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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.
I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.
I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.
I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.
I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.
Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.
Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.
-SoulRiser
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(03-07-2012 01:37 PM)Sapphire Flames Wrote: ^ Yeah see, I assumed from the general consensus of non-bronies that bronies were all stark raving obsessed people.
On the internet, everyone assumes that everyone who doesn't agree with them is stark raving mad. And of course we do have some people in the fanbase who are truly insane. But our motto, love & tolerate, helps us to accept those people too- and in doing so, maybe show them a better example, so they can improve themselves.
"I have been allotted months of futility,
and nights of misery have been assigned to me.
When I lie down I think, ‘How long before I get up?’
The night drags on, and I toss and turn until dawn." Job 7:3-4
Both of my parents are teachers. My body is bound, but my mind is free.
No. I do not care for your supposed tolerance. I do not care for the fact your terrible show has enveloped the internet. I do not care for the fact that ponyfags have infected everything I hold dear with their cancer. I also do not care for the fact that it turned a potential irl bro into the biggest memespouting ponyfaggot I have ever witnessed. You sir, and the rest of your kind, can fuck off and die in a cesspit for all the fucks I give about your supposed "normality."
(03-07-2012 09:53 PM)BaronVonStrangle Wrote: No. I do not care for your supposed tolerance. I do not care for the fact your terrible show has enveloped the internet. I do not care for the fact that ponyfags have infected everything I hold dear with their cancer. I also do not care for the fact that it turned a potential irl bro into the biggest memespouting ponyfaggot I have ever witnessed. You sir, and the rest of your kind, can fuck off and die in a cesspit for all the fucks I give about your supposed "normality."
Well, first off I'm not a sir. I'm a ma'am, but I hate that term anyway, so just call me her, or she, or girl.
Second, maybe that "potential irl bro" is just trying to be friends? Maybe he doesn't know anything about you, and so is trying to hide it by covering his words with memes. If you told him, for serious, that it bothers you that he always speaks that way, and asked him not to do it because you genuinely find it irritating, he might lay off. He'll be even more likely to stop it if you can find some other topic to connect over, or- and this is the brony kicker- tell him, "you're not loving or tolerating." It might take awhile to break the habit, but if you gently reprimand him each time he spouts a meme he should eventually stop.
It would be easier if you would try to watch some of the episodes, so you can understand his jokes and share some laughter, but I don't think you're going to do that.
"I have been allotted months of futility,
and nights of misery have been assigned to me.
When I lie down I think, ‘How long before I get up?’
The night drags on, and I toss and turn until dawn." Job 7:3-4
Both of my parents are teachers. My body is bound, but my mind is free.
(03-07-2012 09:53 PM)BaronVonStrangle Wrote: No. I do not care for your supposed tolerance. I do not care for the fact your terrible show has enveloped the internet. I do not care for the fact that ponyfags have infected everything I hold dear with their cancer. I also do not care for the fact that it turned a potential irl bro into the biggest memespouting ponyfaggot I have ever witnessed. You sir, and the rest of your kind, can fuck off and die in a cesspit for all the fucks I give about your supposed "normality."
Well, first off I'm not a sir. I'm a ma'am, but I hate that term anyway, so just call me her, or she, or girl.
Second, maybe that "potential irl bro" is just trying to be friends? Maybe he doesn't know anything about you, and so is trying to hide it by covering his words with memes. If you told him, for serious, that it bothers you that he always speaks that way, and asked him not to do it because you genuinely find it irritating, he might lay off. He'll be even more likely to stop it if you can find some other topic to connect over, or- and this is the brony kicker- tell him, "you're not loving or tolerating." It might take awhile to break the habit, but if you gently reprimand him each time he spouts a meme he should eventually stop.
It would be easier if you would try to watch some of the episodes, so you can understand his jokes and share some laughter, but I don't think you're going to do that.
Story, you're not going to get anywhere with baron. All experienced SSers know that baron is a soulless gingerzombie with a black vortex for a heart. He also hates newfafs and MLP. Good luck.
(03-08-2012 07:41 AM)gore goroth Wrote: Story, you're not going to get anywhere with baron. All experienced SSers know that baron is a soulless gingerzombie with a black vortex for a heart. He also hates newfafs and MLP. Good luck.
Thanks for the heads up.
He must truly be a "soulless gingerzombie with a black vortex for a heart", though, considering how many times I've actually tried doing just what he suggests. Unfortunately, I have not succeeded, and am down a backpack (that was torn by the rocks I filled it with when I tried to drown) a few skin cells (judging by the scar tissue on my arms) and whatever it is Ibuprofen takes from you when you ingest about 34 times the normal dose.
MLP keeps me sane, and alive. He went a little too far.
"I have been allotted months of futility,
and nights of misery have been assigned to me.
When I lie down I think, ‘How long before I get up?’
The night drags on, and I toss and turn until dawn." Job 7:3-4
Both of my parents are teachers. My body is bound, but my mind is free.
(03-09-2012 09:59 PM)BaronVonStrangle Wrote: also @tdf:
That's kind of funny, actually- "wears a shirt made, and fit, for a young girl" I've said this before, but I am actually female. I can watch, wear, and buy all the pony stuff I want, and no one looks at me crosswise because, oh yeah, I'm just a few years older than the target audience. I'm sure there are bronies that are like the one in the picture, but I am not one of them. Gardening takes away your fat like you wouldn't believe, especially if you eat what you grow, and I don't wear a watch because I use my phone like everyone else.
Gosh guys, you of all people should know better than to think of a person as a stereotype.
"I have been allotted months of futility,
and nights of misery have been assigned to me.
When I lie down I think, ‘How long before I get up?’
The night drags on, and I toss and turn until dawn." Job 7:3-4
Both of my parents are teachers. My body is bound, but my mind is free.
(03-09-2012 09:59 PM)BaronVonStrangle Wrote: also @tdf:
That's kind of funny, actually- "wears a shirt made, and fit, for a young girl" I've said this before, but I am actually female. I can watch, wear, and buy all the pony stuff I want, and no one looks at me crosswise because, oh yeah, I'm just a few years older than the target audience. I'm sure there are bronies that are like the one in the picture, but I am not one of them. Gardening takes away your fat like you wouldn't believe, especially if you eat what you grow, and I don't wear a watch because I use my phone like everyone else.
Gosh guys, you of all people should know better than to think of a person as a stereotype.
STEREOTYPE EH????
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(This post was last modified: 03-15-2012 11:36 AM by SaintVicious.)
Dude, I'm not saying that stereotypes don't exist- of course there are people who match stereotypical descriptions, otherwise people wouldn't make them. Looking at your picture, though, it seems like there was only one stereotypical person out of all those bronies. There are 18 other people in that picture that do not match the stereotype. Thus, you have just proved my point that not all bronies match that description.
"I have been allotted months of futility,
and nights of misery have been assigned to me.
When I lie down I think, ‘How long before I get up?’
The night drags on, and I toss and turn until dawn." Job 7:3-4
Both of my parents are teachers. My body is bound, but my mind is free.
Dude, I'm not saying that stereotypes don't exist- of course there are people who match stereotypical descriptions, otherwise people wouldn't make them. Looking at your picture, though, it seems like there was only one stereotypical person out of all those bronies. There are 18 other people in that picture that do not match the stereotype. Thus, you have just proved my point that not all bronies match that description.
2/3 of those people want to have sex with their little cousins..... TROLLOLOLOLOL
ALSO :
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(This post was last modified: 03-15-2012 02:38 PM by UnschoolShqiponjë.)
Look, just go here: http://www.bronystudy.com/id9.html
This group of people did a HUGE survey of over 5,000 bronies to get their data. Educate yourselves.
"I have been allotted months of futility,
and nights of misery have been assigned to me.
When I lie down I think, ‘How long before I get up?’
The night drags on, and I toss and turn until dawn." Job 7:3-4
Both of my parents are teachers. My body is bound, but my mind is free.
(03-16-2012 12:57 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote: LOL at that study.
Quote:First of all, while 87% of the respondents were male,
Quote:Myth: Being a Brony is a male thing! BUSTED as Not True
LOLWUT?
Women can like the show too. And what does it matter what statistic of male/female likes it? The thing is, PEOPLE like it. People like what they like.
Also, you're not taking into account that not EVERY person who watches MLP participated in the study. Only 5,000 participated, and statistically, there are much more.
Hidden stuff:
TRIGGER WARNING: THIS TRIGGER WARNING CONTAINS TRIGGER WARNINGS!
Dear Tumblrites:Despite your wrongly self-diagnosedPTSD, no line ofscientific evidencesuggests people can be triggered over theinternet. Triggering works through thesenses(i.e. smell, taste, touch, vision, hearing.) but it goes throughreal time; if you're not experiencing it in real life as it'sACTUALLY HAPPENINGin yourACTUALlife, youCANNOTbe triggered. The only exception to this is if you have aseizure, but then again, that's triggered byepilepsy(i.e. rapidly-changing flashing lights)NOT PTSD. Remembering a bad incident is NOT the same thing as having aflashback. When you remember, youthink; when youflashback,youfeel.
#HashTagsAreForIdiots
Max Stirnir Wrote:"In the time of spirits thoughts grew till they overtopped my head, whose offspring they yet were; they hovered about me and convulsed me like fever-phantasies -- an awful power. The thoughts had become corporeal on their own account, were ghosts, e. g. God, Emperor, Pope, Fatherland, etc. If I destroy their corporeity, then I take them back into mine, and say: "I alone am corporeal." And now I take the world as what it is to me, as mine, as my property; I refer all to myself."The Ego and Its Own, pg. 15
Charles Manson Wrote:“Look down at me and you see a fool;
look up at me and you see a god;
look straight at me and you see yourself”
HeartofShadows Wrote:"Life is nothing more than a druggie trying to get their quick fix of happiness while dealing with the harsh withdrawal of reality"
Osip Mandelstam Wrote:"I divide all of world literature into authorized and unauthorized works. The former are all trash; the latter--stolen air. I want to spit in the face of every writer who first obtains permission and then writes."The Fourth Prose, 1930.
Lukas Foss Wrote:That is why the analogy of stealing does not work. With a thief, we want to know how much money he stole, and from whom. With the artist it is not how much he took and from whom, but what he did with it.
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(This post was last modified: 03-16-2012 01:23 AM by Sociopath.)
(03-16-2012 12:57 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote: LOL at that study.
Quote:First of all, while 87% of the respondents were male,
Quote:Myth: Being a Brony is a male thing! BUSTED as Not True
LOLWUT?
Women can like the show too. And what does it matter what statistic of male/female likes it? The thing is, PEOPLE like it. People like what they like.
Also, you're not taking into account that not EVERY person who watches MLP participated in the study. Only 5,000 participated, and statistically, there are much more.
Clearly. The thing is their data suggests it IS a male thing. Not exclusively a male thing but according to their own data it is much more of a male thing. They did not bust the myth they proved it true. Not saying there is anything wrong with it being a male thing.
Liveuntil youdie
(This post was last modified: 03-16-2012 03:00 AM by UnschoolShqiponjë.)
(03-16-2012 01:25 AM)SaintVicious Wrote: Well some people enjoy murder or terrorism that's really not convincing. Great you like it but be ready to defend it
I'm more of a neutral party in this. And terrorism and rape really don't amount to this type of...whatever. But I have actually never seen the show.
Hidden stuff:
TRIGGER WARNING: THIS TRIGGER WARNING CONTAINS TRIGGER WARNINGS!
Dear Tumblrites:Despite your wrongly self-diagnosedPTSD, no line ofscientific evidencesuggests people can be triggered over theinternet. Triggering works through thesenses(i.e. smell, taste, touch, vision, hearing.) but it goes throughreal time; if you're not experiencing it in real life as it'sACTUALLY HAPPENINGin yourACTUALlife, youCANNOTbe triggered. The only exception to this is if you have aseizure, but then again, that's triggered byepilepsy(i.e. rapidly-changing flashing lights)NOT PTSD. Remembering a bad incident is NOT the same thing as having aflashback. When you remember, youthink; when youflashback,youfeel.
#HashTagsAreForIdiots
Max Stirnir Wrote:"In the time of spirits thoughts grew till they overtopped my head, whose offspring they yet were; they hovered about me and convulsed me like fever-phantasies -- an awful power. The thoughts had become corporeal on their own account, were ghosts, e. g. God, Emperor, Pope, Fatherland, etc. If I destroy their corporeity, then I take them back into mine, and say: "I alone am corporeal." And now I take the world as what it is to me, as mine, as my property; I refer all to myself."The Ego and Its Own, pg. 15
Charles Manson Wrote:“Look down at me and you see a fool;
look up at me and you see a god;
look straight at me and you see yourself”
HeartofShadows Wrote:"Life is nothing more than a druggie trying to get their quick fix of happiness while dealing with the harsh withdrawal of reality"
Osip Mandelstam Wrote:"I divide all of world literature into authorized and unauthorized works. The former are all trash; the latter--stolen air. I want to spit in the face of every writer who first obtains permission and then writes."The Fourth Prose, 1930.
Lukas Foss Wrote:That is why the analogy of stealing does not work. With a thief, we want to know how much money he stole, and from whom. With the artist it is not how much he took and from whom, but what he did with it.
I don't watch the show. I haven't really tried, and have no current desire to try and watch the show.
But it seems I am the only one (besides Sociopath and a few others) that can actually tolerate these people. I can understand if you would shun some 40 year old guy who came on here with a brony sig, avatar, and posted everything pony.
But I don't get why the majority of SS shuns 'bronies' as soon as they identify themselves as one.
"All Animals are equal, But some are more equal than others."