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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

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next school year

I'm going to try and fake being happy and positive AND nice. ('_') And try to make friends...Last year was shit because I made it shit. Gonna have an intimidating and creepy smile and I'm still going to ignore shit kids in class. Going to be friendly to them and shit. Ew...

-_- thank goodness its my last year
07-19-2016 03:32 AM
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Don't pretend to be something you're not... be true to yourself and maybe you'll even find someone else who is similar. Not likely, but anything is possible...

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RE: next school year

(07-20-2016 07:26 AM)SoulRiser Wrote:  Don't pretend to be something you're not... be true to yourself and maybe you'll even find someone else who is similar. Not likely, but anything is possible...

(._.) You are right...lol I don't want to fake my happiness, I don't want to be fake being nice lol... :-) ok, i will be myself
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RE: next school year

Be a stoic as defined by the Art if Manliness video "how to feel like a Man"

I dont see the advice as being valid for only one gender. Point is, be practical, logical, and dont worry too much about how it feels, but by how right it is.

If your habits are in line with your values, then you dont need to change, unless your values are wrong. You should discuss your values with us

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(07-21-2016 01:42 AM)the Analogist Wrote:  Be a stoic as defined by the Art if Manliness video "how to feel like a Man"

I dont see the advice as being valid for only one gender. Point is, be practical, logical, and dont worry too much about how it feels, but by how right it is.

If your habits are in line with your values, then you dont need to change, unless your values are wrong. You should discuss your values with us

:-) Thank you.
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