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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.
I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.
I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.
I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.
I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.
Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.
Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.
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"No One Dreams of Dropping Out"
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xcriteria
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"No One Dreams of Dropping Out"
I dreamed of dropping out. I also dreamed of becoming a giant and smashing up the school, but I doubt that'll ever happen.
Personality DNA Report
(06-14-2013 08:02 AM)Potato Wrote: watch the fuq out, we've got an "intellectual" over here.
Brainiac3397's Mental Health Status Log Wrote:
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"No One Dreams of Dropping Out"
I dreamed I actually went to high school. I cowered in a corner while the rest of my classmates marched over a walkway with no supports over a bottomless pit to get to our first class.
And that site is almost hilarious. I missed slightly more than three dozen days my last year, and I left just before the end. They saddled me with extra work to do because I missed so many days. And the funny thing is my reading scores were the highest out of all my classmates; I still probably have the papers that say as much stashed somewhere in my desk. Want me to scan them? I would for you guys.
"Screw education, it's going to school that counts!"
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James Comey
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RE: "No One Dreams of Dropping Out"
No, but I dream of teleporting out. ALL. THE. DAMN. TIME. It's starting to get irritating.
Hello, traveler.
This is an ancient account I have not used in a long time. My views have changed much in the intervening months and years.
Nonetheless, I refuse to clean it up. Pretending that I've held my current views since the beginning of time is what we in the industry call a lie. Asking people to do so contributes to moralistic self-loathing. "See, those people have nothing damning! I do! I'm truly vile!"
Because you can never be a good person with a single blemish on the moral record, I thought that simply entertaining some thoughts made me irredeemable. Though I don't care for his writing style, William Faulkner presents a good counterexample. He went from being a typical Southern racist to supporting the civil rights movement. These days we'd yell at him for that, probably.
People are allowed to change their views.
Nevertheless, this period of my life has informed some of how I am today. In good ways and bad ways. To purge it would be to do a disservice to history. Perhaps it will not make anyone sympathetic, but it may help someone understand.
If, after reading all this, you still decide to use the post above as evidence that I am evil today, ask yourself if you have never disagreed with the moral code you now follow. In all likelihood you did, at some point. If some questions are verboten, and the answer is "how dare you ask that," don't expect your ideological opponents to ever change their minds.
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RE: "No One Dreams of Dropping Out"
Quote:Students who attend school regularly are more likely than students who are chronically absent to:
Oh god...
Quote:Graduate and go on to college
Woopdie doo
Quote:Score higher on standardized tests
I was one of the 100 or so people in my entire school of 600ish to NOT fail the new standardized tests in my state. They're harder than the old tests.
Quote:Learn to read well by the critical 3rd grade milestone
John Taylor Gatto would have a few words for this...
Quote:Be more engaged in school, feel better about themselves and are less likely to be depressed
Indeed I don't give a shit about school, but that's the reason I miss school a lot! Not vice versa. I feel fantastic about myself. I'm depressed when I DO go to school.
Quote:Build good habits for school and life (How many employers will tolerate a worker who misses 10 percent of work days?)
Assuming we're going to work for someone else our entire lives. This seems like a theme amongst all adults. They work for someone else, their friends work for someone else, therefore everyone is doomed to work for someone else. Except the people that other people work for, but they're lucky, faceless, and anonymous; someone we'll never be.
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(05-14-2013 03:01 PM)Prince Darkstar Wrote: Dirtbikemike is the only guy I know of on here who won an argument with a teacher.
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RE: "No One Dreams of Dropping Out"
Quote:Build good habits for school and life (How many employers will tolerate a worker who misses 10 percent of work days?)
Assuming we're going to work for someone else our entire lives. This seems like a theme amongst all adults. They work for someone else, their friends work for someone else, therefore everyone is doomed to work for someone else. Except the people that other people work for, but they're lucky, faceless, and anonymous; someone we'll never be.
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Also the student is admitted to be a worker here, giving up the false pretense that school is a place of learning.
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"No One Dreams of Dropping Out"
I misspoke in my original post in this thread. I missed around 77 days, not three dozen. That's around six dozen. To their credit, I didn't actually graduate!
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