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Quote:A woman who admitting allowing her five-month-old daughter to be raped by a man she met online was handed down two consecutive life sentences without probation today.

Tessa L. Vanvlerah, 22, from St Louis, was charged with first-degree statutory rape and sodomy, as well as incest and child pornography.

Her attorneys failed to convince a judge that she should get probation because she suffers from a psychological disorder.

Dr Brooke Kraushaar said a dependent-personality disorder caused Vanvlerah to participate in the sexual fantasies of Kenneth M. Kyle, 49, a college professor from California, even though she knew sex acts involving her then-five-month-old daughter were wrong.

Kyle was sentenced to 37-and-a-half years in prison in March after pleading guilty of abusing the infant during several occasions in 2009, according to St Louis Today.

Along with hundreds of child porn images on Kyle's computers, investigators found information that led them to the St Louis area, where Kyle had visited Vanvlerah four times in five months since meeting online.

During those visits, prosecutors say the pair had sex with the girl and each other at various hotels.

Dr Kraushaar also told the court that the 22-year-old was so afraid of being rejected by others that she also allowed Kyle to choke, burn and urinate on her.

But prosecutors said Vanvlerah exercised free will when she started communicating online with Kyle and sharing child pornography. She also carved his name into her arm at his request but refused when he suggested bestiality.
They also said she spoke with another man who sent her child pornography and invited him to also come and have sex with her infant daughter.

Assistant Prosecuting Attorney Kathi Alizadeh also pointed out that Vanvlerah willingly posed for pictures with Kyle and her daughter.

St Louis today also reported that a woman obtained an order of protection in 2008 against Vanvlerah, then 18, accusing her of seducing and having sex with the woman's 16-year-old autistic son.

The autistic boy is believed to be the father of the infant in the case.

The infant, who is now three years old, was placed with a foster mother who has since adopted her.

She read out a victim's impact statement saying the child would scream when anyone bathed her or changed her diaper.

Even now she has night terrors and asks every night to make sure no one comes into the home.

The woman, in tears, said the girl was getting better day by day now that she 'is no longer Tessa's plaything and she is no longer Tessa's child'.

The article: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...ead_module

Did anyone else read this? See why would someone do that? I mean, why the hell would you? Dependent-personality disorder, my ass. And that's a lousy attorney, too, if that's all they could come up with.
What kills me, though, is all the comments saying they deserve to die and all that. It's barbaric, in fact. I don't know, what would you say?

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Haha 2 consecutive life sentences owned!

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(05-11-2012 09:31 AM)HeartofShadows Wrote:  Haha 2 consecutive life sentences owned!

What's the point of having more than one life sentence? Is the justice system religious?

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IT'S AWWWWRRIGGHHTT

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Kill them both.

Good thing the girl has actual people who care about her now. I hope they don't raise her religiously though, that would likely compound the damage from the abuse.

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(05-11-2012 09:34 AM)The Wrote:  
(05-11-2012 09:31 AM)HeartofShadows Wrote:  Haha 2 consecutive life sentences owned!

What's the point of having more than one life sentence? Is the justice system religious?

Life sentences almost always get cut down for good behavior. (Or at least, it seems that way in the news lol.)

I think they are ensuring she dies in prison by giving her two. Or some shit.

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(05-11-2012 09:34 AM)The Wrote:  
(05-11-2012 09:31 AM)HeartofShadows Wrote:  Haha 2 consecutive life sentences owned!

What's the point of having more than one life sentence? Is the justice system religious?

It's basically a big 'Fuck you' to the person convicted.
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Aya pretty much said it.

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So if you get parole for one life sentence, you're still in for the other?

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Yup. Although with this case that wouldn't happen. Both life sentences were without parole anyway. One would've been enough. Giving her multiple sentences is basically the courts way of saying that what she did is so wrong that she won't live long enough to pay her debt to society or her daughter.
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Fuck those cunts!
They deserve life sentence in being a toilet.
No wait...they'd probably enjoy that...

Wait, she said "No" to beastiality. But it's okay to fuck the baby and piss all over her. Makes sense.

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Urinate on a baby?
I want 5 minutes with them in an enclosed room.
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(05-12-2012 04:55 AM)bulgvar666 Wrote:  Urinate on a baby?
I want 5 minutes with them in an enclosed room.

So they can urinate on you too?

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(05-12-2012 05:22 AM)Absentinsomniac Wrote:  
(05-12-2012 04:55 AM)bulgvar666 Wrote:  Urinate on a baby?
I want 5 minutes with them in an enclosed room.

So they can urinate on you too?

Laugh

Gotta admit I laughed like crazy.. Good one absent.

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LOL

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(05-11-2012 09:34 AM)The Wrote:  
(05-11-2012 09:31 AM)HeartofShadows Wrote:  Haha 2 consecutive life sentences owned!

What's the point of having more than one life sentence? Is the justice system religious?

It's mostly mechanical. If they want to determine that you can get a life sentence on certain counts you will sometimes get people with multiple charges or multiple counts, and since you can have a verdict of multiple counts in the same trial, the sentence can get combined.
If you say there isn't a reason to give two life sentences and that becomes the law, things get slippery and people will also say there is no reason for say, eighty years without parole plus a life sentence then, and the rare case comes along where they avert time and so they just sort of let the broad rule take over I suppose.

(05-11-2012 09:47 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  Kill them both.

Good thing the girl has actual people who care about her now. I hope they don't raise her religiously though, that would likely compound the damage from the abuse.

They do not deserve to be killed by the government for these acts
I know, I'm glad about that too Smile Surprised no one else pointed that out

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(05-12-2012 04:55 AM)bulgvar666 Wrote:  Urinate on a baby?
I want 5 minutes with them in an enclosed room.

Yay. Bulgvar's back!! Hug

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chain them and electrocute them periodically without killing them and cut some of their skin and throw acid on them

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None of that is in our place to do for some supposed morality.

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I'm pretty fucking "amoral" and "corrupted" but the OP is one of the only things that has disgusted me "morally" in years/months.

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People have been murdered because of crimes they did or did not commit in the past. I'm glad the death sentence wasn't given even though I did not have to suffer that torture because I wouldn't wish it on any one.

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(05-13-2012 05:45 PM)M3116 Wrote:  People have been murdered because of crimes they did or did not commit in the past. I'm glad the death sentence wasn't given even though I did not have to suffer that torture because I wouldn't wish it on any one.

In general I agree about the innocent people being killed. That's why I do not support the death penalty, because I do not trust the government with it (though they still essentially have the power to kill anyone and get away with it).

I wonder where the girls father is? Let's say he wasn't a bum (or unlucky his partner ran away with the girl) and he killed both the professor and the mother, then I would not have him charged with any crime.

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Quote:I wonder where the girls father is?

"St Louis today also reported that a woman obtained an order of protection in 2008 against Vanvlerah, then 18, accusing her of seducing and having sex with the woman's 16-year-old autistic son.

The autistic boy is believed to be the father of the infant in the case. "

Probably still living with his parent/s for obvious reasons.

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i want to shit in the mother's and professor's mouths.
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(05-14-2012 12:24 AM)bulgvar666 Wrote:  i want to shit in the mother's and professor's mouths.

They'd likely enjoy that...

EDIT: Reading the OP's article was horrifying. The fact that this actually happened over my breathe is incredible. I'd like to think humankind could prevent things like this if they (or we, whichever) really wanted to. I wouldn't call any failure to do so "laziness" or a thanks to our lack of disgust towards such fuckups, but the result of desensitization and nonsensical opinions we've been mindlessly conditioned to hold ("it isn't our", metaphorically speaking, "sentence to stop" and that "other people will deal with it". No, they won't -- not until it's too late, as exampled here). Keep in mind also that many police forces have their child-pornography viewers... the fact that even one could go by unnoticed whilst serving a job of which permits them legal authority over others is proof enough this society needs a drastic change.

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It's fucked up that Kyle has the opportunity to get out in his lifetime though. He gets 37 1/2 years when he played an equally large role in the crime.

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(05-14-2012 01:02 AM)|55555| Wrote:  It's fucked up that Kyle has the opportunity to get out in his lifetime though. He gets 37 1/2 years when he played an equally large role in the crime.

Oh no..
After the white knights in prison get done with him he isn't going to be in any good shape.

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(05-14-2012 12:24 AM)bulgvar666 Wrote:  i want to shit in the mother's and professor's mouths.

really now bulgvar..
I know you have a scat fetish but please man be serious.

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(05-14-2012 01:52 AM)HeartofShadows Wrote:  
(05-14-2012 01:02 AM)|55555| Wrote:  It's fucked up that Kyle has the opportunity to get out in his lifetime though. He gets 37 1/2 years when he played an equally large role in the crime.

Oh no..
After the white knights in prison get done with him he isn't going to be in any good shape.

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Chaotic neutral so I can be cruel and selfish but still have a form of moral code and sense of fairness. I wish when the child is older and if this still bothered her I would let her judge both of them and hand out the punishment if it desired.

Yea man. There was one father who raped his daughter and put the videos all over the internet. Often times screencaps would be posted on 4chan. He was caught, according to the article they recognized a painting in the hotel where he was raping her. They checked the recent buyers and found out it was that hotel. Then all it took was asking who rented that room and of those who had a daughter.

Anyway from what I heard he got the shit beat out of him and he was raped numerous times and probably still does to this day.

White knights they may be but I am not against what they are doing to him in that situation lol

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OK, anyway, they are wasting air. Give them the death penalty, they don't deserve to breathe.
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