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I'm going to try and fake being happy and positive AND nice. ('_') And try to make friends...Last year was shit because I made it shit. Gonna have an intimidating and creepy smile and I'm still going to ignore shit kids in class. Going to be friendly to them and shit. Ew...
-_- thank goodness its my last year
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Don't pretend to be something you're not... be true to yourself and maybe you'll even find someone else who is similar. Not likely, but anything is possible...
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RE: next school year
(07-20-2016 07:26 AM)SoulRiser Wrote: Don't pretend to be something you're not... be true to yourself and maybe you'll even find someone else who is similar. Not likely, but anything is possible...
(._.) You are right...lol I don't want to fake my happiness, I don't want to be fake being nice lol... :-) ok, i will be myself
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Be a stoic as defined by the Art if Manliness video "how to feel like a Man"
I dont see the advice as being valid for only one gender. Point is, be practical, logical, and dont worry too much about how it feels, but by how right it is.
If your habits are in line with your values, then you dont need to change, unless your values are wrong. You should discuss your values with us
Purity is to Believe only that which deserves it.
Wisdom is to follow only the Opinion which makes the best use of evidence.
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RE: next school year
(07-21-2016 01:42 AM)the Analogist Wrote: Be a stoic as defined by the Art if Manliness video "how to feel like a Man"
I dont see the advice as being valid for only one gender. Point is, be practical, logical, and dont worry too much about how it feels, but by how right it is.
If your habits are in line with your values, then you dont need to change, unless your values are wrong. You should discuss your values with us
:-) Thank you.
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