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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

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My parents talked to me about my future and what I wanted to do. They said I have to marry someone from our tribe. I totally disagree.
I don't wanna marry a saudi. I wanna marry some Pakistani woman.
They don't know what is inside my head.
They think i'm just an average kid.
I'm not.

I need some advice on how to disgrace them when I become a man. The only idea I've got is marry an asian.

this is in my head. They hardly know anyhting about me.
I'm different than everyone else, like a tree in the desert.

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Marry a black woman who doesn't speak English or arabic.

Start smoking weed.

Masturbate publicly.

These are a few suggestions, I can have MANY MORE (I am an expert on shame).
11-03-2012 12:28 AM
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That sounds nice. Marry a black woman the jungle of africa.

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Marry a white man.

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Don't marry someone just to disgrace your parents... lol. Just have a good life according to your own standards, and fuck what they think. It's win-win... you get to be happy and possibly annoy them at the same time.

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I would marry a saudi but theres so much tribal. I dont wanna marry one.

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I should marry a non virgin fat goth chick! That will make my parents proud!
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Wait you're a hurricane you can't marry a human silly hurricane go find a nice hurricane to marry except no hurricane will want to be with you now cause you're all washed up.

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Fuck everything.
I don't want a future all I want to do is travel the world.

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When I look at this city, I always have a pain inside me knowing that a ridiculously underpaid asian guy who works 6 days a week for long hours and only gets 600 Riyals a month (159.981 USD).
Even when I go to the mall, or i'm in a car, I feel pain in my heart.

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I AM SO HAPPY. I GOT PunBB RUNNING.

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