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What makes a person think school is good?
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Lightbulb What makes a person think school is good?

Really, why? Why? How is it possible? History may tell us something that explains it:


Schools, originally were used to train people to work at factors. They were trained to tolerate doing boring stuff, obey teachers/bosses and to not make questions.
They assimilated school to get a job, then school system exploded in the world, and became what we know.


But, nowadays, how does it happend? What made our parents think school is good?
My mother told me her story of life. She said that school was the only way to grow up in the life. Else, she might be starving.

But I'm not fine yet. I want a general answer. Now, it's with you, guys!

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What makes a person think school is good?

It depends on the individual. Some people have low standards, some got a good impression because they went to a good school, some people can't or won't watch their kids during the day etc. There are all sorts of motives. The only reason I only hate school mostly is that I managed to get into a good school around the time that I realized that I have a very dubious family. Back when I was small, I loved school because I like learning and thought myself better than the other kids because of it. And because I was a horrible person as a child. So much that I hate to use the first person the refer to my younger self.
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RE: What makes a person think school is good?

(08-19-2016 08:01 AM)Lucas Gallindo Wrote:  Really, why? Why? How is it possible? History may tell us something that explains it:


Schools, originally were used to train people to work at factors. They were trained to tolerate doing boring stuff, obey teachers/bosses and to not make questions.
They assimilated school to get a job, then school system exploded in the world, and became what we know.


But, nowadays, how does it happend? What made our parents think school is good?
My mother told me her story of life. She said that school was the only way to grow up in the life. Else, she might be starving.

But I'm not fine yet. I want a general answer. Now, it's with you, guys!

In some circumstances, school was a god-send. That's where it sounds like your mother is coming from, in comparison to work, though again, circumstances.

Some people just do really well in the system, typically extroverts. They tolerate the system enough where they don't really hate it. Not so much on here.

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What makes a person think school is good?

Because school brainwashes. How to un-brainwash someone, I don't really know. Sad
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What makes a person think school is good?

Moving this to school talk.

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RE: What makes a person think school is good?

I think ita because they NEED to, depending on how much of your self image still relies upon the satisfaction you got from various school related things, or how much of your self image relies upon nostalgia. School is a major part of life because you are there for so long during your formative years. People can't imagine being without it.

But yeah, extroverts

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What makes a person think school is good?

I'd argue it's a power ploy for some, like those popular kids.

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