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What makes you instantly hate someone?
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What makes you instantly hate someone?

Self-explanatory.

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What makes you instantly hate someone?

-judgemental
-close minded

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What makes you instantly hate someone?

The way they talk. If they talk like a normal person with a proper English then I'm cool with that.
But when it gets to those fake gangsters that talk street language (ex: yo wus good homie, ma nigga, yo son, you wilating...hear those too many times in my school..gosh..) that will make me hate them to death.
Idk..I just really hate that.
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What makes you instantly hate someone?

People who only judge others by their opinions.
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What makes you instantly hate someone?

I tend to oppose those who act foolishly to the point at which they tend to deny that they're being foolish. Needless to say, stupid people get on my nerves rather frequently, particularly when they don't seek to become smarter or wiser.

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What makes you instantly hate someone?

I dislike those who move in certain ways, like how you can tell when someone's got a huge ego by the way they stand? I prefer the shy people who hide in the corners of the room and pray not to be noticed. But when you say "hello" they're really nice to you.
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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

That seems like one to be careful with. Good posture and self-confidence could easily be mistaken for arrogance. I've seen it happen.

I hate people who want to bitch endlessly and never do anything about it, people who make me repeat myself for no reason, and people who can't come up with anything to talk about without it involving criticism of another person.
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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

Dumbasses, cockblocks and hipsters

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What makes you instantly hate someone?

Nothing should make me instantly hate someone. They could be a douche at first, then be nice afterwards. I find that kind of social interaction quite complicated because I find it difficult to know weather a person is nice or bad immidiately. Soo with other words, I try givining people at least two or three chances to show me they're nice, even though they first time proved to me they were douchebags. But well unfortunately some stuff, certain stuff make me hate certain people, even though it shouldn't happen, though I try to be aware of it, and give them a chance most often. Most often it's the bragging, arrogant snapping type.
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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

Yeah, people do screw up, so multiple chances are in order. But, at some point, it becomes apparent that someone isn't compatible with your personality. This doesn't cause me to really hate them as a person so much as decide that I would invariably hate being around them. In most of these cases they're fine people except that I don't like them, and I hope they have a great life—somewhere else.
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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

The look in their eyes. It really depends though.

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What makes you instantly hate someone?

Judgemental, ignorant, close minded people who think their opinions are facts. Lets not forget excessive selfishness and taking it out on other people often.
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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

Anyone who is mean to anyone more vulnerable than them... (so usually kids or animals or whatever). I try not to hate them though, but it's not always easy depending on what they've done.

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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

basically what everyone else has said about judgemental and close-minded people...i may not be the best example of open-mindedness, but i'm sure as hell more open-minded than about 2/3 of my school (most of my skool is populated by the southerners of the north basically because they fly their stars and bars on 9/11, but had my skool done anything about it and i would have remembered, i probably would have gone out and gotten an American flag and flew it on my car right in the middle of all the crappy trucks)

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What makes you instantly hate someone?

If they care too much about appearances/what is considered socially good or acceptable.
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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

These things especially:
-If they talk far-out slang.
-Whatever I've heard about them from others (if it's bad)
-Judgemental of people because of their opinions/interests.
-Being closed-minded.
Basically, just flat out ignorance.

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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

People who always have to have the last word on something.

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^ Yeah!

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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

(01-02-2013 09:45 AM)Miller0700 Wrote:  Self-explanatory.

Anyone who has the nerve to be stupid or a total bitch. Enough said.

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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

Mostly I manage to see the good in people.

I cant fucking stand it when anyone forces kids they know are awkward into bad situations and the poor kid doesn't know how to handle it and doesn't even know what's going on.

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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

Anyone, who doesn't only dislike being somewhat decent and smart, but actually strives to make themselves look stupid and doing intentionally stupid things to make them look funny.

And people like Piers Morgan, who do not allow for a proper debate and rely on interrupting the opposition then shoving words in their mouth.

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RE: What makes you instantly hate someone?

People with a "No-nonsense, no bullshit" personality.

While that's not completely annoying, its the people who never seem to let it go with people and have to pluck out people's faults at every turn i.e they never shut up about it.

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