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A Kind of Ageism
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A Kind of Ageism

Ageism in the workplace just doesn't affect the young but older people as well. I would in a way the newest discriminatory factor in the workplace has to be employment gaps and lack of experience. I have looked at many professional postings and have discovered that everywhere wants at least a 5 year minimum of experience how the fuck do you get to five years without one year? The future does look good for this generation.
10-05-2014 02:29 PM
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RE: A Kind of Ageism

I hear in some places its a BS ploy. In my opinion, apply to everyhting you freaking feel like. Oh they need a CEO? Submit your goddamn resume even if your 18 outta HS.

Why? Cause you got nothing to lose.

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Ageism sucks both ways

Wake up people, and look at life around you
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10-06-2014 03:15 AM
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RE: A Kind of Ageism

(10-06-2014 03:15 AM)Missile Wrote:  Ageism sucks both ways

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"CONSENSUAL incest is not wrong. (Abuse victims: being abused by a relative does not make it wrong for others to have consensual incest, any more than rape by a stranger makes all sex wrong. Sex and assault/molestation are two different things.) An aversion became common in humans that aided in population growth as one disease couldn't wipe out the human race. That's not a problem anymore.

Consensual incest is very common. You know people who have been involved, whether you know it or not.

There is no rational reason for keeping laws or taboos against consensual
incest that is consistently applied to other relationships. Personal disgust or religion is only a reason why one person would not want to personally engage in what I call consanguinamory, not why someone else shouldn't do it. An adult should be free to share love, sex, residence, and marriage with ANY consenting adults. Youthful experimentation between close relatives close in age is not uncommon, and there are more people than you'd think out there who are in lifelong healthy, happy relationships with a close relative. It isn't for everyone, but we're not all going to want to have each others' love lives, now are we? If someone thinks YOUR love life is disgusting, should you be thrown in prison?

Some people try to justify their prejudice against consanguineous sex and
marriage by being part-time eugenicists and saying that such relationships inevitably lead to “mutant” or “deformed” babies. This argument can be refuted on several fronts. 1. Some consanguineous relationships involve only people of the same gender. 2. Not all mixed-gender relationships birth biological children. 3. Most births to consanguineous parents do not produce children with significant birth defects or other genetic problems; while births to other parents do sometimes have birth defects. 4. We don’t prevent other people from marrying or deny them their reproductive rights based on increased odds of passing along a genetic problem or inherited disease. It is true that in general, children born to consanguineous parents have an increased chance of these problems than those born to nonconsanguineous parents, but the odds are still minimal. Unless someone is willing to deny reproductive rights and medical privacy to others and force everyone to take genetic tests and bar carriers and the congenitally disabled and women over 35 from having children, then equal protection principles prevent this from being a justification to bar this freedom of association and freedom to marry.

Some say "Your sibling should not be your lover." That is not a reason. It begs the question. Many people have many relationships that have more than one aspect. Some women say their sister is their best friend. Why can’t their sister be a wife, too?

Some say “There is a power differential.” This applies least of all to siblings or cousins who are close in age, but even where the power differential exists, it is not a justification for denying this freedom to sex or to marry. There is a power differential in just about any relationship, sometimes an enormous power differential. To question if consent is truly possible in these cases is insulting and demeaning.

Some say “There are so many people outside of your family." There are plenty of people within one’s own race, too, but that is no reason to ban interracial marriage. So, this isn't a good reason either. Let consenting adults love each other the way they want!"-Keith Pullman

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RE: A Kind of Ageism

I am very sorry to say that we live in this situation but what can be done is we don't allow parents makes the agism to be relevant to the children I was once try to be an adult the I was the most boring person in the history of the world and try to not go there anymore and try to be better and repres agism is evil
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RE: A Kind of Ageism

Just lie about it.
01-17-2017 06:28 AM
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