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A Dream - *Possibly* Related to SS?
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A Dream - *Possibly* Related to SS?

Very interesting, DoA. That was a compelling read.

Some sleep meds can increase dreaming, but the themes are still worth thinking about.

I'd say that despite the potential for an age-based disconnect, people can find value in interaction across ages and times-of-joining of a given community. Stepping back from the temporary cultural norms that can develop is one approach.

It's noteworthy that we'll likely see a lot more younger people joining, with the start of a new school year, more and more people questioning education, and hopefully a revitalized set of conversations around here.

The question is then, what role do we all play, perhaps differently than in times past? How might things like hangouts, chat, social media dialogue, and even in-person events change how people get to know what School Survival is all about?

Lots more to think about, but that's a start. Another thought: the themes of rough-around-the-edges vs. detached opulence don't necessarily have as much separation in reality than it might seem. But it's interesting looking at those sides of things.

Question: how do you see your future role as something like a psychologist relating to being a member of a community like this? More and more, it's possible for conversations to bridge worlds... instead of psychiatry conferences and teachers lounges being isolated, years-removed-from-youth events, the world is moving toward a lot more convergence.

Still, what does that look like?

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A Dream - *Possibly* Related to SS? - Ky - 08-28-2014, 03:34 PM
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