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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

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I'm just going to come out with it.
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Rebelnerd Wrote:Wow, I wasn't trying to be sexist at all but if you want to see it that way, whatever... It just seems to me like she's going through hell with her family and got pissed at us about it. It's irrational but it's not like only women do that.

It's more or less just a joke, we all know that women aren't inferior. Some incidents make me wonder though. Laugh

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Yeah lighten up Rebel. Laugh

We all know men act like stupid children with their pride.

My uncle almost froze to death in a house with no electricity during winter because his pride made him not want to call somebody to ask him he could room with them for the night.

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Eh, it just didn't really seem like the right time to start joking about shit. She was a good member and I'd really prefer not to see her leave.

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Humor helps to get through some tough moments besides I'm sure she'll be back. Smile

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Absentinsomniac Wrote:^ At least you had the balls to say it. I'm sure you and I aren't the only members of this forum who don't understand random fits like this.

I have a sister. Enough said.

I'm the youngest of 5 sisters an none of us act like that. You don't need to be a woman to be a whinny selfish bitch.
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Yeah, I know.

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And this is why we can't have nice jokes.

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KittyKatBlack Wrote:
Comrade Wrote:Whining cause you have a bitchy family is utter bullshit we all have fucked up "families" sorry you have no sympathy from me who cares if a troll topic got more atteniton than yours its the internet welcome to it

That was almost a sentence. Good job.

Anyway, I sent her a PM 2 or 3 days ago and she hasn't answered, so I'm guessing she's gone.
Im so glad you're are such a good english teacher, if I wanted to type grammatically correct, then I would. Sorry.
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I won't on the grounds that it would be a giant clusterfuck to anyone trying to read this.

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Comrade Wrote:Im so glad you're are such a good english teacher, if I wanted to type grammatically correct, then I would. Sorry.

Quote:Last edited by Comrade on Wed Dec 15, 2010 12:27 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Apparently you tried.
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KittyKatBlack Wrote:
Comrade Wrote:Im so glad you're are such a good english teacher, if I wanted to type grammatically correct, then I would. Sorry.

Quote:Last edited by Comrade on Wed Dec 15, 2010 12:27 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Apparently you tried.
I missed the "re" on you're sorry im just too lazy to type in proper english on the internet during my study hall too busy doing stuff i give 2 flying fucks about =D
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riiiight
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PEOPLE DIED SO THAT YOU MIGHT USE GOOD GRAMMAR SO FOR FUCK'S SAKE RESPECT THEIR SACRIFICE

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i refuse because i'm so edgy and modern i will not use your grammer faggort
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My brain just glitched. Not using grammar is edgy now? Huh.

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I know I'm putting a target on myself but I want to remember Crayola just in case she never comes back and I got an image that symbolizes the moment and event in where she left us.

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lolol

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Dude... Dude... Dude...



Nice.

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Nice.

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If it's not too late, I'd like to add that I second what Absent/Rebelnerd/Leon/probably a few more people said. Over the internet, we really can only do so much. And expecting people to know exactly when your family and shit is going downhill is like walking up to a person you met the other day and chewing them out because "they didn't notice it was your birthday". I mean, yeah they could have remembered, but can you really blame them for not doing so? I mean shit, you just met them and told them about it yesterday.

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HeartofShadows Wrote:I know I'm putting a target on myself but I want to remember Crayola just in case she never comes back and I got an image that symbolizes the moment and event in where she left us.

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HeartofShadows Wrote:I know I'm putting a target on myself but I want to remember Crayola just in case she never comes back and I got an image that symbolizes the moment and event in where she left us.

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I really hope she comes back now. Just so she can see that and get pissed off again.
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Ayliana Wrote:I really hope she comes back now. Just so she can see that and get pissed off again.

So VERY much this. It's unfair that a lot of people in SS escape the natural ritual of getting smeared with shit. It's her turn.

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So crayola is finaly gone? Good, now we can move on to multi colored pens, crayons are so kindergarden.

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LOL

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CC left? Why?
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