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Levi
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Vivian is my boyfriend's name if you weren't aware and tonight my mother said we needed to talk. She doesn't want me to see him anymore, she wants me to stop all this nonsense, and basically stop being gay. I literally yelled at her saying it was never going to happen. She is such a cruel yet naive woman. Apparently she's known for awhile about my relationship with Vivian and never bothered to talk to me about this sooner. My fucking god I've given up on these people. I fear they'll try and reform me soon or something messed up like that. Anyway I'm spending tomorrow with Vivian even though I plan on staying home and we should talk with his parents about our relationship soon. Overall I'm feeling mixed about tomorrow, but I can only for the best.
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(This post was last modified: 06-23-2014 06:28 PM by Levi.)
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Vivian
-hugs- That's mean. Also that's a nice name. Also if you need to talk you can PM me. -hugs again-
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RE: Vivian
OH FUCKDAMNIT, I really stumble upon a lot of fucking parent problems recently, but YOURS...
Fucking fuck fuck, I do not even know what to motherfucking SAY to this.
So let me get all of this straight:
Your parents gave you the name "Levi" because they believe you lied to a fucking ass apparition of a god, they demand you to CHANGE your behaviour and STOP being gay, which is CLEARLY futile by the way, because THEY do not like it. They do not even do anything about the loser ass fuck shit basement-dwelling bullies making your life a fucking hell, and they want you to stop being with your boyfriend...
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THESE PIECES OF SHIT
FUCK YOUR PARENTS TO HELL
No... that would be an insult to SHIT, because SHIT atleast has its place in the ECO-SYSTEM!
Such a SHAME I can not do anything directly for you...
I probably would be afraid I would "accidently" send your god-awful excuses for parents STRAIGHT TO THE NINTH PIT OF FUCKING HELL!
Please take THIS advice from me:
Tell the authorities about it. Go to ANY person you can fully trust. Hell, go to the POLICE, because this is clearly ABUSE
I find it AMAZING that you are STILL so calm in person, yet I am sitting here SMASHING THE FUCKING WALL NEXT TO ME I AM SO FUCKING ANGRY ABOUT ALL THIS!!
TELL THE AUTHORITIES
TELL THE POLICE
ANYONE
And if all that does not work...
Take the pentagram and sacrifice your alien parents to the DARK FUCKING LORD AND TAKE THOSE GREASY FUCKING BULLIES WITH THEM!
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SoulRiser
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Vivian
What are Vivian's parents like? Do they support you guys? 
Not sure if the police will do anything unless your parents are physically abusing you or whatever... but maybe you can try asking a lawyer or someone who knows more about law stuff... maybe there's something you can do.
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Levi
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RE: Vivian
(06-24-2014 12:06 AM)SoulRiser Wrote: What are Vivian's parents like? Do they support you guys?
Not sure if the police will do anything unless your parents are physically abusing you or whatever... but maybe you can try asking a lawyer or someone who knows more about law stuff... maybe there's something you can do.
That would be correct. Vivian's parents are very nice people who just want what's best for their kid. We probably need counseling again I'm prepared to call in today.
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RE: Vivian
(06-23-2014 08:51 PM)Ferigeras Wrote: OH FUCKDAMNIT, I really stumble upon a lot of fucking parent problems recently, but YOURS...
Fucking fuck fuck, I do not even know what to motherfucking SAY to this.
So let me get all of this straight:
Your parents gave you the name "Levi" because they believe you lied to a fucking ass apparition of a god, they demand you to CHANGE your behaviour and STOP being gay, which is CLEARLY futile by the way, because THEY do not like it. They do not even do anything about the loser ass fuck shit basement-dwelling bullies making your life a fucking hell, and they want you to stop being with your boyfriend...
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THEM
FUCK THESE PIECES OF SHIT
FUCK YOUR PARENTS TO HELL
No... that would be an insult to SHIT, because SHIT atleast has its place in the ECO-SYSTEM!
Such a SHAME I can not do anything directly for you...
I probably would be afraid I would "accidently" send your god-awful excuses for parents STRAIGHT TO THE NINTH PIT OF FUCKING HELL!
Please take THIS advice from me:
Tell the authorities about it. Go to ANY person you can fully trust. Hell, go to the POLICE, because this is clearly ABUSE
I find it AMAZING that you are STILL so calm in person, yet I am sitting here SMASHING THE FUCKING WALL NEXT TO ME I AM SO FUCKING ANGRY ABOUT ALL THIS!!
TELL THE AUTHORITIES
TELL THE POLICE
ANYONE
And if all that does not work...
Take the pentagram and sacrifice your alien parents to the DARK FUCKING LORD AND TAKE THOSE GREASY FUCKING BULLIES WITH THEM!
You are one deranged person you know that? Yes Levi's parents can go suck a fucking dick for all I care, but leave it to Ferigas to take it to a whole new level of crazy 
Anyway Levi your parents do suck like they are the worst fucking parents I've heard of in awhile. I suggest you get it through their thick skulls that their made up imaginary friend God is not real and if he was he wouldn't care who you decide to hook up with in the end. Man this is why I'm fucking agnostic. So many damn holes is Christianity!
Have your regrets, but always stay strong from yours truly, Illuzion.
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Levi
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(06-24-2014 01:16 AM)Illuzion Wrote: You are one deranged person you know that? Yes Levi's parents can go suck a fucking dick for all I care, but leave it to Ferigas to take it to a whole new level of crazy
Anyway Levi your parents do suck like they are the worst fucking parents I've heard of in awhile. I suggest you get it through their thick skulls that their made up imaginary friend God is not real and if he was he wouldn't care who you decide to hook up with in the end. Man this is why I'm fucking agnostic. So many damn holes is Christianity!
Hence why I've kind of given up on religion. It started back in grade one when at church I started questioning things and all they'd do was point to the bible and say that because some random people wrote the bible it is fact and apparently evidence as to why Jesus hasn't returned, God hasn't shown up in forever, and how Mary was a virgin to name a few.
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RE: Vivian
(06-24-2014 01:16 AM)Illuzion Wrote: You are one deranged person you know that? Yes Levi's parents can go suck a fucking dick for all I care, but leave it to Ferigas to take it to a whole new level of crazy
I take that as a compliment.
But, in all seriousness, I was so pissed off when I wrote this, and this is coming from a guy who unwillingly watched too much modern Spongebob Squarepants...
Next time I write a post or something along those lines, I will TRY to take it easier.
But this time I could not... Levi's fucking "parents" man...
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(06-24-2014 02:58 AM)Ferigeras Wrote: (06-24-2014 01:16 AM)Illuzion Wrote: You are one deranged person you know that? Yes Levi's parents can go suck a fucking dick for all I care, but leave it to Ferigas to take it to a whole new level of crazy
I take that as a compliment.
But, in all seriousness, I was so pissed off when I wrote this, and this is coming from a guy who unwillingly watched too much modern Spongebob Squarepants...
Next time I write a post or something along those lines, I will TRY to take it easier.
But this time I could not... Levi's fucking "parents" man...
Love the signature  Modern *gag* Sponge...bob. Yeah though Levi's parents are horrible fuckers. I find your responses humorous though  I'm pretty sure we all fucking hate Levi's parents...
Have your regrets, but always stay strong from yours truly, Illuzion.
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Take Ferigeras' advice: CALL THE POLICE!
In all seriousness, the police would be the best solution.
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Levi
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(06-24-2014 08:59 AM)KFC Nyan Cat Wrote: Take Ferigeras' advice: CALL THE POLICE!
In all seriousness, the police would be the best solution.
I'm not calling the police because my mom is rude and unaccepting person. Frankly I've dealt with worse. I don't trust the cops or media to help me. Also to answer your question as to why I'm so calm the reason is because in reality I'm an extremely paranoid, stressed out person on the inside. I've kinda just grown so accustomed to these emotions I just cover them all up with a fresh coating of deadpan. I guess I'm just good at appearing to keep my cool when in reality I can be at any emotional extreme. I'm sure you'll see me break eventually on here.
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RE: Vivian
(06-24-2014 01:20 AM)Levi Wrote: (06-24-2014 01:16 AM)Illuzion Wrote: You are one deranged person you know that? Yes Levi's parents can go suck a fucking dick for all I care, but leave it to Ferigas to take it to a whole new level of crazy
Anyway Levi your parents do suck like they are the worst fucking parents I've heard of in awhile. I suggest you get it through their thick skulls that their made up imaginary friend God is not real and if he was he wouldn't care who you decide to hook up with in the end. Man this is why I'm fucking agnostic. So many damn holes is Christianity!
Hence why I've kind of given up on religion. It started back in grade one when at church I started questioning things and all they'd do was point to the bible and say that because some random people wrote the bible it is fact and apparently evidence as to why Jesus hasn't returned, God hasn't shown up in forever, and how Mary was a virgin to name a few.
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RE: Vivian
paganism is widely accepting of homosexuality I wish for the best for you and your boyfriend and your mom is mean
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RE: Vivian
(06-24-2014 09:29 AM)brainiac3397 Wrote: (06-24-2014 01:20 AM)Levi Wrote: (06-24-2014 01:16 AM)Illuzion Wrote: You are one deranged person you know that? Yes Levi's parents can go suck a fucking dick for all I care, but leave it to Ferigas to take it to a whole new level of crazy
Anyway Levi your parents do suck like they are the worst fucking parents I've heard of in awhile. I suggest you get it through their thick skulls that their made up imaginary friend God is not real and if he was he wouldn't care who you decide to hook up with in the end. Man this is why I'm fucking agnostic. So many damn holes is Christianity!
Hence why I've kind of given up on religion. It started back in grade one when at church I started questioning things and all they'd do was point to the bible and say that because some random people wrote the bible it is fact and apparently evidence as to why Jesus hasn't returned, God hasn't shown up in forever, and how Mary was a virgin to name a few.
Christianity = Religion
Religion =/= Christianity
My error.
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