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Boy Suspended for Long Hair
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Boy Suspended for Long Hair
SoulRiser Wrote:Don't worry about choosing "something to do with your life" that you have to "stick with". Fuck that. Just do whatever is interesting or convenient for now, you can figure the rest out later. ...don't worry about "deciding". Just follow your heart - completely and blatantly ignore whether or not it's "practical".
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Re: Boy Suspended for Long Hair
Teachers bullied me in basic school for being a trap. Nothing new to me, it's yet another bible bullshit. Or maybe the teachers were pedo and fell for the trap within their thoughts.
Problem, officer?
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Ceiling Cat Wrote:Teachers bullied me in basic school for being a trap. Nothing new to me, it's yet another bible bullshit. Or maybe the teachers were pedo and fell for the trap within their thoughts.
I think Buenaventura Durruti is a pretty cool guy. eh kills fascists and doesnt afraid of ruins.
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Motherfuck this.
Who am I? Who are YOU?
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LOL FAIL. Mine is much longer then that.
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Why can girls be the only ones with long hair? I find this sexist and unfair.
*SPARKLING* *DOUCHEBUCKETS.*
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Fire Elf Wrote:LOL FAIL. Mine is much longer then that.
"There is no enemy, there is no victory, only boys who lost their lives in the sand."
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So, what?
Idiot teachers are idiots...
Bah.
Anything that ever happened or will... one condition, it has to be amazing.
I gave her wings but she don't wanna fly no more.
I'm sittin' on the dock of the bay
Watching the tide roll away
Ooo, I'm just sittin' on the dock of the bay
Wastin' time
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I have fairly long hair, and reading this arcticle causes me to RAAAAAAAAAAAGE.
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FOUR FUCKING YEARS OLD??? Are you kidding me?
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Unbelievable. Not too short, not too long?
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Stupid and all, but not really surprising since this crap happens all the time.
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Re: Boy Suspended for Long Hair
School - fucking with your life since the earliest years.
He should be homeschooled.
Problem, officer?
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An it Harm None, Do What Ye Will
An it Harm, Do Only What Ye Must
Lighten up! This life was made for experimenting, making mistakes, falling on our faces, and standing up to do it all over again.
Live for Learning.
Carla Franklin may be a whore. She may be a wonderful, kind, moral woman. Seeing as I don't know her personally, I cannot know for sure. However, I find her actions (suing Google, requesting the personal info of her critics, getting angry over random internet idiocy that she should ignore and be bigger than, trying to get this site in trouble because of a few users' commentary on the situation, etc.) pretty ridiculous and unwarranted. If she didn't want people to to be talking about/judging her, well 1. that's impossible, she's a human, and 2. she shouldn't have been a model or agreed to be on film. AND 3. she DEFINITELY shouldn't have sued Google and made all this fuss over a few random idiots whom she probably won't ever know expressing their opinion. Mmkay? MMKAY.
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Sexism like this is still going on?
I'm a guy with long hair and this pisses me off...
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but...but I like my guys with long hair.
T_T
go to a different school, seriously, if having your hair too long then it's not worth it. seriously, when did hair becaome a distraction?
Windows are distractions, i can't even begin to tell you how many times i've stared out the window all of class. I don't see them taking out windows any time soon.
I'm a girl ffffeck
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night.artist Wrote:Windows are distractions, i can't even begin to tell you how many times i've stared out the window all of class.
Don't give them any ideas...
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Memento Mori Wrote:night.artist Wrote:Windows are distractions, i can't even begin to tell you how many times i've stared out the window all of class.
Don't give them any ideas...
Oh god!
>.<
I'm a girl ffffeck
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night.artist Wrote:Memento Mori Wrote:night.artist Wrote:Windows are distractions, i can't even begin to tell you how many times i've stared out the window all of class.
Don't give them any ideas...
Oh god!
>.<
But they'll have another chance to make it worse than prison!
Anything that ever happened or will... one condition, it has to be amazing.
I gave her wings but she don't wanna fly no more.
I'm sittin' on the dock of the bay
Watching the tide roll away
Ooo, I'm just sittin' on the dock of the bay
Wastin' time
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What is with people and guys having long hair? I have it, and no one has been distracted by it. Even if they were, why is it my responsibility to make sure everyone is comfortable around. I've also heard, "it's intimidating." If I intimidate you by just standing somewhere, then you should get the fuck away from me.
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teenagewasteland Wrote:Sexism like this is still going on?
I'm a guy with long hair and this pisses me off...
This isn't as much sexism as stupidity.
Anything that ever happened or will... one condition, it has to be amazing.
I gave her wings but she don't wanna fly no more.
I'm sittin' on the dock of the bay
Watching the tide roll away
Ooo, I'm just sittin' on the dock of the bay
Wastin' time
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I'm growing my hair down to my waist
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Baron Von Strangle Wrote:I have fairly long hair, and reading this arcticle causes me to RAAAAAAAAAAAGE.
This.
"It's designed to avoid distractions"
EAT MY ASS AND BALLS, AND DIE, LAURA JOBE!!!
I was met with a lot of prejudice, I wasn't allowed to have long hair at the country I come from, and I hated it. I always wanted long hair, and they didn't let me. So this lets out an old fire on me... I was waiting for something like this to happen in the US. If they did something like this to me, there'd be hell to pay.
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No. You should cut your hair down, get drunk, and score a few girls, son. Because I say that and everyone else does as well.
Problem, officer?
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*reads article*
Wow,my faith in humanity just dropped 999999999 points.
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i use to have pretty long hair. you allways get shit for it, its a pain in the ass. it shouldnt matter how long or short it is. fuck them
life is just blah blah blah. we hope for blah, and sometimes we find it. but mostly its blah. and waiting for blah. and hoping you were right about the blahs you made. and when you think you just got the whole blah damn thing figured out, and your surrounded by the ones you blah. death shows up and blah blah blah.
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Death may be the greatest of all human blessings. -socrates-
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Not caring about our interests and dreams to heed
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classclown Wrote:I used to have pretty long hair. You always get shit for it, it's a pain in the ass. It shouldn't matter how long or short it is. Fuck them...
FIXED.
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I don't notice any differences between the two posts...
The only good signature is a dead signature.
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Re: Boy Suspended for Long Hair
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Anyway, are people raging over this because of the strict rules, or because the kid got suspension? His parents agree with him and aren't punishing him, so he gets a vacation.
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Memento Mori Wrote:His parents agree with him and aren't punishing him, so he gets a vacation.
Actually, he was allowed into the school and was still being put through the system....but was segregated from the other students.
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