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Having a rough time lately

Sorry everyone to make ANOTHER ACCOUNT,but due to recent problems i must

Anyways, lately its been rough, i was caught watching porn, and grounded, and then i basically have this choice,use my computer with parental controls or i can not use my computer

For the past 3 weeks ive been doing ALL my chores and everyone is saying im doing a great job, the porn thing happened 1 week ago, and i screwed up this morning and forgot to give the dog water, and now there threatening to take all my stuff away, this is why i dont like to do anything because once i do they like to put a chain on my neck, what should i do?
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RE: Having a rough time lately

I feel your pain. My parents do that too. When I didn't clean my room they took it from me. The best thing to do is to try to "counter their moves".

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What sort of parental control they using?

They caught you watching porn in the act of watching?(as in walked in) or was it just from history or they found a tab/page open?

Did you argue about the fact you've been doing all chores fine and that missing one is not worthy of their over-reaction?

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Yes i did argue that, they said they didnt care, and they walked in on me watching it, and they are considering the program Net Nanny,

crazyguy what do you mean
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Dude nothing wrong with watching porn literally everyone watches porn nowadays

I got a dog too and sometimes I forget to give him water so I'm on the same boat but your parents threatening so much is obviously unnecessary I mean come on u messed up one little thing, unless the dog suffers frequently which I kinda doubt
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That's what someone else told me.

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anyways now im done with porn,time for good ol imaginaiton, haha
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Aren't there times they aren't at home? You could just wait for those times...

I defeated my parental control once upon a time using task manager. I just found the process and killed the process tree. That way it was disabled completely, at least until the computer was shut off or reset. Then I'd just have to repeat the process.

Silly parents.

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Good point Ario I should stop making assumptions
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Or just use different words...like "almost everyone".

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Yeah good point
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Kill em with kindness Ario no reason to be mean to you anyway so
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Because there is no logical purpose in debilitating one's self by seeing everything in a negative fashion.

Just because an insult is sent, doesn't mean it has to be received and accepted.

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just got yelled at again and threatened, my job is to clean patio, and my mom said she had to remind me yet it was only 4 in the afternoon, i dont get this, i knew i had to,and there was still 4hours left in the day basically, oh! and i put laundry on the table while i was getting other laundry stuff out,
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This is pretty fucking lulzy. I really get irritated when parents go fucking mad over their teens watching porn.

Actually, I have a friend who, I shit you not, has a dad that doesn't give a shit whether he watches porn. Actually, his dad introduced him to some porn.

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(03-10-2014 11:14 AM)Hansgrohe Wrote:  This is pretty fucking lulzy. I really get irritated when parents go fucking mad over their teens watching porn.

Actually, I have a friend who, I shit you not, has a dad that doesn't give a shit whether he watches porn. Actually, his dad introduced him to some porn.

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Watching porn beats getting STDs or "knocking up" some teen chick.

Hormones can cause you to get into bad situations. Porn can help alleviate some of that pressure.

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Hooray for wasted sperm!
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Sperm is never wasted at the rate the body makes it at.

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I was trying to be sacrilegious xD
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(03-10-2014 11:14 AM)Hansgrohe Wrote:  This is pretty fucking lulzy. I really get irritated when parents go fucking mad over their teens watching porn.

Actually, I have a friend who, I shit you not, has a dad that doesn't give a shit whether he watches porn. Actually, his dad introduced him to some porn.

Err, don't most parents not give a shit?
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My parents never caught me watching porn, but I'm pretty sure they'd would freak out if they did.

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