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What is wrong with this bitch at my school?
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What is wrong with this bitch at my school?
She's a fucking bitch. She will threaten, interogate, and start fights, but always backs down and never goes through with any of them, because she's too scared and knows that I will do it if she asks for it.
She's spoiled like hell and rubs its in everyone's face "Don't get snow on my uggs they cost like $200" "Omg, these jeans were like, $45".
It is the most annoying shit you'd ever have to deal with.
The one thing that REALLY bothers me though, is that she THINKS when she says mean comments to be, or threatens a fight, that I am actually hurt and frightened by what she says. Even though I just want to bash her head in even more.
Is there something wrong with her? Or something?
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What is wrong with this bitch at my school?
She exists. That's what's wrong with her.
Hello, traveler.
This is an ancient account I have not used in a long time. My views have changed much in the intervening months and years.
Nonetheless, I refuse to clean it up. Pretending that I've held my current views since the beginning of time is what we in the industry call a lie. Asking people to do so contributes to moralistic self-loathing. "See, those people have nothing damning! I do! I'm truly vile!"
Because you can never be a good person with a single blemish on the moral record, I thought that simply entertaining some thoughts made me irredeemable. Though I don't care for his writing style, William Faulkner presents a good counterexample. He went from being a typical Southern racist to supporting the civil rights movement. These days we'd yell at him for that, probably.
People are allowed to change their views.
Nevertheless, this period of my life has informed some of how I am today. In good ways and bad ways. To purge it would be to do a disservice to history. Perhaps it will not make anyone sympathetic, but it may help someone understand.
If, after reading all this, you still decide to use the post above as evidence that I am evil today, ask yourself if you have never disagreed with the moral code you now follow. In all likelihood you did, at some point. If some questions are verboten, and the answer is "how dare you ask that," don't expect your ideological opponents to ever change their minds.
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RE: What is wrong with this bitch at my school?
(01-14-2013 03:03 AM)planetfall666 Wrote: She exists. That's what's wrong with her.
Are you serious?
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RE: What is wrong with this bitch at my school?
(01-14-2013 02:41 AM)Twisted Wrote: She's a fucking bitch. She will threaten, interogate, and start fights, but always backs down and never goes through with any of them, because she's too scared and knows that I will do it if she asks for it.
She's spoiled like hell and rubs its in everyone's face "Don't get snow on my uggs they cost like $200" "Omg, these jeans were like, $45".
It is the most annoying shit you'd ever have to deal with.
The one thing that REALLY bothers me though, is that she THINKS when she says mean comments to be, or threatens a fight, that I am actually hurt and frightened by what she says. Even though I just want to bash her head in even more.
Is there something wrong with her? Or something?
There are things you can do. Which one of your alternatives to choose is questionary. I bet ignorance will make her leave you alone, but if she always backs down, don't feel frightened or become hurt.
When she's insulting/hurting you, don't throw even the slightest glance at her.
However, the best thing - in my opinion - would be to first ask her to stop, and give her a chance to quit.
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RE: What is wrong with this bitch at my school?
This is high school, so calm down. She's bound to get a free ride through life via her parents and none of us can really change that.
What you can change is:
1) If she's threatening to fight, just do it. She can't run to her parents to defend her at school.
2) Get snow on her Uggs and mess up her jeans. If they get to the point where they're irreparable her parents will just buy her new stuff.
3) Laugh at her comments. Don't say anything back, just laugh. I've been bullied in my life and they don't know where to go other than "You think I'm joking!?" then you can resort to #1 above.
She's just spoiled, that's all.
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RE: What is wrong with this bitch at my school?
"Oh, your uggs are $200? My aviators ar $450."
"You spent $45 on something that you dont even look good in?"
"Oh, that was a clever remark, you stay up late thinking about how to put me down?"
She sounds like a materialistic stuck up bitch. Her bane is being more stuck up than her. Ready some flexible remarks (like above) that can quickly and easily manipulated on a moments notice to suit your need.
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What is wrong with this bitch at my school?
Spoiled, that's about it. Just ignore her.
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So I’d rather die for a cause than live a life that is worthless
I don’t need the circus or the day of national observance
I need you to think for you and stop being a servant
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