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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

-SoulRiser

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Harsh truths about accepting and overcoming depression
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RE: Harsh truths about accepting and overcoming depression

Re-reading this, I come off as a massive cunt.

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RE: Harsh truths about accepting and overcoming depression

Putting anything forth is a risk, especially when you know people will disagree with you. The quest is to find that truth which is universal and authentic and press that.

I agree that a lot of what you said was true in spirit, but its hard to generalize since circumstances vary so much from person to person. Like soulriser's suggestion to be a couch surfer in another discussion, maybe great for some people but terrible for another.

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Wisdom is to follow only the Opinion which makes the best use of evidence.
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