts made me irredeemable. Though I don't care for his writing style, William Faulkner presents a good counterexample. He went from being a typical Southern racist to supporting the civil rights movement. These days we'd yell at him for that, probably.
People are allowed to change their views.
Nevertheless, this period of my life has informed some of how I am today. In good ways and bad ways. To purge it would be to do a disservice to history. Perhaps it will not make anyone sympathetic, but it may help someone understand.
If, after reading all this, you still decide to use the post above as evidence that I am evil today, ask yourself if you have never disagreed with the moral code you now follow. In all likelihood you did, at some point. If some questions are verboten, and the answer is "how dare you ask that," don't expect your ideological opponents to ever change their minds.
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RE: Rude vs Respect (POTATO!!!)
Yes
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Okay, that one was actually kind of funny
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RE: Rude vs Respect (POTATO!!!)
(05-30-2014 11:48 AM)DoA Wrote: Anyone else getting tired of the "unban" jokes?
Who's joking?
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Unban Justin!
Er yeah, I don't think people will ever stop the unban jokes. 
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DUELIX 4 ADMIN
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DUELIX 4 GOD
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(06-02-2014 01:27 PM)Gwedin Wrote: GWENDIN 4 KFCNYANCAT'S LOYAL SERVANT
fix'd
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