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Who here isn't afraid to admit secrets?
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awesomejuan36912
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RE: Who here isn't afraid to admit secrets?
I am Cthulhu's cousin.
Hello, traveler.
This is an ancient account I have not used in a long time. My views have changed much in the intervening months and years.
Nonetheless, I refuse to clean it up. Pretending that I've held my current views since the beginning of time is what we in the industry call a lie. Asking people to do so contributes to moralistic self-loathing. "See, those people have nothing damning! I do! I'm truly vile!"
Because you can never be a good person with a single blemish on the moral record, I thought that simply entertaining some thoughts made me irredeemable. Though I don't care for his writing style, William Faulkner presents a good counterexample. He went from being a typical Southern racist to supporting the civil rights movement. These days we'd yell at him for that, probably.
People are allowed to change their views.
Nevertheless, this period of my life has informed some of how I am today. In good ways and bad ways. To purge it would be to do a disservice to history. Perhaps it will not make anyone sympathetic, but it may help someone understand.
If, after reading all this, you still decide to use the post above as evidence that I am evil today, ask yourself if you have never disagreed with the moral code you now follow. In all likelihood you did, at some point. If some questions are verboten, and the answer is "how dare you ask that," don't expect your ideological opponents to ever change their minds.
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RE: Who here isn't afraid to admit secrets?
Thrice-removed you forgot to add.
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(06-14-2013 08:02 AM)Potato Wrote: watch the fuq out, we've got an "intellectual" over here.
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(01-18-2016 01:23 PM)no Wrote: I am Cthulhu's cousin.
christ man.
it's fine u'll get past this
:c
[b]EMOJI PARTY, BIOATCHHHHH
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Eyy dont be using my name in vain!
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(06-14-2013 08:02 AM)Potato Wrote: watch the fuq out, we've got an "intellectual" over here.
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RE: Who here isn't afraid to admit secrets?
I act like a joker and try to act insane so that everyone laughs at the expense of myself. I get good marks despite me being not interested in School.
I hate school but loooove learning. Homeworks are boring. Everyone says I'm arrogant but I think that I have nothing to be arrogant about.
There, I admitted to my few secrets. Anyone else brave enough to?
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(02-05-2016 02:22 AM)Primal Maximal Wrote: Everyone says I'm arrogant but I think that I have nothing to be arrogant about.
There, I admitted to my few secrets. Anyone else brave enough to?
See, that right there sounded arrogant. You're suggesting that you're brave just because you posted some stupid shit online. I'm half-joking.
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(02-05-2016 06:03 AM)Dead Wrote: (02-05-2016 02:22 AM)Primal Maximal Wrote: Everyone says I'm arrogant but I think that I have nothing to be arrogant about.
There, I admitted to my few secrets. Anyone else brave enough to?
See, that right there sounded arrogant. You're suggesting that you're brave just because you posted some stupid shit online. I'm half-joking.
I win because I frequently admit to my arrogant megalomania and don't shy from sticking it into people's online digital faces.
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Um...I didn't say that I am brave just because. I just.....worded it the wrong way, I guess? Anyways, really, I don't believe I'm arrogant. But if I'm arrogant while being oblivious about being one, then..........I dunno.
Ooh, I remembered why I worded it that way after pondering a bit. I assumed that everyone has bravery but no one uses it, and besides, it tales either bravery and foolishness to admit these kinda secrets, doesn't it? I'd write 'foolishness', but didn't because....umm....I forgot why not. Maybe just for the sake of a sectence commonly used?
I have reallllllllly bad memory. There, another cute little me more snippet. If you ask if I used face cream yesterday, I'd take at least 5 minutes to answer that because of my memory. He He...
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Um...I didn't say that I am brave just because. I just.....worded it the wrong way, I guess? Anyways, really, I don't believe I'm arrogant. But if I'm arrogant while being oblivious about being one, then..........I dunno.
Ooh, I remembered why I worded it that way after pondering a bit. I assumed that everyone has bravery but no one uses it, and besides, it tales either bravery and foolishness to admit these kinda secrets, doesn't it? I'd write 'foolishness', but didn't because....umm....I forgot why not. Maybe just for the sake of a sectence commonly used?
I have reallllllllly bad memory. There, another cute little secretive snippet. If you ask if I used face cream yesterday, I'd take at least 5 minutes to answer that because of my memory. He He...
Okay, that accidently got double-posted....oopsie?
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Who here isn't afraid to admit secrets?
You see the dark text next to it? I was just giving you a hard time.
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Eh? I knew that, but your post just got me wondering....he he
You might not, but others may. Sorry if it offended ya....
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