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Texas father pickets school over son’s bullying
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Texas father pickets school over son’s bullying

Quote:A Texas father is hitting the streets to support his son, who he says is being punished for standing up to a bully.

Randy Duke of Victoria, Texas, walks for a couple of hours each day in front of Cade Middle School carrying a sign that reads "Bullying victims are punished here," reports KHOU.

Duke's 14-year-old son, Max, was disciplined for allegedly fighting with a student who had been bullying him, Duke said.

"He's at the point where [he said], 'Dad, I couldn't walk away, 'cause he just follows me and beats up on me all the time,'" Duke told KHOU. "Then when he finally has to take matters into his own hands, he gets punished."

Duke said what set Max off was when the eighth-grader who had been bullying him for several years stomped on a paper airplane Max had made in art class for a special-needs child.

"So Max just looked up and said, 'What the hell?' The kid shoved Max. Max had had enough. And that just snapped him, and he shoved back, and they started into it," Duke said.

Max, who is also in eighth grade, served a two-day suspension and was sent to an alternative school in the district.

Local school district officials declined to comment on the disciplinary issue, citing privacy laws, according to the Victoria Advocate.

The district has detailed procedures for handling bullying and fighting, the newspaper reported. One option is to send students participating in a fight to the alternative school for 30 days, the Advocate noted.

Duke says that means his son won't be able to participate in the marching band.

"This opened him up," Duke said to KHOU. "After years of bullying, he had closed into a shell. This started bringing him out of his shell. He was making friends. He had something to look forward to."

Since he cannot appeal the district's decision, Duke has taken to picketing on the sidewalks near the school to protest its stance.

And on one day, Brent Knalls and his family stopped to talk to Duke, the Advocate reported.

"I like what he's doing," Knalls said. "We're from East Texas. This would have been handled there. Here it's been ignored."

Randy Duke is a Navy veteran recently returned from the Middle East after training Afghan police officers for the last year.

"I left one war and came back to another," Duke told the Advocate. "This is not about this one bully; this is about the school district not standing up and doing something about it."
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This kid's dad is a Navy veteran, and he's getting bullied...who else misses the days of "my dad can beat up your dad." Because I'd be worried about messing with a kid if I knew that his dad was a badass.

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(10-11-2012 03:29 AM)Heil_Kaiba8921 Wrote:  This kid's dad is a Navy veteran, and he's getting bullied...who else misses the days of "my dad can beat up your dad." Because I'd be worried about messing with a kid if I knew that his dad was a badass.
If these days were like those days, I would've gone through my early school years practically unchallenged.

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It's sad that some people don't have dads to help them out. Edit: Don't tell SomeRandomHuman

Congratulations humanity,because you refuse to let go of the old and evolve you actually make people believe in 2012. Not only that, but you're the only species on Earth that were able to make it possible, now we get to sit until we die because we couldn't get to Mars. We have failed as a society and don't deserve our gifts to survive for this long. Maybe this is why dinosaurs are extinct, we sure aren't any better than the dirt you say we're created from. http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=pla...DvwSOFto#! Noo

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(10-11-2012 09:50 AM)EmpathyLover Wrote:  It's sad that some people don't have dads to help them out. Edit: Don't tell SomeRandomHuman

She'll probably find this thread anyway. I didn't know my dad until I was 9 and although he was nice at first he turned out to be the most bipolar, insane, hating dick you could ever meet.

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I need to move to Texas. All the cute Indian chicks are there.

Congratulations humanity,because you refuse to let go of the old and evolve you actually make people believe in 2012. Not only that, but you're the only species on Earth that were able to make it possible, now we get to sit until we die because we couldn't get to Mars. We have failed as a society and don't deserve our gifts to survive for this long. Maybe this is why dinosaurs are extinct, we sure aren't any better than the dirt you say we're created from. http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=pla...DvwSOFto#! Noo

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(10-16-2012 01:26 PM)EmpathyLover Wrote:  I need to move to Texas. All the cute Indian chicks are there.
Be careful. 14% of india is muslim. Muslim fathers are VERY protective about their daughters. If they find out some random guy wants to have sex with her, God knows what will happen.

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Fine, I'll stick with Europeans for another year,but I will get the Asians.

Congratulations humanity,because you refuse to let go of the old and evolve you actually make people believe in 2012. Not only that, but you're the only species on Earth that were able to make it possible, now we get to sit until we die because we couldn't get to Mars. We have failed as a society and don't deserve our gifts to survive for this long. Maybe this is why dinosaurs are extinct, we sure aren't any better than the dirt you say we're created from. http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=pla...DvwSOFto#! Noo

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