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A goodbye would be nice!
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A goodbye would be nice!

It's one of my pet peeves when your talking to someone on IM or something and they just randomly log off with out so much as a simple goodbye! What do the users of school survival think?

Someone dear to me once said "We are the light." But, if that's true, then why am I still searching?
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Perhaps they had client or computer troubles. It's usually not their fault.

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11-28-2009 05:22 AM
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I understand computer troubles. I have that all the time. I mean the people who just click log off when you are in the middle of talking to them. It's quite rude!

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Well how do you know they purposefully did it? Do they tell you?

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No obviously. >.> But people usally log back in once their computer so rudefully decides to crash on them.

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Thade6596 Wrote:No obviously. >.> But people usally log back in once their computer so rudefully decides to crash on them.
My parents tend to kick me off.
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you still say bye!!

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Thade6596 Wrote:you still say bye!!
Yeah msot of the time.

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Thade6596 Wrote:No obviously. >.> But people usally log back in once their computer so rudefully decides to crash on them.

Exactly. So I'm not sure why you're finding it rude, when you just said it was their computer's fault, and, you understood it when it happened.

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-facedesk- Anna knows what I'm getting at here! You do right?

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Thade6596 Wrote:-facedesk- Anna knows what I'm getting at here! You do right?
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Oww, I hurt.

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Thade6596 Wrote:-facedesk- Anna knows what I'm getting at here! You do right?

Oh, I get it too. I think you're being an immature prick about it to. Let's change the topic to that, huh, because there's bigger issues than some douchebag not saying GOODBYE to your FACE.
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*Is confused*

Anything that ever happened or will... one condition, it has to be amazing.

I gave her wings but she don't wanna fly no more.

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Ooo, I'm just sittin' on the dock of the bay
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Yea, Xat fucks me up constantly. And then there's the times when I think something will only take a minute, and then it ends up taking three hours. Laugh

But I normally say bye if I can.

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Thade6596 Wrote:-facedesk- Anna knows what I'm getting at here! You do right?

Oh, I get it too. I think you're being an immature prick about it to. Let's change the topic to that, huh, because there's bigger issues than some douchebag not saying GOODBYE to your FACE.

And so Chris wins again.

Seriously man, people would LIKE to say goodbye to you, but sometimes their computer, you know, actually crashes? It's not like everyone just HATES you and says ROFL THADE IS GHEY or something to that extent.
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THANK YOU!!

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ya me and my dad usually get in fights when he tells me to log off. i yell and say i have to say goodbye and he says no you don't they will know u had to go when you log off. anyway....as you can see im better with my typing now!!!! that my common sense for that without it i would still be typing like an asshole and sorry if i still type stuff wierd sometimes im getting used to it so it will take me a few days to become fully ok with it. Biggrin
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zoeypop Wrote:ya me and my dad usually get in fights when he tells me to log off. i yell and say i have to say goodbye and he says no you don't they will know u had to go when you log off. anyway....as you can see im better with my typing now!!!! that my common sense for that without it i would still be typing like an asshole and sorry if i still type stuff wierd sometimes im getting used to it so it will take me a few days to become fully ok with it. Biggrin


Well, it is getting better.

Anything that ever happened or will... one condition, it has to be amazing.

I gave her wings but she don't wanna fly no more.

I'm sittin' on the dock of the bay
Watching the tide roll away
Ooo, I'm just sittin' on the dock of the bay
Wastin' time
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Its still pretty bad.
Sorry, Zoe.

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AND PEOPLE CALL ME IMMATURE?!

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LOL

Anything that ever happened or will... one condition, it has to be amazing.

I gave her wings but she don't wanna fly no more.

I'm sittin' on the dock of the bay
Watching the tide roll away
Ooo, I'm just sittin' on the dock of the bay
Wastin' time
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Thade6596 Wrote:It's one of my pet peeves when your talking to someone on IM or something and they just randomly log off with out so much as a simple goodbye! What do the users of school survival think?
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Putting -whatever has logged out- is stupid and counts as saying 'I have left'. So please, just stop being immature and stupid to piss me off. Uhoh

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Bye
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You still said bye. PWN. Fu

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