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(05-08-2012 12:14 PM)Aya Wrote:  
(05-08-2012 12:06 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  I don't have a problem with responsibility, I just don't like having to take care of kids, its way too much work, also I try to be nice to kids sometimes that isn't easy cause they are assholes.

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Fuck you I don't like kids either
I hate them actually, and babies are even worse.

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I don't particularly enjoy being in the company of tweens or kids over eight years of age, though I'm sure there are many awesome kids in this age range who are different from what I'm describing. It's the kids in this age range who swear like a sailor, play COD and watch Spike TV/Disney/MTV and try to pick fights with me because I do something as inane as facing them when crossing the street.

Basically, I dislike the ragtag group of kids who've been raised on TV, though I blame shitty parenting on how they act.

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(05-08-2012 12:47 PM)Maelstrom Wrote:  I don't particularly enjoy being in the company of tweens or kids over eight years of age, though I'm sure there are many awesome kids in this age range who are different from what I'm describing. It's the kids in this age range who swear like a sailor, play COD and watch Spike TV/Disney/MTV and try to pick fights with me because I do something as inane as facing them when crossing the street.

Basically, I dislike the ragtag group of kids who've been raised on TV, though I blame shitty parenting on how they act.

All i do is the swear like sailor one. I watch 100 ways to die, the ufc fights, and no mtv or disney. I do watch fantasy factory and the pranking shows on mtv cuz those are funny as hell.
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I always think too rashly when making my posts. I watch Spike from time to time, since UFC can be fairly entertaining, but it's the fact of how parents are putting their kids in front of massive screens for 6 hours a day and letting the "values" of the shows rub off onto the kids.

Millions upon millions of kids have grown up to follow the materialism and stupidity of Hannah
Montana, the obsession with fast food and
glittering objects, and being used to getting
spoiled rotten. When the role models of kids
these days are the Jersey Shore castmembers
and rednecks who kill alligators for bloodlust,
then I can understand why people explode and
attack society, though I don't condone their
violent ways of doing it.



I can't walk to the fucking corner store to get some milk without a legion of little wiggers coming up to me and mocking me for buying
milk. The parents of those kids obviously aren't
teaching them anything, because I get my tires
popped and house spray-painted by kids who
hate me for having a big nose!

You have convictions, morals, and self-awareness, The. It's the people who are going to be adults in 10-20 years that I feel paranoid pity for.

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come mael storm
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(05-08-2012 12:04 PM)Thought Criminal Wrote:  I fucking hate little kids. They smell like shit, whine all the time and act like stupid assholes.

wrong, wrong, wrong.
The occasional person may be like that, but that's not part of the definition of "kid", and that's not how a majority of kids are.

But I guess that's how you were when you were a kid.

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(05-08-2012 12:34 PM)Stadium Wrote:  Fuck you I don't like kids either
I hate them actually, and babies are even worse.

Why?
Also, do you hate yourself? Or did you, when you were a kid?

You know what, I've decided that everyone who says they hate kids is actually saying they hate themselves. Because you were once a kid. And people form most of their opinions of others by assuming that everyone is like them.

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Anyone who says they hate kids better not be on here complaining about age discrimination.
That would be hypocrazy.

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If I saw a little me acting like an asshole I would hate him too, CAUSE HES BEING AN ASSHOLE YOU STUPID TWAT. God dam how about we all rephrase this so it doesn't get twisted in the back of your retard skull, WE HATE KIDS WHO ACT LIKE ASSHOLES WHO MAKE A BIG FUCKING MESS AND CAUSE A LOT OF PROBLEMS FOR ANYONE WITHIN A 50 FEET RADIUS.
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Do you hate adults who act like that?

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Yes, but their messes aren't one that break my fucking electronics.
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(05-08-2012 04:32 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  Yes, but their messes aren't one that break my fucking electronics.

Oh, so an adult has never broken anything that belonged to someone else?

I can't believe how full of hypocrazy this stupid forum is.

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(05-08-2012 04:34 PM)Prince Rilian Wrote:  
(05-08-2012 04:32 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  Yes, but their messes aren't one that break my fucking electronics.

Oh, so an adult has never broken anything that belonged to someone else?

I can't believe how full of hypocrazy SaintVicous is.
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(05-08-2012 04:34 PM)Prince Rilian Wrote:  
(05-08-2012 04:32 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  Yes, but their messes aren't one that break my fucking electronics.

Oh, so an adult has never broken anything that belonged to someone else?

I can't believe how full of hypocrazy this stupid forum is.

He did use the word 'my' implying it was down to personal experience.

Generally, I dislike small children. Especially when I'm on the bus. I got on the bus a few days ago and it was a third full of kids and they wouldn't stop crying and shouting and acting like idiots. I don't hate all of the children all of the time though.

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oh look it's miss self righteous

you can fuck right off and take your annoying evil little shits with you
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(05-08-2012 04:34 PM)Prince Rilian Wrote:  
(05-08-2012 04:32 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  Yes, but their messes aren't one that break my fucking electronics.

Oh, so an adult has never broken anything that belonged to someone else?

I can't believe how full of hypocrazy this stupid forum is.

Oh you know what? Get the fuck over it.
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Rillian being self righteous and a cunt.. Again!

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(05-09-2012 01:56 AM)HeartofShadows Wrote:  Rilian being self righteous and a cunt.. Again!

Uh, no, I'm being reasonable, and a bunch of people who are always complaining about how people discriminate against them for being young are saying that they don't like children. WTF hypocrazy.

If you think that there's something wrong with my arguments, why don't you use actual logic to refute what I say, instead of just flinging nonsensical insults?

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That's the problem. There is nothing wrong with the original arguments you made in this thread. It's the fact that you keep pestering people about something they have no obligation to explain let alone change about themselves that pisses people off and makes you seem like a cunt. Some people don't like kids. They either don't have the patience for them or they're just afraid of doing something wrong and hurting them. They have a right to hold those opinions without your self-righeous brown nosing. Deal with it.

Then you end the conversation by accusing someone (SV) of being hypocritical and selfish, when if you had actually read his comments, you would've realized that saint has little to no experience with kids and is most likely just afraid of doing something wrong and hurting them. That's a natural feeling.

I personally love kids and I plan on having a couple myself. But if this is the way you 'question' people about their beliefs and opinions, I can understand why your friend wanted you to shut the fuck up.
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I'm going to make my kids get the stick I am going to beat them with from the trees outside.

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Also what kind of kids do you guys come in contact with? Maybe they sense your hostility? Kids are more like dogs in that way, the attitudes and emotions of those around them will change how they act. They pick up on it relatively easily.

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(05-08-2012 04:34 PM)Prince Rilian Wrote:  
(05-08-2012 04:32 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  Yes, but their messes aren't one that break my fucking electronics.

Oh, so an adult has never broken anything that belonged to someone else?

I can't believe how full of hypocrazy this stupid forum is.

I'm sure they have, but also if an adult breaks my stuff I can beat the shit out of them.
Also children under 7 don't realize that not everyone thinks the same as them. There aren't completely self aware(probably a wrong use of that) if you offered them 100 dollars or a chocolate bar they would take the chocolate bar every time.
Also to whoever said they pick up on hostility, I don't act like a nigger to children, I am really pleasant and play along as much as possible, I just don't like doing so.
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Quote:Also children under 7 don't realize that not everyone thinks the same as them. There aren't completely self aware(probably a wrong use of that) if you offered them 100 dollars or a chocolate bar they would take the chocolate bar every time.

Maybe 3 or 4 year olds. Most kids 5-7 will pick the 100 dollars... even some 4 year olds if they were taught the concept of money.

Quote:I am really pleasant and play along as much as possible, I just don't like doing so.

Then don't. Just ignore them. Making yourself act a way you don't want to around kids is making you dislike them. Tell them to leave you alone, if they don't get serious with them.

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Well its usually in situations where they can't just "go away" otherwise I wouldn't be there.
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Ignore them then. If it's other people pressuring or making you entertain or stay with the kids then it isn't the kids fault.

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Might be me getting soft but I don't like being what I percieve as "mean" to children.
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(05-09-2012 06:12 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  Might be me getting soft but I don't like being what I percieve as "mean" to children.

Well, I am not saying you aren't allowed to dislike children. However, part of your dislike probably stems from you forcing a smile and interacting with them for social perception. That ain't all bad. I do with with black people. Biggrin

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(05-09-2012 06:12 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  Might be me getting soft but I don't like being what I percieve as "mean" to children.

awww SV has feelings.

Don't worry there are plenty of times I've wanted to bitch slap my nephews (they're twins) for acting like faggots.
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(05-09-2012 06:18 AM)Aya Wrote:  
(05-09-2012 06:12 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  Might be me getting soft but I don't like being what I percieve as "mean" to children.

awww SV has feelings.

Don't worry there are plenty of times I've wanted to bitch slap my nephews (they're twins) for acting like faggots.

SHHHH don't tell anyone.
I think it mostly comes from a lack of patience and experince. OH WELL
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