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Milk2Go Offline
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Generic music-related topic

So I've decided I want to join a band. Specifically, a trio. Nothing with more than three members and less than three members. As a talented drummer, I find it hard to find a guitarist and a bassist who also want to join a band. And those who want a band are already in one.

So my main question is: how do I join a band?
05-03-2009 05:14 AM
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Sunbourn Offline
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Re: Generic music-related topic

Fuck bands. Do everything yourself. Play drums with your feat, bass with your hands, and guitars with your other two hands.

Seriously though, find some friends who share your tastes in music, and happen to play instruments. If you can't do that, you're probably fuqed.

Who am I? Who are YOU?
05-03-2009 05:17 AM
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Re: Generic music-related topic

Find people who play instruments. Advertise yourself on craigslist. Find an established band looking for a drummer.

Complete offers and surveys for money, for those 13+. Free to join. If you sign up, check the message center - there should be a message from me.

Swagbucks - free to sign up, 13+. Earn points by using their search engine, etc. and exchange points for prizes(like giftcards.)
05-03-2009 05:21 AM
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