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Pornography (Thoughts?)

Well I'm 15 years old and I'm filled with sexual frustration, what do I do? I use porn as masturbation material to fulfill my needs, but I feel that pornography that I watch is rather misogynistic and demoralizes women into sex objects. Tall curvy, huge boobs, and heels. And portrays all of this sexy and fun. While the guy porn stars being buff and does dominating aggressive acts like shoving their penis that's been injected with Viagra and pills and then shove it down their throats and the girl gladly just smiling and asking for more. I don't know, I'm not very knowledgeable about feminist theory or the whole history behind it, but i'm pretty sure nearly every guy watched porn at some point, but doesn't admit it. I mean I would like to talk about this more.

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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

Fantasize about the cute girls in your classes instead.

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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

Just to debunk your final point: I have never watched porn, in fact when educational diagrams are shown or I even overhear people even discuss sex I start feeling physically sick.

Now I will admit that for several years I have masturbated to non-pornographic drawings and to imagined stuff that wasn't (technically) sexual but I'm sure is a fetish. And now unfortunately I'm slightly dependent on it, even though I find sex disgusting, and the cognitive dissonance is tearing me apart. So my advice is, if you are feeling ashamed at all, try to wean yourself off it because it might come back to bite you psychologically.

Hello, traveler.

This is an ancient account I have not used in a long time. My views have changed much in the intervening months and years.

Nonetheless, I refuse to clean it up. Pretending that I've held my current views since the beginning of time is what we in the industry call a lie. Asking people to do so contributes to moralistic self-loathing. "See, those people have nothing damning! I do! I'm truly vile!"

Because you can never be a good person with a single blemish on the moral record, I thought that simply entertaining some thoughts made me irredeemable. Though I don't care for his writing style, William Faulkner presents a good counterexample. He went from being a typical Southern racist to supporting the civil rights movement. These days we'd yell at him for that, probably.

People are allowed to change their views.

Nevertheless, this period of my life has informed some of how I am today. In good ways and bad ways. To purge it would be to do a disservice to history. Perhaps it will not make anyone sympathetic, but it may help someone understand.

If, after reading all this, you still decide to use the post above as evidence that I am evil today, ask yourself if you have never disagreed with the moral code you now follow. In all likelihood you did, at some point. If some questions are verboten, and the answer is "how dare you ask that," don't expect your ideological opponents to ever change their minds.
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You know how much money a pornstar chick gets paid compared to the males?

I mean technically it's not like some sort of illegal sex slave recording or something. Technically they're professionals and stuff.

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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

You must be watching shitty porn :/
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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

BTW its real size or real size plus fancy camera techniques to make it look bigger (but still larger than average). Viagra doesnt cause the sponge tissue to expand beyond the preset level the penis of that person can, Viagra only initiates an erection by affecting the chemical hormone that controls whether blood fills up the spongy penis tissue.

In fact female pornographers tend to hate feminists who think pornstars are suffering because it threatens the livelihood of pornstars. Would these feminists prefer a porno blackmarket not regulated by law where the women are actually treated badly and there are significant health risks? Its all acting.

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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

Go masturbate to yiff instead.

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How about actually creating a human yourself instead? Smile
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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

Porn is awesome if you don't like it stop watching it. There's literally nothing wrong with it. If you're so worried about "misogyny" and stuff go find some camgirl on tumblr and support small porn businesses or something.

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Watch amateur instead of professional porn.

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(03-19-2015 07:40 AM)Weswammy Wrote:  Porn is awesome if you don't like it stop watching it. There's literally nothing wrong with it. If you're so worried about "misogyny" and stuff go find some camgirl on tumblr and support small porn businesses or something.

(03-18-2015 09:27 PM)Missile Wrote:  Go masturbate to yiff instead.

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I can think of a lot worse porn material than that

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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

I'm not too big on porn, it's kinda disturbing to me,
Maybe masturbation can help? I know this sounds sick but what about fingering yourself?
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I'm not sure how a guy would finger himself, and prostrate stimulation is not every man's preference.

Porn makes fapping easier and faster. Imagination and sheer will tend to take longer, and sometimes(most of the time) we're in it for the stress relief or whatever.

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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

Don't be scared to slip a finger up your ass it feels great
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But remember to wash your hands after

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Eh, I don't like it. But every person's thoughts for their self.

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I meant to say stimulation using your fingers or hands, pardon my mistake.
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I am 15 and watch it also, I never see this 'Aggresive acts' you speak of, Even the 'Facial' at the end of the video everyone complains about girls actually like, I am trying to get rid of this habit also, http://www.reddit.com/r/nofap i find that silly but many people find it to be a source of great inspiration
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RE: Pornography (Thoughts?)

Because all women are just a hivemind, amirite?!? /s

Hello, traveler.

This is an ancient account I have not used in a long time. My views have changed much in the intervening months and years.

Nonetheless, I refuse to clean it up. Pretending that I've held my current views since the beginning of time is what we in the industry call a lie. Asking people to do so contributes to moralistic self-loathing. "See, those people have nothing damning! I do! I'm truly vile!"

Because you can never be a good person with a single blemish on the moral record, I thought that simply entertaining some thoughts made me irredeemable. Though I don't care for his writing style, William Faulkner presents a good counterexample. He went from being a typical Southern racist to supporting the civil rights movement. These days we'd yell at him for that, probably.

People are allowed to change their views.

Nevertheless, this period of my life has informed some of how I am today. In good ways and bad ways. To purge it would be to do a disservice to history. Perhaps it will not make anyone sympathetic, but it may help someone understand.

If, after reading all this, you still decide to use the post above as evidence that I am evil today, ask yourself if you have never disagreed with the moral code you now follow. In all likelihood you did, at some point. If some questions are verboten, and the answer is "how dare you ask that," don't expect your ideological opponents to ever change their minds.
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(03-28-2015 06:07 AM)Zvesda Wrote:  I am 15 and watch it also, I never see this 'Aggresive acts' you speak of, Even the 'Facial' at the end of the video everyone complains about girls actually like, I am trying to get rid of this habit also, http://www.reddit.com/r/nofap i find that silly but many people find it to be a source of great inspiration

Maybe you've never watched BDSM.

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(03-28-2015 07:51 AM)brainiac3397 Wrote:  
(03-28-2015 06:07 AM)Zvesda Wrote:  I am 15 and watch it also, I never see this 'Aggresive acts' you speak of, Even the 'Facial' at the end of the video everyone complains about girls actually like, I am trying to get rid of this habit also, http://www.reddit.com/r/nofap i find that silly but many people find it to be a source of great inspiration

Maybe you've never watched BDSM.

That is quite extreme, also, girls tend to like BDSM. there was a questionnaire done where 70% of girls said they were into BDSM
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