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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

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My name is BuzzRando, and I am joining the Forum

Hello everyone.

My name is BuzzRando. I have Autism, which causes problems for me in school. I have trouble getting along with others, because I look at the world in a different way. I originally joined the IRC chat with the name "IAmANiceGuy," but I decided to use the name BuzzRando, since that is the name on my email address. So now I have the username BuzzRando, which I am using.

When I joined the IRC, someone named XCriteria started talking to me, but then he either left or started to ignore me. People ignore me when I talk a lot in real life too, because they find me boring.

I have two main hobbies: I like to arrange matchsticks in circles, squares, diamonds, and other two dimensional shapes, and I like to arrange tic-tacs in circles, squares, and other two dimensional shapes.

When I arrange them in shapes, I feel very good. I like to do it.

I am here, and I am here to discuss things, because my therapist says I need to socialize. Here I am.
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Welcome! Smile

Do you like video games?

Do you like anime?

How did you find the IRC?

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I once played a video game, but it gave me severe anxiety and I had to stop.

I once watched anime, but I got severe anxiety and I had to stop.

I found the IRC by searching "School," because I wanted something related to school, and "Survival," because I wanted something related to survival in school. As a result, I found the webchat in the side.
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(06-27-2014 03:16 AM)BuzzRando Wrote:  I am here, and I am here to discuss things, because my therapist says I need to socialize. Here I am.

Welcome to the forums.

Does your therapist know about School Survival?

What else do they suggest you do?

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Hey, welcome!

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My therapist knows that I chat on the internet, but she does not know the specific place. They suggest I leave my room but I don't like leaving my room.

I have used Buckyballs for spherical geometry but it was so beautiful that I peed my pants due to being four dimensions but I peed my pants and my mom took it away :(
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(06-27-2014 03:19 AM)BuzzRando Wrote:  I once played a video game, but it gave me severe anxiety and I had to stop.

I once watched anime, but I got severe anxiety and I had to stop.

Which anime did you watch and video game did you play?

I've never let my school interfere with my education.
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(06-30-2014 10:03 PM)Kirby Wrote:  
(06-27-2014 03:19 AM)BuzzRando Wrote:  I once played a video game, but it gave me severe anxiety and I had to stop.

I once watched anime, but I got severe anxiety and I had to stop.

Which anime did you watch and video game did you play?
This user's banned. Duelix puppet.

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(06-30-2014 10:18 PM)Weswammy Wrote:  This user's banned. Duelix puppet.

The post seemed like a caricature of a person with autism but there are strange people out there.

I've never let my school interfere with my education.
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(06-27-2014 03:16 AM)BuzzRando Wrote:  Hello everyone.

My name is BuzzRando. I have Autism, which causes problems for me in school. I have trouble getting along with others, because I look at the world in a different way. I originally joined the IRC chat with the name "IAmANiceGuy," but I decided to use the name BuzzRando, since that is the name on my email address. So now I have the username BuzzRando, which I am using.

When I joined the IRC, someone named XCriteria started talking to me, but then he either left or started to ignore me. People ignore me when I talk a lot in real life too, because they find me boring.

I have two main hobbies: I like to arrange matchsticks in circles, squares, diamonds, and other two dimensional shapes, and I like to arrange tic-tacs in circles, squares, and other two dimensional shapes.

When I arrange them in shapes, I feel very good. I like to do it.

I am here, and I am here to discuss things, because my therapist says I need to socialize. Here I am.

Welcome to School Survival
The IRC chat it is not crowdy are something else doing you have talked to Xcretria as you mentioned he is a member of this forum as well he can help i mean we all can help you if you could tell us what is the problem we can help to support you in any way.
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...he got banned. A year ago.
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(01-01-2016 07:23 AM)Dead Wrote:  ...he got banned. A year ago.

I didn't know that thanks
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