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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.


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And semi-serious. A strong surge of anti-Americanism, not in a racial sense but more rather an intense disliking towards the American government, both major parties and American influence over the United Nations has brought me back here. A friend from Oregon posted a status about juvenile hall. The first thing I did was show them the boot camp page from this website. It was the only document I could think of that seemed like it would be even remotely helpful.

By no means am I taking a break from DnE, though, I just need somewhere to bash on a permanently right-wing state, led by a pseudo-liberal party which American media hysterically mislabels as "socialist" to deliberately mislead the American population, and to let my inner hugbox run free. A lot of DnE seems to have a slight narcissist/apathetic scent, which is fine for me as it's self-aware apathy and not constant snappiness like what would be expected. Although I use such a forum, I'm in an almost constant state of worry, and if anything, view my abilities in most things to be slightly below average.

Back with a degree of worry for my American e-pals, RammFF.
10-10-2014 05:02 AM
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Welcome back.

Hidden stuff:

Quote:<sug> i dont think ive ever been an atheist
<sug> i worship the superplayer

Returned after years hiatus.
10-11-2014 04:35 AM
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