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It astonishes me that people STILL think spanking is good.
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Re: It astonishes me that people STILL think spanking is good.

Absentinsomniac Wrote:FUCK YEAH, BEATING COMPETITIONS.

I remember this one time when I stayed up till like 12:00 midnight playing Nintendo 64 when I first got it. My dad came in and started smacking me around, then picked me up and literally through me across the room at my bed... I didn't make it lol. I hit the side of the bed. It fucking sucked.

Coat hangers suck though... Seriously. I hated them.

My stepfather did that to me once when I was five, because I refused to pick up my toys. He used to be a real ass to my sister though. Whenever she pissed him off he would rip the door to her room off the hinges and shut the power off in her room. Psychological warfare anyone?
09-22-2011 09:42 AM
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Re: It astonishes me that people STILL think spanking is good. - Aya - 09-22-2011 09:42 AM

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