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I don't know which middle school to go to?
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I don't know which middle school to go to?

Okay, I am in 6th grade right now, in a grade 6-8 middle school.
But, I also have a choice to go to a grade 7-8 middle school next year.
I went to an elementry school last year.

I am gifted, and the middle school I am in now is good because:
1. It has a big gifted program. People don't tease me or anyone about it, and in fact think it's pretty cool. It's a good education.
2. Even though I only have 1 good friend that I have made just this year, but I also hang out and eat lunch with her other friends.

Two bad things is that:
1. There is no drama and gossip and shit, which I think is really fun, because there are so many ways to deal with it, and I don't care what other people think of me, so I could have fun with it.
2. I hate the majority of the people.

The other school is good because:
1. My best friend is going there. Not my good friend I mentioned earlier, my BEST BEST BEST friend that I left this year back at my old elementry school. It's really hard for us to get together afterschool and on weekends because of our different lifestyles, so I miss her, AND she's also insecure, and I MUST help her when needed.
2. There is drama, which I like, as I mentioned earlier.
3. I think there in a gifted program in there too, I'm not sure.

Bad part is:
1. Not the best education or enforcment I need, but I AM getting better with my school work.
2. I don't want to be switching back and forth. Like they always say "The grass is always greener on the other side"

Sorry this is kind of long, I just really need advice.

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I don't know which middle school to go to?

Which would you regret more? Not getting the 'best education', or not being with your friend?

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RE: I don't know which middle school to go to?

the grass may be greener, but that means the water bill is higher

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