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uhm... i just kinda wanna clarify that i didnt know that people were joking earlier.... im sorry.
but i would like to ask... is that how most of the responses are?? people posting stuff that others have written before??

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01-18-2013 10:33 AM
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Herm, yeah somewhat. We like to poke fun, but it's not meant to offend or harass anyone.
You are still the new ArabiaMad to me, though.
Also, try to improve your grammar and spelling.
01-18-2013 11:13 AM
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(01-18-2013 11:13 AM)Luizao876 Wrote:  Herm, yeah somewhat. We like to poke fun, but it's not meant to offend or harass anyone.
You are still the new ArabiaMad to me, though.
Also, try to improve your grammar and spelling.

my spelling is fine. i just choose to speak like that... and i wish people would at least say "oh hey, i got this from such and such" instead of actually leaving it unresponsive...

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(01-18-2013 12:18 PM)wanted Wrote:  
(01-18-2013 11:13 AM)Luizao876 Wrote:  Herm, yeah somewhat. We like to poke fun, but it's not meant to offend or harass anyone.
You are still the new ArabiaMad to me, though.
Also, try to improve your grammar and spelling.

my spelling is fine. i just choose to speak like that... and i wish people would at least say "oh hey, i got this from such and such" instead of actually leaving it unresponsive...

You need to brush up your Internet knowledge, mah boi
01-18-2013 12:27 PM
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im usually not on it much, sorry.... i have a life that keeps me busy with my daughter and fiance. then im so tired i usually sleep through school and still have a gpa of 3.98... gotta love it :/

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(01-18-2013 12:35 PM)wanted Wrote:  im usually not on it much, sorry.... i have a life that keeps me busy with my daughter and fiance. then im so tired i usually sleep through school and still have a gpa of 3.98... gotta love it :/
Why are you still in school?
01-18-2013 01:04 PM
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Most of the time, "copypastas" aren't used, but just sometimes when appropriate, often to mess with people...
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i had a daughter and missed a year. i just turned 18 a couple months ago. i'll still be 18 when i graduate...
i just wanted to finish high school instead of being another statistic...

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Why you didn't use a condom you dolt.
In all seriousness, you wanted to have this daughter? Having a daughter when you are still in high school is quite tricky.
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yes, it is. but i didnt have her by choice... i was raped by my cousins best friend...
not all babies are born to a teen that just didnt use a condom. and it is very hard having a baby during high school. but im doing it to better her life. and mine.

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Wow. Raped? I've never understood why people do awful shit like that. I'm sure it's been hard coping with that.

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yeah it has been hard. but it gets better when you find someone who helps you and adores your beautiful baby girl...

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Shit, I never imagined you were raped. It must has been quite traumatic, I'm sorry to hear that.
While I don't know your pain, I understand that it was quite hard.
But it takes some courage to have a daughter without consent and not just abort her, congratulations for that.
In another note, what happened to the rapist?
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he got away with it because i had no way of proving it was rape. he drugged me and then took advantage of me being passed out so i couldnt protest. he told everyone it was consented. i didnt even know it happened until i found out i was pregnant. then i was told the story of chad slipping something in my drink one night, and then him using me. i tried to prove it was rape but how can you prove its rape when you dont even remember it happening? sigh... it gets easier. i have a beautiful little girl that i love so much and i will never ever regret my decision to keep her. she's my world now... and i thank God for that..

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