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Poll: What kind of parent you will be?
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What kind of a parent you think you will be?
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What kind of a parent you think you will be?

If you want to have children, what kind of father/mother you will be?

1. Positive
2.Slacker
3.Helicopter parent
4.Abusive
11-21-2011 09:02 AM
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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

only 1 acceptable option
other 3 esentially lead to the same result
nice poll OP
11-21-2011 09:20 AM
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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

I got 2 options.

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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

My children will praise Jesus or I will nail them to a cross and let them hang until they do

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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

(11-21-2011 04:21 PM)Jesusaurisrex Wrote:  My children will praise Jesus or I will nail them to a cross and let them hang until they do
Ok.... so that means you will be a abusive father, or something?
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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

I like to think of a mix between positive and slacker. Maybe a little abusive as I get older if they turn out to be shitty kids.
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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

Positive. Maybe abusive if they don't do exactly as I say.


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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

I will make sure my kids don't have to any homework and can actually enjoy childhood.

However if the plumbing gets backed up I'll make then do that, cause I hate doing that, also I'll force them to do my taxes for me.

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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

I'm having kids for the sole purpose of making them my slaves. I'll make them trim my yard with fucking sizers and I'll make them learn instruments and karate. The instruments so they can entertain me and karate so they can protect me. They also get guns. If they step out of line I'll slap them around. Oh wait, they have guns. And they know karate. And what will I do? Oh FUCK.

Nevermind then, I guess I'll just let them do whatever they want lol. They'll turn out pretty fucked up (or maybe they'll turn out self-sufficient as fuck?) but oh well.

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Chances are do what absent does if I ever had kids(fat chance in this society) as the state raises peoples kids more than parents do.

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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

This thread makes me lol.

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Honestly, slacker.

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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

I won't be a parent, lol.

Go to work. Send your kids to school. Follow fashion. Act normal. Walk on the pavement. Watch TV. Save for your old age. Obey the law. Repeat after me: "I am free."

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^ That too lol.

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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

It sucks that seemingly intelligent people don't actually want kids. Only stupid fucks do. So that only stupid fucks are raised.

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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

Been around the world and found
That only stupid people are breeding
The cretins cloning and feeding
And I don't even own a T.V

Put me in the hospital for nerves
And then they had to commit me
You told them all I was crazy
They cut off my legs now I'm an amputee, god damn you

I'm not sick but I'm not well
And I'm so hot cause I'm in hell
I'm not sick but I'm not well
And it's a sin to live so well

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RE: What kind of a parent you think you will be?

(11-23-2011 10:33 AM)Absentinsomniac Wrote:  Been around the world and found
That only stupid people are breeding
The cretins cloning and feeding
And I don't even own a T.V

Put me in the hospital for nerves
And then they had to commit me
You told them all I was crazy
They cut off my legs now I'm an amputee, god damn you

I'm not sick but I'm not well
And I'm so hot cause I'm in hell
I'm not sick but I'm not well
And it's a sin to live so well
You read my mind, lol. I thought of that song immediately when I read what Unschool wrote.

Go to work. Send your kids to school. Follow fashion. Act normal. Walk on the pavement. Watch TV. Save for your old age. Obey the law. Repeat after me: "I am free."

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Lol, damn good song.

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