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Wait. Messages with porn in them? Like a soft assault?

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He was on DnE IRC a couple hours ago, spamming links to gore and fetish porn. Really sad indeed.
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Quote:So discussing shit users' mothers have done qualified the subchannel as a 'hugbox'? Since when was it uncool to talk about personal issues in an environment free of assholes? I like your use of the word supportive, too. There was a reason you were only accidentally invited.

i don't share your view that talking shit about other people's mothers to no productive end should qualify as 'discussion.'

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(03-16-2014 04:16 PM)Potato Wrote:  
Quote:So discussing shit users' mothers have done qualified the subchannel as a 'hugbox'? Since when was it uncool to talk about personal issues in an environment free of assholes? I like your use of the word supportive, too. There was a reason you were only accidentally invited.

i don't share your view that talking shit about other people's mothers to no productive end should qualify as 'discussion.'

You assume that for the subchannel to earn the distinction of hosting productive discussion that every single line typed in that channel must be 'productive', which it seems in this case is rather subjective. It's an IRC channel, not a formal board meeting. Hell, IIRC the good shit only started after you left. Very astute observational skills.
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(03-16-2014 02:44 PM)SubCulture Wrote:  Wait. Messages with porn in them? Like a soft assault?

If you consider a guy shitting into another guy's mouth porn, then yeah, I suppose...
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@trar, by "good shit" do you mean an uninterrupted orgy of the usual mixture of whining and tomfoolery

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(03-22-2014 05:36 AM)Potato Wrote:  @trar, by "good shit" do you mean an uninterrupted orgy of the usual mixture of whining and tomfoolery

No, I didn't.

For the record, most serious discussion takes place in the main channel now, since there hasn't been much reason to take it into the subchannel. Same thing with #SS-SrsBns; the 'non-serious' discussion needs are easily met in the main channel. It says right in the topic: "feel free to make subchannels if multiple topics are being discussed".

If you're so mired in your own ignorance and disdain for others that you feel the need to create drama because you're too much of an asshole to fit in #SchoolSurvival, I don't know what to say to you.
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@trar, don't kid yourself into thinking that these "seriously discussions" will ever lead to any real changes and results, they're time killers at best, most people here would rather complain than putting the time and effort into constructing actually effective strategies for convincing their parents to let them get out of school. They come on here and preach to the choir and and listen to opinions that they already know what they'll agree with, and it goes on and on without ever accomplishing anything. So don't pretend like there's some important shit going on here. And you're attributing your own personality to me if you think I'm big enough of a popularity whore to care about not fitting in a chat room, I asked to be banned form there FYI. I suggest you stop wasting your time with me and go back to your "serious discussions"

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The Council of the IRC has been debating on approving a proposal that would unban Potato, and give him God mode powers on the IRC channel, represented by a glowing halo at the end of his username.

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sounds like there's some serious shit going on

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Yep. The Council members all voted yes.

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Brainiac stop lying or else I shall smite thee with my spaghetti scented(and flavored) ban hammer!

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SERIOUSLY DAWG.

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All voted aye.

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(03-22-2014 10:06 AM)brainiac3397 Wrote:  SERIOUSLY DAWG.

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"free speech under the constitution only guarantees the government won't stop him saying it and does not guarantee his right to say things and have no consequences at all as a result. also i completely doubt that he is motivated solely by "i'm saying it because i can" and is probably motivated by a more shitheady motive like "i think it's funny to annoy people and Rustle Le Jimmies™ and is just hiding behind the first amendment to try to deflect any consequences or make you realize that being allowed to annoy people is a superior moral right. you can still disdain someone for doing things for dumbarse wankery purposes and you have evne more right to ban and insult them for it" ~Trar's friend about Potato.

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Quote:most people here would rather complain than putting the time and effort into constructing actually effective strategies for convincing their parents to let them get out of school. They come on here and preach to the choir and and listen to opinions that they already know what they'll agree with, and it goes on and on without ever accomplishing anything.

The forums exist, in part, for people who are being shit on by public school to vent on. Not everyone who joins (or has been here for a while, for that matter) has to participate in every discussion, serious or not. There's a separate site for that, incidentally.

Quote:don't kid yourself into thinking that these "seriously discussions" will ever lead to any real changes and results

Why do you believe this? Does slow progress really mean no progress? I'm inclined to disagree, and we still have work to do yet.

Quote:I suggest you stop wasting your time with me and go back to your "serious discussions"

If you're going to be contrarian for the sake of being contrarian...I was hoping to get my POV across to you and others, maybe spark some synapses as an angry Texan once put it.
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I've seen this Duelix mentioned twice now. He seems to be a rather pugnacious individual. Many pugnacious people I've seen just have a lack of friends. He might need just a little help learning how to talk to people nicely.
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He's been this way for years, and we've put up with him waaaay too long.

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