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My parents don't respect my willness AT ALLLLLLL
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Sad My parents don't respect my willness AT ALLLLLLL

My parents doesn't value just ge'ting goo' gra's anymore. They want I like going to school and studing and love the teachers and study all the night and forgetting about myself as a human and study and let the male teachers f*ck my c*m and study like a robot. If I don't do this they will block everything that could make me happy from me.

I say just one thing: the easiest solution is to kill myself.

Maybe something I could do is to tell the Tutelary Council, but I think it wouldn't work that much, because they would humiliate me and my attitude.

I have alread thought in burnning the school at night with a drone, too.Goingcrazy

Note: the law in my country doesn't let me drop out of school.

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These are not good decisions, try summoning a demon and seeing what they can do

well would you look at the time its time to gay
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Quote:If I don't do this they will block everything that could make me happy from me.
The only thing that can actually make you truly happy is yourself... but it's kinda hard to do when you're surrounded by crazy negative people who are hell bent on making you miserable. Hug

You already get good grades though? Why is this not enough for them?

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I don't think you're parents would let you drop out anyways.

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(01-18-2017 10:03 AM)Lucas Gallindo Wrote:  I have alread thought in burnning the school at night with a drone, too.Goingcrazy

I had that exact same idea!
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(01-19-2017 01:57 AM)SoulRiser Wrote:  
Quote:If I don't do this they will block everything that could make me happy from me.
The only thing that can actually make you truly happy is yourself... but it's kinda hard to do when you're surrounded by crazy negative people who are hell bent on making you miserable. Hug

You already get good grades though? Why is this not enough for them?

I have enough grades, not good grades. My parents always look at the others' almost-100% grades and stay saying that I should be that way. Hum, if they are not happy with the son they have, [someone complete it, plz]!

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(01-21-2017 06:35 AM)Lucas Gallindo Wrote:  
(01-19-2017 01:57 AM)SoulRiser Wrote:  
Quote:If I don't do this they will block everything that could make me happy from me.
The only thing that can actually make you truly happy is yourself... but it's kinda hard to do when you're surrounded by crazy negative people who are hell bent on making you miserable. Hug

You already get good grades though? Why is this not enough for them?

I have enough grades, not good grades. My parents always look at the others' almost-100% grades and stay saying that I should be that way. Hum, if they are not happy with the son they have, [someone complete it, plz]!
they should deal with it?

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(01-21-2017 06:35 AM)Lucas Gallindo Wrote:  
(01-19-2017 01:57 AM)SoulRiser Wrote:  
Quote:If I don't do this they will block everything that could make me happy from me.
The only thing that can actually make you truly happy is yourself... but it's kinda hard to do when you're surrounded by crazy negative people who are hell bent on making you miserable. Hug

You already get good grades though? Why is this not enough for them?

I have enough grades, not good grades. My parents always look at the others' almost-100% grades and stay saying that I should be that way. Hum, if they are not happy with the son they have, [someone complete it, plz]!

They should suicide themselves via car accident?

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Consensual incest is very common. You know people who have been involved, whether you know it or not.

There is no rational reason for keeping laws or taboos against consensual
incest that is consistently applied to other relationships. Personal disgust or religion is only a reason why one person would not want to personally engage in what I call consanguinamory, not why someone else shouldn't do it. An adult should be free to share love, sex, residence, and marriage with ANY consenting adults. Youthful experimentation between close relatives close in age is not uncommon, and there are more people than you'd think out there who are in lifelong healthy, happy relationships with a close relative. It isn't for everyone, but we're not all going to want to have each others' love lives, now are we? If someone thinks YOUR love life is disgusting, should you be thrown in prison?

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marriage by being part-time eugenicists and saying that such relationships inevitably lead to “mutant” or “deformed” babies. This argument can be refuted on several fronts. 1. Some consanguineous relationships involve only people of the same gender. 2. Not all mixed-gender relationships birth biological children. 3. Most births to consanguineous parents do not produce children with significant birth defects or other genetic problems; while births to other parents do sometimes have birth defects. 4. We don’t prevent other people from marrying or deny them their reproductive rights based on increased odds of passing along a genetic problem or inherited disease. It is true that in general, children born to consanguineous parents have an increased chance of these problems than those born to nonconsanguineous parents, but the odds are still minimal. Unless someone is willing to deny reproductive rights and medical privacy to others and force everyone to take genetic tests and bar carriers and the congenitally disabled and women over 35 from having children, then equal protection principles prevent this from being a justification to bar this freedom of association and freedom to marry.

Some say "Your sibling should not be your lover." That is not a reason. It begs the question. Many people have many relationships that have more than one aspect. Some women say their sister is their best friend. Why can’t their sister be a wife, too?

Some say “There is a power differential.” This applies least of all to siblings or cousins who are close in age, but even where the power differential exists, it is not a justification for denying this freedom to sex or to marry. There is a power differential in just about any relationship, sometimes an enormous power differential. To question if consent is truly possible in these cases is insulting and demeaning.

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(01-23-2017 07:06 PM)nicko21sparkle Wrote:  Thank you for the information this was really help full.

This was suggested as spam...... It looks like it to me.

Are you a real person n21s?

In another post u sound like u are, but in another one you just copied what someoe else said. So three posts were suggested as spam, with 2 seeming like spam to me, but there are no links in the "spam" posts so im confused.

Lucas, I am sorry you have those parents. It sounds like they threaten you and try to control you. I believe that if they are not happy with the son they have they should give you your freedom to move to a place where you feel safe from threats and where you are respected and accepted as you are.

I believe the laws need to be changed to give young people like you more freedom.

Aline and I have thought about Couchsurfing for young people. Do you know Couchsurfing?

Anyhow I am sorry about your parents.
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