My sister is a piece of shit selfish cunt and I hope she fucking dies

[Night]

And I'm too fucking mad to tell you why. So Just take my word for it. I fucking hate her. Ever since we were young she's always been a fucking cunt who ruins everything.

Becuase according to her since i'm 16 I should have a job. But we got to take into account a lot of different things her. I have 0 experience. I'm 16, people are more inclined to hire a less qualified 18 year old than a more qualified 16 year old, and like i said 0 experience, 0 qualifications. Not to mention the fact that my area is mostly residential not a lot of businesses, and most of the businesses don't hire anyone under 18. And I can't look farther, I can't drive and we have one car that my mom uses to drive herself to work. Oh and one of the ONLY places that MIGHT hire me, I'm banned from! Soo yeah.

I'd like to see her when she's 16 and trying to find a job. Course She'll probably find one. Because everything she does is better than me. Gets better grade than me, gets in a better school than me, more "responsible" than me.

I actually hope this dumb cunt gets a fucking job. She's terrible at taking instructions. She thinks she's queen of fucking everything and she can get away with anything.

I fucking hate her. I really fucking hate her. I hope she gets hit by a fucking car and dies. She's a selfish lazy piece of shit cunt and my parents allow it!

[Alucard483]

At this point, you are no better than her. Both of you appear to be lazy self absorbed asses that rely on your parents.

Try telling her to just shut the fuck up. If she tries to continue speaking just keep beating the drum of "Shut the fuck up". Make it so if she even open her mouth you are telling her to shut up. It may make you appear as an even bigger bitchy teen than you already are, but hey, she will eventually get the messege to just keep to herself.

[тωιѕтє∂]

Make the words "Shut the fuck up" into a song. Then keep singing it, and singing it, and singing it, and singing it...

[stevehein]

hi n

first, im sorry about the first reply u got. im afraid u just felt worse from reading it. im pretty sure u didnt feel understood on an emotional level.

its sad for me to see how bad the pple here are at emotional support... when my gf, cheeselover, read the reply she said |"remind me not to vent my feelings on this website"

i just asked her if i could quote her and she yeah but she didnt want it to sound like she is criticizing the whole website and generalizing so much.

but i will say for myself that i have read a lot of posts here and i have also posted stuff myself and ive definitely seen that the pple here could use some help with how they communicate their feelings and beliefs etc. ive been trying to make a difference here but so far i have to say i dont feel real encouraged by the results. i do feel supported by soulriser though so ill keep trying.

im also afraid pple will feel judged by me and im really sorry if i come off that way cuz i personally hate to be judged and not understood.

as fat as the reply u got though i really dont understand why the person would say that - except for them trying to fill their own unmet needs, as i call them.

but anyhow, im sorry about the situation with ur sister. i know u get depressed and i can see why if u have to live with that. im kind of glad though that u get angry too and not just depressed. anger can be helpful energy.

tell me, would u leave that house if u legally could and had a place to go? ie if it was paid for or something....

and would ur parents call the cops?

cheeselover posted a question about this issue of teens not being able to decide where they live. id be curious to know what ur parents would say if they were asked the question. im not sure of the link but u can find it easily on cheeselover's list of posts.

hug if u want one.

steve

[stevehein]

Hi again N

CL and i were just talking about some kind of a new system for tracking how much pple feel understood and cared about when they get a reply.

sort of like when u can thank someone for a reply, but this would be more specific.

for example, we would like to know how much u felt understood by the first reply u got, from zero to ten. and how much u felt cared about. and we'd suggest u send the anwers to us in a pm- to either one of us...

if soulriser could make a system to automatically track stuff like that we could see pretty fast who the most understanding and caring people are here, according to the users. i dont know of any forum that does that. but i know in my teen chat support group i used to sometimes ask pple who they thought were the best listeners if i hadn't been keeping up with the chats myself.

so yeah we are curious if u want to tell us. and if anyone else who reads this wants to tell us who they feel more understood by and most cared about by or who the best listeners are, and why, that would be helpful. cuz we'd kind of like to identify them and acknowledge them at least in some way and also call attention to the fact that it is pretty damn important to be good listeners, to show understanding and to care about pple - not just here but in life.

i speak as someone who used to be a shitty listener and has changed 180 degress out of necessity. it caused me too much pain to be a shitty listener in the past.

so i had to learn on my own

school was no fucking help at all

not even 7 years of university btw.

s.

[Lime]

What exactly is the problem? Simply saying she's a piece of shit won't help much.

[Subb]

Steve, I think Alucard is like that with everyone.

[Night]

Uhh.. To be honest. I was mostly PMSing hardcore while writing that post..

Basically all she did was make a snide comment about how I don't have a job. And she really pissed me off because it's not so much the comment she made it's the way she said it. She has this condescending "I'm better than you" tone whenever she opens her mouth. And I got even more mad because they were all going to the zoo that day. And it's been a while since I've been to the zoo. And because she was pissing me off so badly I wanted to avoid her at all costs. And since she was going to the zoo, that meant me NOT going to the zoo. Which pissed me off even more.

[brainiac3397]

Come up with a snide retort like "I do have a job. It involves me punching your face in everytime you open your big mouth" and smile. Getting pissed off just pleases them.

Or you should have gone to the zoo and never missed a chance to compare her to a hippo or chimp. You could have said her big mouth would help her fit right in with the herbivores.

When someone looks down on you, you comment on how much nose hair they have XD

[Lime]

(06-19-2013 02:57 PM)Night Wrote:  Uhh.. To be honest. I was mostly PMSing hardcore while writing that post..

Basically all she did was make a snide comment about how I don't have a job. And she really pissed me off because it's not so much the comment she made it's the way she said it. She has this condescending "I'm better than you" tone whenever she opens her mouth. And I got even more mad because they were all going to the zoo that day. And it's been a while since I've been to the zoo. And because she was pissing me off so badly I wanted to avoid her at all costs. And since she was going to the zoo, that meant me NOT going to the zoo. Which pissed me off even more.

Well, I don't think that warrants a death sentence.

Try being nice for a while and see if it gets anywhere. I don't think I'm a particularly nasty person but any sort of kindness I have is disproportionately minute in comparison to my brother's (makes up for my parents somewhat), and we don't ever fight. Furthermore, and forgive me for being some foolish dreamer, the world could use a lot more altruism, honesty, charity, compassion, independent thinking, etc.

If she continues being a snobby prick, tell her to get her ass off her high horse and ignore her if she tries to say anything stupid.

[Dirtbikemike]

I have a job and I'm 15. First job. Employer said he likes to hire inexperienced people so he can get them to work to his standards.

Saying you have no experience to not go out and look for a job is just an excuse to be lazy. Go out and try.

[Night]

(06-20-2013 12:28 AM)Dirtbikemike Wrote:  I have a job and I'm 15. First job. Employer said he likes to hire inexperienced people so he can get them to work to his standards.

Saying you have no experience to not go out and look for a job is just an excuse to be lazy. Go out and try.

Ummm fuck you, I have tried. Do you know where I live? It's 99% people's houses here. So already I don't have many choices. Oh but then you say "well look for somewhere else" Well don't you think I haven't thought of that? Perhaps it's has something to do with the fact that I don't have a car and I can't drive. Oh and The only car we do have my mom uses to driver herself to work so if she's gonna drive me to work to our schedules better be the same.

Now lets take a look at the places I can work. It's mostly small businesses here. Which I've gone in and asked for a job from pretty much everyone. The only thing I got close was some Volunteer work for this thrift store. But then they went out of business a few days later before I could get my lazy cunt mom to sign the papers so I could volunteer.

Ok So what else do we have. Well we have a Target. But they won't hire you unless you're 18. And MAYBE if you're 17 during the holidays. Ooh, we got a Big Y too! Oh wait, I'm banned from there. Technically it's been over a year since my ban and I could have it lifted, but I HIGHLY doubt they'll hire someone who was caught shoplifting.

Oh, but then there's a Bob's store. Which, by the way is the ONLY job on snagajob that is in the "teen" category, meaning the ONLY job I even have a chance of getting. Oh did I mention I already applied?

Hm But I could try dominoes right? Well I could. I'm pretty sure when my friend was working there he was 17. But I don't know. he wasn't really all that much my friend. I would've applied already but my local dominoes chain doesn't do online applications. Sooo I have to find a day to go down there in person to ask.

So thank you for assuming I've never even looked. Thanks a fucking lot. Fuck you. I don't care if your 15 and already got a fucking job. And I don't care if you employer likes to hire inexperienced people. Because up here in Connecticut, you can't get a job under 16. In fact you can barely get a job even if you ARE 18.

Fuck you. No seriously, FUCK. YOU.

If you don't fucking know my circumstances don't make fucking assumptions. I'm seriously tired of assholes like you. If you want to talk shit about someone being lazy and not looking for a job look at my dad. Perfectly able bodied, definitely old enough to have a job. Not to mention his EXPERIENCE in shit like painting houses and whatever and construction type work and he was a Janitor once at this snooty private boys school. Oh but is he looking for a job? HA! My dad? Have a job??? I haven't seen my dad earn a paycheck in YEARS and you want to know what he does all day? Computer games and tv. So yeah.

[Dead]

^Well this just got interesting

[Lime]

We won't be having a surplus supply of f-bomb munitions.

On a serious note, we could do better with just the explanations.

[stevehein]

im wondering how soulriser feels when she reads all of this...

i feel very sad to see it.

again, night, im sorry u are not getting any more understanding/empathy here.

im working on starting a new forum where people can get some emotional support. if i do get it going, i will let u and others know. if there is anyone who reads this who considers themselves to be a caring, understanding, empathetic person, please let me know. it is hard for me to believe there arent some more of those kind of people reading these posts who are just scared to say something here, given how these posts obviously tend to go.

so if u consider yourself to be someone like that, i'd like to know u.

[brainiac3397]

I hate the entry level jobs these days. It's all retail shit, like cashier. I can't do it as a cashier, I simply hate that job. I despise it.

I also despise anything involving phones. I'm already dissuaded with using telecommunication for any purpose other than contacting people I already know(thus have met face to face with, at least once, and introduced with) or if I'm ordering take-out. I may use to ask questions or if I'm purchasing something, though only if there isn't any other possible choice. I would hate doing a job requiring use of phones to take orders(I unfortunately have that duty at the bakery I work at, though I usually try to avoid the phone when it rings so someone else gets it. Luckily there aren't many calls during my shift, and I will gladly accept the call of only one place because they're the only one's that actually speak slowly and clearly.)

Course once you finish college, there are better jobs available. Jobs that won't have a possiblity of me getting fired for calling a customer a dumb-ass or taking the wrong order because the guy on the phone was not only shouting, but also speaking unclearly and too damn fast.

I was looking to get a job in security, since I'm 18, and it usually just requires certification and a license(each state has it's own security license only usable in that state). But I'm working at a family-owned bakery that's very popular in the local and tri-state area(among the Turkish/Arab community that is, though some others do purchase it too) to make some cash before I start my certification. They were looking for workers, and they were our neighbors and family friends for about 2-3 years, so I didn't even fill in paperwork. I would've gotten a better position, which I'd probably like more, as a delivery person but I don't have a drivers license yet. Eh, at least I've got a job, though it would've been nice to have that delivery job, which pays better and has less people-involvement(and lots of NPR).

[Dirtbikemike]

(06-20-2013 09:27 AM)Night Wrote:  

(06-20-2013 12:28 AM)Dirtbikemike Wrote:  I have a job and I'm 15. First job. Employer said he likes to hire inexperienced people so he can get them to work to his standards.

Saying you have no experience to not go out and look for a job is just an excuse to be lazy. Go out and try.

Ummm fuck you, I have tried. Do you know where I live? It's 99% people's houses here. So already I don't have many choices. Oh but then you say "well look for somewhere else" Well don't you think I haven't thought of that? Perhaps it's has something to do with the fact that I don't have a car and I can't drive. Oh and The only car we do have my mom uses to driver herself to work so if she's gonna drive me to work to our schedules better be the same.

Now lets take a look at the places I can work. It's mostly small businesses here. Which I've gone in and asked for a job from pretty much everyone. The only thing I got close was some Volunteer work for this thrift store. But then they went out of business a few days later before I could get my lazy cunt mom to sign the papers so I could volunteer.

Ok So what else do we have. Well we have a Target. But they won't hire you unless you're 18. And MAYBE if you're 17 during the holidays. Ooh, we got a Big Y too! Oh wait, I'm banned from there. Technically it's been over a year since my ban and I could have it lifted, but I HIGHLY doubt they'll hire someone who was caught shoplifting.

Oh, but then there's a Bob's store. Which, by the way is the ONLY job on snagajob that is in the "teen" category, meaning the ONLY job I even have a chance of getting. Oh did I mention I already applied?

Hm But I could try dominoes right? Well I could. I'm pretty sure when my friend was working there he was 17. But I don't know. he wasn't really all that much my friend. I would've applied already but my local dominoes chain doesn't do online applications. Sooo I have to find a day to go down there in person to ask.

So thank you for assuming I've never even looked. Thanks a fucking lot. Fuck you. I don't care if your 15 and already got a fucking job. And I don't care if you employer likes to hire inexperienced people. Because up here in Connecticut, you can't get a job under 16. In fact you can barely get a job even if you ARE 18.

Fuck you. No seriously, FUCK. YOU.

If you don't fucking know my circumstances don't make fucking assumptions. I'mg seriously tired of assholes like you. If you want to talk shit about someone being lazy and not looking for a job look at my dad. Perfectly able bodied, definitely old enough to have a job. Not to mention his EXPERIENCE in shit like painting houses and whatever and construction type work and he was a Janitor once at this snooty private boys school. Oh but is he looking for a job? HA! My dad? Have a job??? I haven't seen my dad earn a paycheck in YEARS and you want to know what he does all day? Computer games and tv. So yeah.

Listen to David Foster Wallace's speech "This is Water." I'm going to make another assumption and say that was also PMS driven. Also a comment about you not having a job does not seem like a justification for us to believe that your sister is a "selfish lazy piece of shit cunt"

And I was wrong for making an assumption about your efforts although shoplifting is your fault.

[Night]

I have listened to the speech.

There are many many more reasons why I think my sister is selfish and lazy.

Of course shoplifting is my fault. I never thought I'd get caught at big y though. I always thought I'd get caught at Target.. They have cameras EVERYWHERE.
... Maybe it's because in my biggest shoplifting days the security guard at the time had a soft spot for me. Maybe he knew but chose to ignore it. Hm.

[brainiac3397]

I'd love to see a shoplift where you load everything up in a cart, bring it as close to the exist as possible(perhaps some items are located nearest to it), then make a mad dash through the doors, all while wearing an Obama mask.

You may want an accomplice as a getaway driver, unless you're just doing it for the lulz, then you can just ditch the cart as soon as your tired of being chased around by the security guards. Remember to leave a thank you note.

Course you'll have to do it at some big place(like Wal-Mart for instance).

Nonetheless, this is totally off-topic...

[Night]

Lol. No store around here would have a good enough sense of humor to let me get away with that..

Specially not target. They're have you before you're even out the door and have the cops there in 5 minutes because my town is so small.

You can't even take carts off the property. They got a thing that once you pass it it's locks the wheels. Fucking shopping carts. Like really....

[brainiac3397]

Locks don't matter when you do it like this:

[HawkbitAlpha]

KDFire Wrote:well that escalated quickly

[SoulRiser]

group hugs, anyone?

[brainiac3397]

(06-27-2013 03:32 AM)SoulRiser Wrote:  group hugs, anyone?

"Keep your filthy paws off my back you un-evolved ape"...would be an amusing reply.

"No thanks, I'm fine" would most likely be my actual reply.

So enjoy your hugs

[Lime]

(06-27-2013 03:32 AM)SoulRiser Wrote:  group hugs, anyone?

Keep your filthy paws off my back you un-evolved ape

[Ahab]

Night, you shouldn't be so pissed off at her. I get it, job acquisition is one of the lamest topics to talk about when it comes to entry level tier work, especially if someone who can't even legally work is yelling at you about it like you're some kinda fuckin' hippie. But she's just being cunty, just do what Alucard says about that. It'll pass in time.

But don't compare yourself to her unless you're the kind of person who gets motivated by competition. If you aren't, it just becomes discouraging. She's found some solace in performing well in the conventional pursuits. You're probably one of the lucky fucks like a lot of us here who have to spend a lot of time screwing around and playing before getting to something worth working your ass off for. It's not a bad place to be, the process is more natural that way than 'MERRRR IM GONNA FUCKIN READ PLATO N STUDY GATSBY CUZ I NEED TO BE MA PHILOSOPHOZIZIN W/ RICH VOCAB 4 THE GOOD ESSAY fer COLLEGE'

(06-20-2013 12:28 AM)Dirtbikemike Wrote:  I have a job and I'm 15. First job. Employer said he likes to hire inexperienced people so he can get them to work to his standards.

Saying you have no experience to not go out and look for a job is just an excuse to be lazy. Go out and try.

Lel. What your employer forgot to mention was that inexperienced people = people your age group.

1) keeping you part time isn't a problem, it's even required.
2) you're considered low enough in the age-food chain that it doesn't matter if you're the next Einstein, you're fit for menial labor at this point in your life.
3) you'll accept the minimum wage because they know it's not your only means of survival, and they can also fuck with your hours/get you to take extra shifts for the same reason.
4) they see a 15 year old with no work experience...okay, you want a car, or drugs, or whatever extra goodies. They see someone with a one and a half+ year gap in their work history and there isn't a Bachelors or 'school leave' to show for it, that person is considered unreliable, because they're in their 20s.
5) you're replaceable in a way that won't give your manager a guilty conscience

[Dirtbikemike]

(06-28-2013 04:04 AM)Ahab Wrote:  

(06-20-2013 12:28 AM)Dirtbikemike Wrote:  I have a job and I'm 15. First job. Employer said he likes to hire inexperienced people so he can get them to work to his standards.

Saying you have no experience to not go out and look for a job is just an excuse to be lazy. Go out and try.

Lel. What your employer forgot to mention was that inexperienced people = people your age group.

Well, yes. I figured it was my age group.

1) keeping you part time isn't a problem, it's even required.

When he interviewed me he said he doesn't want me to get burnt out and hate it, it's just a job that I'll make money while going to school and doing football and wrestling on the side. So I'm okay with that.

2) you're considered low enough in the age-food chain that it doesn't matter if you're the next Einstein, you're fit for menial labor at this point in your life.

And?

3) you'll accept the minimum wage because they know it's not your only means of survival, and they can also fuck with your hours/get you to take extra shifts for the same reason.

Aha! Nope! Not minimum wage. In PA it's $7.25/hr and I'm making $9.25/hr. Manager told me it's not an easy job and I should get paid accordingly. It kind of is my means of survival in terms of a car if I'm going to pay for my insurance and gas without my dad's help but if it was my ONLY means of survival (food, house, the whole lot) then I would see them doing that, but right now I could leave and still find a job that, granted, would pay less but still gets the car insurance and gas paid for.

4) they see a 15 year old with no work experience...okay, you want a car, or drugs, or whatever extra goodies. They see someone with a one and a half+ year gap in their work history and there isn't a Bachelors or 'school leave' to show for it, that person is considered unreliable, because they're in their 20s.

Car insurance and gas. No drugs. Then yes extra goodies. I got lost after a half+ year gap in work history.

5) you're replaceable in a way that won't give your manager a guilty conscience

I work very hard and very fast. I've gotten comments from the chefs that they think it's funny that I'm better than other guys 5 years older than me and they're noticing it. If I do get let go/fired/etc. then I'll have a job history when I apply somewhere else and that'll certainly help. I can't deny that I'm replaceable but so is everyone else in a kitchen.

[тωιѕтє∂]

Anyone else notice that Dirtbikemike's "Hope for Humanity Meter" went down?

Oh yeah, and how did you win the argument you had with your teacher? What's the story on that?

[Dirtbikemike]

(06-30-2013 12:21 PM)Twisted Wrote:  Anyone else notice that Dirtbikemike's "Hope for Humanity Meter" went down?

Oh yeah, and how did you win the argument you had with your teacher? What's the story on that?

Here

[тωιѕтє∂]

And the balls of steel?