Current time: 03-27-2025, 08:07 PMHello There, Guest! (Login — Register)
RIP School Survival Forums
August 2001 - June 2017
The School Survival Forums are permanently retired. If you need help with quitting school, unsupportive parents or anything else, there is a list of resources on the Help Page.
If you want to write about your experiences in school, you can write on our blog.
To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.
I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.
I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.
I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.
I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.
Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.
Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.
-SoulRiser
The forums are mostly read-only and are in a maintenance/testing phase, before being permanently archived. Please use this time to get the contact details of people you'd like to keep in touch with. My contact details are here.
Please do not make a mirror copy of the forums in their current state - things will still change, and some people have requested to be able to edit or delete some of their personal info.
I hate how I do this. Like ill have the whole weekend for homework which is bullshit to even have but I keep putting it off saying its ok I have time and whatddya know its 11 pm and i have a whole essay to write. How can I stop doing this. Im obviously a lazy fuck so telling me that isnt gonn help
"There is nothing on earth intended for innocent people so horrible as a school"
- George Bernard Shaw
Lux Wrote:
"School ruins families. Most of the verbal and physical punishments kids endure are because of grades. I would have a much better relationship with my parents if the school didn't harass us years ago."
10-15-2013 12:48 PM
Thanks given by:
brainiac3397
Machiavellian Amoeba
Posts: 9,823
Joined: Feb 2013
My motivation came at the end of high school. Yep. My procrastination actually lessened when I got into college. Plus, now I procrastinate and work at the same time. I believe they call it multi-tasking(I love multi-tasking. It feeds my senses with just so much more information. It's great.)
I don't know any who doesn't procrastinate with school. I can't think of a time where I haven't
"When will the world listen to reason? I have a feeling it'll be a long time." --Dexter Holland
"Government big enough to supply everything you need is big enough to take everything you have. The course of history shows as government grows, liberty decreases. " --Thomas Jefferson
10-15-2013 02:15 PM
Thanks given by:
brainiac3397
Machiavellian Amoeba
Posts: 9,823
Joined: Feb 2013
I also have no time to procrastinate, seeing that I'm stuck with enough responsibilities for 3 average people. So multi-tasking allows me to procrastinate in comfort, while also getting work done.
Was that interesting, informative, or helpful at all? Did you learn something there?
Part of the problem, too, may be actual resistance to school, although resistance can come up even with things you actually want to do. Stephen Pressfield has this term called "The Resistance" in his discussion of the creative process.
If part of the problem is simply lack of energy, or feeling drained, it can help to look for things that do energize you, and find a way to toggle between tasks, doing enough energizing work (writing a story about what you'd rather be doing than school) to counterbalance the energy drain from the school tasks.
Re: motivation, "Drive" author Dan Pink says that people need three things for high-level motivation: autonomy, mastery, and purpose. Very often, school consists of none... but if you look for ways to have those things in your life, it might help your overall motivation levels.
Was that interesting, informative, or helpful at all? Did you learn something there?
Part of the problem, too, may be actual resistance to school, although resistance can come up even with things you actually want to do. Stephen Pressfield has this term called "The Resistance" in his discussion of the creative process.
If part of the problem is simply lack of energy, or feeling drained, it can help to look for things that do energize you, and find a way to toggle between tasks, doing enough energizing work (writing a story about what you'd rather be doing than school) to counterbalance the energy drain from the school tasks.
Re: motivation, "Drive" author Dan Pink says that people need three things for high-level motivation: autonomy, mastery, and purpose. Very often, school consists of none... but if you look for ways to have those things in your life, it might help your overall motivation levels.
Heh, nice video. Motivated me to actually do some homework (it counts towards my NCEA credits and I've been putting it off for ages).
10-15-2013 03:58 PM
Thanks given by:
James Comey
Banished Oldfaf in Exile
Posts: 6,500
Joined: Aug 2013
xcriteria, are you aware of any studies that show that music may help students do their work? I find it much more easier to do my work when I'm listening to my music than doing it in the tedium of the classroom.
I work best in silence(though distractions and sounds won't bother me). Course when I'm done with my work, said silence will also really speed up my urge to nap since I'm not engaging my brain.