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Musician help needed. AGAIN
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gore goroth Offline
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Musician help needed. AGAIN

Since My senior project is over I finally got started on this whole band thing. So far Its just me and a bass player. We need more BM or at very least fellow metalheads and I don't know how to find any bandmates. I tried the local craiglist and I didn't really get any answers to the band advertisement. Anyone know a good way to get more band members??

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RE: Musician help needed. AGAIN

Ask people that has taste for metal and knows how to play well an instrument. If you only know this guy, try asking in your school, I suppose. Can't help you much.
05-30-2012 03:31 PM
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(05-30-2012 03:31 PM)Luizao876 Wrote:  Ask people that has taste for metal and knows how to play well an instrument. If you only know this guy, try asking in your school, I suppose. Can't help you much.

I have already and I wouldn't have to make this thread if it was that easy. Ive only found a few friends who are drummers, etc... and none of them really want to take the time to be serious musicians.

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Does the band have a name yet?

"There's no 'I' in 'Team'." Yeah, but there is a "me" in "Team" spelled backwards!
05-31-2012 01:10 AM
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(05-31-2012 01:10 AM)batboy138 Wrote:  Does the band have a name yet?

nope

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(05-31-2012 02:12 AM)gore goroth Wrote:  
(05-31-2012 01:10 AM)batboy138 Wrote:  Does the band have a name yet?

nope

Seriously. Jesus Stripped Bare. Genius.

"There's no 'I' in 'Team'." Yeah, but there is a "me" in "Team" spelled backwards!
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How about Christ Shredded or something?
something a bit more brutal
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How about "I'll rape you."

Fucked if I know how to get bandmates lol.

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RE: Musician help needed. AGAIN

(05-30-2012 03:28 PM)gore goroth Wrote:  Since My senior project is over I finally got started on this whole band thing. So far Its just me and a bass player. We need more BM or at very least fellow metalheads and I don't know how to find any bandmates. I tried the local craiglist and I didn't really get any answers to the band advertisement. Anyone know a good way to get more band members??

Go to a music store and put up a flyer. You'd be surprised to see how many people are interested.

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(05-31-2012 09:23 PM)SwiftEscudo Wrote:  
(05-30-2012 03:28 PM)gore goroth Wrote:  Since My senior project is over I finally got started on this whole band thing. So far Its just me and a bass player. We need more BM or at very least fellow metalheads and I don't know how to find any bandmates. I tried the local craiglist and I didn't really get any answers to the band advertisement. Anyone know a good way to get more band members??

Go to a music store and put up a flyer. You'd be surprised to see how many people are interested.

Already done it.

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band name ideas:

The Chafing Fap

or

Fappy and the Jews
06-01-2012 03:15 AM
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(06-01-2012 03:15 AM)jnkbortka Wrote:  band name ideas:

The Chafing Fap

or

Fappy and the Jews

yeeeaaahhhhhnnnnaaahhh

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RE: Musician help needed. AGAIN

Act of Impulse is a name I once thought of.

Anyway, record shops usually have a message board that you can hang flyers on. List what music you're playing, some influences, what instruments you need, etc.

There's a website called meetyourband.com that you can look for other musicians. Go beyond craigslist and into musician forums.

Put posters up all over your city. Anywhere you think a musician may pass.

Ask around. One of your friends or just someone you know could be who you're looking for in your band
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UPDATE: I finally found a couple bandmembers and as long as they don't bail out on me ill be ok. Looks like second time on craigslist is the charm.

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