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"Go get a girlfriend!"

Not surprising. I notice (stereotypically) that the popular kids are most likely to do drugs, sex, etc. It's all part of "looking cool".

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(10-02-2013 01:27 PM)Hansgrohe Wrote:  Up until really recently it was taboo to talk about safe sex in schools and schools encouraged pure abstinence. Not worked out exactly like they hoped it would.

My college was real blunt about safe sex and alcohol and partying.(According to the college admins, they aren't against partying alcohol or sex but are against doing it irresponsibly. And that if you don't want the college public safety raiding your party and getting everyone in trouble, then don't do anything that has others calling the public safety. The admins know when parties happen and where, but don't actively stop them unless a student calls in a complaint, be it noise or something else).

They told us where students could get condoms,birth control and dental dams(and to teach students what a dental dam was and what for if asked). Let me remind you my high school treated us gender-neutral in the sense any talk of sexuality was "deferred". I doubt anyone in my class knew what a dental dam was(or specifically what it had to do with sex). Or what a condom looked like.

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RE: "Go get a girlfriend!"

My sister used to tell me similar things in middle school, and I was in the same position you're in now. I ignored the advice, eventually right before 9th grade started I met this one girl and was with her for two years so I guess things didn't work out too bad for me.


Middle school relationships don't last very long but it's about gaining more dating experience that you can apply to later relationships. That way when you get into something serious you won't be awkward about it and you'll have an understanding of how relationships work. The girl I dated for those two years was my first serious girlfriend and while I was awkward at first due to lack of past dating experiences, it worked out decently.


Middle school was the absolute worst time of my life thus far. Perhaps it had something to do with dating and making friends, maybe not. Either way, don't worry about it. If you don't want a relationship then don't get into one and tell anybody who suggests otherwise that you're not looking for something serious at the moment and leave it at that.

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RE: "Go get a girlfriend!"

I hate the idea of just "getting a girlfriend" like it's a casual thing to do. I'm not sure if it's me or the Asperger's talking, but it's a very hard, sophisticated thing to do. And anyone who can just go into a relationship does not give it the amount of thought I do.

The "get laid" part also annoys me. To me, physical romance is both very important, and unimportant. It serves as convincing the body that you have a connection. That connection must be built psycologically, then the body can crave that other person more. Then, sex happens when you unconditionally love each other. Call me weird, but that's how I think.

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Being autistic myself makes me socailly awarkward as well. But since many relationships have a high risk of breaking up, I just don't get into them

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(10-03-2013 03:48 PM)SubCulture Wrote:  I hate the idea of just "getting a girlfriend" like it's a casual thing to do. I'm not sure if it's me or the Asperger's talking, but it's a very hard, sophisticated thing to do. And anyone who can just go into a relationship does not give it the amount of thought I do.

The "get laid" part also annoys me. To me, physical romance is both very important, and unimportant. It serves as convincing the body that you have a connection. That connection must be built psycologically, then the body can crave that other person more. Then, sex happens when you unconditionally love each other. Call me weird, but that's how I think.

I think relationships are very difficult too, here's what bugs me, in the past, you had sex when you wanted to have a family and if you loved your spouse, but now, it's has become a hobby and teens do it, leading to the abortion crap. If people didn't have sex for fun and teenagers wouldn't have sex, would you think we would be fighting over abortion?

but about relationships, 10 year old girls are crying because thier boyfriends broke up with them and cutting theirselves because JB became a pothead.

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(10-04-2013 07:07 AM)Missile Wrote:  If people didn't have sex for fun

"Oh yes, I'm determined to not enjoy this sex at all."

I'm sorry, but that's what I immediately thought.

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Aren't high school relationships pretty much the same as all other relationships, except that they occur between 2 people who just so happen to be in high school?

I think dating & relationships are 99% stupid, but there are exceptions. Well, most of the time the exceptions are probably 2 people who knew each other a long time before they started 'dating'. So they skipped all the stupid shit. I dunno, but that's how I imagine it would work. Razz

Quote:The "get laid" part also annoys me. To me, physical romance is both very important, and unimportant. It serves as convincing the body that you have a connection. That connection must be built psycologically, then the body can crave that other person more. Then, sex happens when you unconditionally love each other. Call me weird, but that's how I think.
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(10-04-2013 07:07 AM)Missile Wrote:  
(10-03-2013 03:48 PM)SubCulture Wrote:  I hate the idea of just "getting a girlfriend" like it's a casual thing to do. I'm not sure if it's me or the Asperger's talking, but it's a very hard, sophisticated thing to do. And anyone who can just go into a relationship does not give it the amount of thought I do.

The "get laid" part also annoys me. To me, physical romance is both very important, and unimportant. It serves as convincing the body that you have a connection. That connection must be built psycologically, then the body can crave that other person more. Then, sex happens when you unconditionally love each other. Call me weird, but that's how I think.

I think relationships are very difficult too, here's what bugs me, in the past, you had sex when you wanted to have a family and if you loved your spouse, but now, it's has become a hobby and teens do it, leading to the abortion crap. If people didn't have sex for fun and teenagers wouldn't have sex, would you think we would be fighting over abortion?

but about relationships, 10 year old girls are crying because thier boyfriends broke up with them and cutting theirselves because JB became a pothead.

I cried because I couldn't find that one Lego in my giant box of Legos when I was building something

I think it's not because kids have sex for fun but more or less the lack of awareness of safe sex on high school campuses. Slowly, safe sex is being taught more and more, but it really still is a taboo in most areas.

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When taboo and from what they see on film tv, hormones are chanting "SEX SEX! SEX!". Then they realize that its really messy business and nothing tv film. Course by then the damage may have already been done.

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(10-04-2013 10:55 AM)brainiac3397 Wrote:  When taboo and from what they see on film tv, hormones are chanting "SEX SEX! SEX!". Then they realize that its really messy business and nothing tv film. Course by then the damage may have already been done.

Not to mention that pornography makes sex seem like absolute bliss, thus increasing peoples' (mainly males, I'd think) craving for it.

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And makes some males think a lot of men have big penises. Then the average of 5-6in(which is more then enough to get the job done) suddenly gets considered not manly and you're supposed to be lugging around a foot long pole -_-

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RE: "Go get a girlfriend!"

You are socially awkward and you like to be alone... seems like I am not the only one here... welcome to the club, brah...

As cheesy as this feels like: It comes with the time. Eventually in your life you will meet one girl (Not in a fucking school of course) that you will really love.

I can not assure it, but I have high hopes with things like that... even though I myself am a lonely fucking piece of shit...

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At this point, I don't bother with high school dating. I think SubCulture said it the best. A lot of people act as if school dating is this sort of game or casual thing to do that all teenagers must do, but for socially awkward people, it's really hard to do. Talking and making relationships is hard enough (though I'm less awkward than I used to be), but a semi-romantic relationship is something else.

And yes, I know that eventually I might meet a girl that I can actually get along with. There's definitely plenty of fish in the sea, but in school the fish are seemingly in certain types of varieties. I know that this world is big, and that my perception of people should, out of all places, definitely not be set by school.

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There is nothing for me to say here that others have not already said. High school dating is an exercise in futility.

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I remember back when bumping threads was greatly frowned upon. Glad that's apparently over.
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I hate the word girlfriend because the letters r, l, f should not be bunched together without vowels in the middle of a word like that. It's disgusting. The church should issue an official statement.

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(04-13-2017 09:09 PM)no Wrote:  I hate the word girlfriend because the letters r, l, f should not be bunched together without vowels in the middle of a word like that. It's disgusting. The church should issue an official statement.

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(04-13-2017 08:28 PM)Jop Wrote:  I remember back when bumping threads was greatly frowned upon. Glad that's apparently over.

TBH I think bumping threads is kinda useful in a way in case someone wants to start a thread and there's already one and they can read older posts as well.

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When I was in Year 8, I wanted to have a boyfriend because everyone else in my class had either a boyfriend or a girlfriend. I couldn't get one and I thought I was the worst student in my class because I didn't have a boyfriend. My mum kept telling me that I still shouldn't have one, unless I want to become pregnant as a teenager. I didn't want that. I just wanted to be like the rest of the class. Then, I became friends with a boy named Samir. He wasn't my boyfriend though. We were friends for about four months, but then people in my DT class asked me if I love him. I told them I did, but didn't want to tell him. So the next day in math class, they told him and he wasn't my friend anymore. Last year in January, he started being mean to me and told me to kiss my art teacher. She was very sick back then and I was crying every day until she came back. I eventually turned from straight to bisexual and from bisexual to a lesbian. There was a girl who was also my friend and also became my friend when my art teacher was sick, but we were friends for nearly a year. One day, she wanted to be my girlfriend, but that didn't happen. Instead, I broke friendship with her because she was stealing my lunch money, using my print credits, making me bring her to her lessons, making me do her Geography homework for her, telling me to never talk to Miss Bennett (My DT teacher) because SHE HATES HER, pulling me away from Mrs Neal (An English teacher who I like, but does not teach me and never did) while we were talking and threatening to sexually harass her, kill her, kidnap Harry (Mrs Neal's son), kill Mrs Neal's husband, kill the rest of her family, kill me and kill all the teachers except her two favourite teachers. She also forced me to swear and ask teachers how old they are and said that if I don't swear, I will die, while if I don't ask teachers how old they are, Mrs Neal will die. The girl also said that all teachers except her two favourites have to lick her butt. I not only stopped being friends with her, but also reported her. At the beginning of Year 9 (The year I'm currently in), I had some teacher crushes. Recently, my classmates have been going around telling people that I love Miss Kasmani, Ms McCutcheon and Mr Thambiah. Yes, I love Miss Kasmani and Ms McCutcheon, but not Mr Thambiah. In fact, I don't talk to him much and barely know him. Unfortunately, two months ago, I hugged Ms McCutcheon and it made me the worst student ever because she doesn't like being hugged. I can't stop staring at my teachers. My art teacher told me that I should only stare at my boyfriend like that and said that I need to be 21 years old to have one. Later in the Parents Evening, my Pastoral Leader told me that I need to be 24 in order to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend. And yes, I know that there is no chance I will ever be with one of the teachers I love (Even after I turn 18). Three are married, two have a boyfriend, one follows a religion which does not allow her to be a lesbian and... one of them is 27 and I'm 14. The teachers I just mentioned are all females. I decided to accept the fact that there is nothing I can do about the things I just mentioned. I'll try to find some people who are one year younger than me, but not people my age or a year older because most of my classmates are being rude to me and Year 10's are evil. Or I won't ever get a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Who cares? I'm stupid, I'm ugly and my parents gave me the worst name anyone could ever have. Because of that, I hope I'll never be in a relationship. Even after I turn 18.

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I used to feel the same way about relationships back then tbh. I've been through a lot of crap, don't worry. TBH I'm still a bit cynical on relationships but it wears off as you grow older.

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I'm gay and I don't fucking like it at fucking all. People force me to talk to girls and I pretend to like them, I pretend to be an assexual for the walking-dildo classmates, my eyes look at men without my permition and people start to wonder because of it, I'm not vry sociable and I don't let people aproach (methaphorically) so much to me, because they can see my shames.
Most people I know are homophobic and make dirty jokes about gays (including my own father). I think I'm arromantic, too.


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I'm curious Lucas, what part of Brazil do you live? (I remember you mentioned living in Brazil).

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