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The fears and phobias thread
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The fears and phobias thread

This is a thread for you to share any fears or phobias you have. Let's start off with me.

I have a fear of heights and a fear of bees and wasps, I also have a fear of tornadoes, I remember I was awake in my room one night while a severe storm was raging outside, I didn't care for it, until the thought of a tornado crossed my mind, and I felt scared.

I also have a fear of being considered "weak" or a "weakling", I posted more in-depth about this on another forum:

Quote: I have a fear of being considered "weak" or being considered a "weakling". I payed the price of being one back in 6th grade, but now, when you are 6ft and almost 200 pounds (and I'm only 15) not many people would want to bully you.

I remember the last time I checked I could bench press 140 pounds and squat nearly 180 pounds. And yet, I still feel like that I'm too wimpy.

That's exactly why I bench press, I was bullied for being a weakling when I was 13. My body size jumped nearly 50 pounds and I grew like around 6 inches when I was 14. But like someone with Anorexia, (how they see theirselves as fat, even though they are skinny enough for you to count their ribs,) people tell me how I look "big" and I had multiple people tell me that I look like a man until they see my face, but I see myself as a wimp. But unlikely someone with anorexia, this has encouraged me to start working out.

So what are your fears?

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RE: The fears and phobias thread

I'm dreadfully afraid of any sort of stinging insect. I will freak out if I see a bee or a wasp or anything like that.

I'm also a bit of a hypochondriac as well.

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RE: The fears and phobias thread

Heights are unsettling. Im disgusted by most bugs, but not frightened (certain insects get a free pass to live like bees, spiders and ants. Even then, Id rather keep clear of em because they still disgust me).

I guess thats about it. Most cases I either hate, dislike or find disgusting rather than fear.

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RE: The fears and phobias thread

fuck spiders.
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I hate most dogs and I'm scared of some of them. You know, the ones that weigh 100 pounds and jump on you and scratch you and bite you.
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RE: The fears and phobias thread

It scares me when I feel afraid and I don't know why.

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The fears and phobias thread

I'm also really scared of stinging insects, and shy away from anything involving pain if I can help it.

To a lesser degree, I'm also averse to school - talk about a waking nightmare.

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The fears and phobias thread

Stinging insects and spiders bug me (no pun intended), but I do admire spiders at a distance. My fear of heights is non-existant as long as what I'm on is sturdy and doesn't sway.

My biggest fear would have to be hypodermic needles. Just ... the sight of them going into a vein freaks me out so much I have a panic attack. I can't get over it.

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RE: The fears and phobias thread

Fear of heights, insects, losing teeth.
I always have dreams in which I'm late for a lot of events and things and maybe that's why I'm late for a lot of things in reality, it can be being late do to what I like and not being interested in that one moment . For example I didn't went to a school arts because it was sorta late to go to one when I realized I wanted to study art and not study global history and geography and stuff I'm into now.. Such a lame.

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RE: The fears and phobias thread

The fear of heights, falling in love, bugs, deep water, being judged, getting sent back to school, being robbed (ever sense that fateful day) having children, tornadoes, being relied on and sometimes being noticed, like I am afraid that the teacher would call on me or send me to the board.
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I'm afraid of shipwrecks.
Not even like being on a ship when it wrecks or something, but like actually the shipwrecks themselves.

This sporadically applies itself to other old submerged objects but the only real constant is shipwrecks.

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I love shipwrecks...or any wreck/ruin. They have a certain mystery.

I had issue with heights but that's been solved to some extent. I still hate bugs.

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RE: The fears and phobias thread

Aphenphosmphobic. I'm afraid of being touched skin-on-skin by other humans...

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RE: The fears and phobias thread

(06-15-2015 01:12 PM)brainiac3397 Wrote:  I love shipwrecks...or any wreck/ruin. They have a certain mystery.

I had issue with heights but that's been solved to some extent. I still hate bugs.

I've got no problem with wrecks and ruins and shit on land, it's just underwater, Shrug

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Yeah the ocean can be pretty spooky.

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(06-16-2015 01:45 AM)Alistoriv Wrote:  
(06-15-2015 01:12 PM)brainiac3397 Wrote:  I love shipwrecks...or any wreck/ruin. They have a certain mystery.

I had issue with heights but that's been solved to some extent. I still hate bugs.

I've got no problem with wrecks and ruins and shit on land, it's just underwater, Shrug

Yeh they're pretty creepy but that just makes em more interesting. Add some skeletons and you've got an adventure(course my understanding is that bones don't do very well in the ocean)

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