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I am done.

You don't have to read this or care or reply or anything.

I just need to vent because I am seriously beyond furious right now.

So my ex boyfriend is still causing me trouble.
The one that threatened to kill me twice. Attempted to rape me. Threatened me and my family. Tried to convince me to stop taking birth control at 15 and 16 so he could get me pregnant.

Yeah him.
Well he just told me that he's filed a restraining order on me.

A restraining order.. On me.

Why you may ask? well it's simple. He wanted to get back with me. I said no. And then he said he'd file a restraining order on me. And so I said this.
Quote: You have no need to file a restraining order. Remember Nick, you're the one who threatens me. You threatened to kill me. Not the other way around. Stop trying to play victim you spoiled little brat

And well, I guess the truth hurts.

Fine, so be it. The judge will laugh in his face.

I'm a girl ffffeck
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RE: I am done.

Last I checked, restraining orders arent freely given. He is probably bullshitting because here has to be some proof that the person you want the restraining order against is a threat to your safety.

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(06-14-2013 08:02 AM)Potato Wrote:  watch the fuq out, we've got an "intellectual" over here.

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RE: I am done.

I know how restraining orders work.

Just the other week I was doing research about it to try and get one on him.

I know that if he's not bullshitting (and it's very likely he is considering he's a compulsive liar) I'll get notice in about 2 weeks.
This is also what he told me.

It's fine, he has nothing against me. Unlike him, I've never threatened him or his family. The only thing he has against me is maybe "harassment."

Or what he considers harassment. Which is really just him texting me first and not hearing what he wants to hear so he gets mad and starts playing victim.

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Well he would still need some proof. Judges don't exactly rely solely on the bitching about harassment. Unless he either has friends in the court, or the judge is a fool, I doubt he'll manage to get a restraining order. I think each state has a certain criteria for what's considered "danger to safety", ranging from simple stalking to acts of physical violence.

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RE: I am done.

Yeah he doesn't have any proof.
And if he shows up with proof, it was photoshopped.

This is all going to blow up in his face. I don't think he understands how a restraining order works.
He seems to think he can say "she's just annoying me" and he'll get one.

But once I show up with my entire family and tell him what's really going on.

Which is something along the lines of: He's just mad because I won't be his sperm bucket and I call him out on his shit.

In the end the Judge will probably tell him to get the fuck out of his court room and end up granting me a restraining order instead. -_-
Ok well maybe the giving me a restraining order part is far fetched, but you get it.

I mean really, who's the judge gonna side with?
The ex-soldier who got kicked out for threatening to kill his ex girlfriend?

Or the tiny, weak, ex girlfriend who's never even been in a fight and only shot a co2 pistol and couldn't even aim very well?

I'm a girl ffffeck
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RE: I am done.

You should have had your dad buy a gun. Laugh off all his threats. If he came to your house point a gun at his face. He'd change his tune then.

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RE: I am done.

He'd probably try to get me in trouble for that too.

it doesn't matter what the truth is.
He'll always thing HE'S the victim.

I'm a girl ffffeck
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Then maybe it's time to bitchify the bitch no?

Seduce him, act like your making up, then kick the sucker in the nuts as hard as your can(or fall on him and have your knee conveniently land on them).

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I am done.

Who cares if he gets a restraining order? He's doing you a favor IMO if he actually manages to get one, that way maybe he'll stay the fuck away from you.

Ignore his threats and just stop talking to him and stop acknowledging him, he'll give up eventually and you'll never hear from him again.
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RE: I am done.

I'm plagued by the need to win.

When really, I'm only making things worse on myself. I need to stop.

I'm a girl ffffeck
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RE: I am done.

You win if he leaves you alone. That's what you want, right? Ignore him completely and he'll leave you alone eventually, I promise.



Edit: it took me literally like 20 minutes to post that, what gives :/
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You win if you never hear from him or see him again, like Sharpie said.

I guess he's kind of like an internet troll... the more attention he gets, the more it feeds him. Don't feed the trolls. Razz

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Trolls are regenerative. I suggest napalm. Lots of napalm.

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HELL NAH! PHOSPHORUS! it burns as long as it has oxygen, its sticky, and never comes of you, will burn for EVER

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Burn Baby Burn!

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(09-26-2013 10:35 AM)Night Wrote:  He'd probably try to get me in trouble for that too.

it doesn't matter what the truth is.
He'll always thing HE'S the victim.

Record it. If he comes slamming on your door and he won't leave you can threaten him with a firearm. Have it recorded.

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RE: I am done.

Get your parents to buy a gun, (pistol is good for personal defense, shotgun for home defense) a crowbar/knife/machete any melee weapon. And a can of mace

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