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Taciturnal Offline
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RE: Hair dye rules

At my high school, they are allowed to dye their hair all they want, they don't give a damn thing of how their students look... The teachers don't care about it. I have seen plenty of students dye their hair of unnatural colors, from teal to dark blue and reds. In my opnion, I rather leave my hair mostly undyed but I can dye only a small part of my hair of any color if I want to.
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Hair dye rules

Quote:they don't give a damn thing of how their students look
Nice! Do you wear uniforms? I wear... they're ugly and uncomfortable:(

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RE: Hair dye rules

(03-14-2017 09:25 AM)Lucas Gallindo Wrote:  Nice! Do you wear uniforms? I wear... they're ugly and uncomfortable:(

Unfortunately, I wear school uniforms. And that's law, which kinda sucks so in every school, no matter if it's a high school, public or private (except a few ones), everyone has them... At least, I wear a violet polo with the school logo on it and black jeans, which males and even females are forced to wear. They're color coded by which grade I'm in, like 9th is green, 10th is yellow, 11th is red and 12th is violet. In my opnion, I found it better than the ugly girly skirt jumper thing that I wore when I was in 10th and 11th grade. But still, I don't like to wear school uniforms. :/
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