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1312
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"Family"???
Isn't it something that is supposed to support you, help you, respect and love you?
Oh wait, it's all about slaving and doing whatever they want even if you disagree, and you shall not dare to argue or "you go live alone then!" and "you are nobody!".
Just because they go out, I have to get my ass up and clean flat and do dishes and other shit? How about they do it at least once? Or going to work makes your children entitled to be house cleaners?
So going to school doesn't matter because I obviously just go there to have fun and it's all so easy and shit and I'm not tired at all every single motherfucking day? When I point that out they say that I'm not doing ANYTHING and when I tell em to get me out of school, they say that they won't let me sit at home doing nothing..
And they always fuck around with you, say shit to you and piss you off.
Like today, I asked mother how long does she plan to play coz I'm fucking sleeping, she said that I just started and then made speakers louder just to fucking piss me off.
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(This post was last modified: 05-05-2012 06:54 PM by 1312.)
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SwiftEscudo
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RE: "Family"???
(05-05-2012 06:52 PM)LedoS Wrote: Isn't it something that is supposed to support you, help you, respect and love you?
Oh wait, it's all about slaving and doing whatever they want even if you disagree, and you shall not dare to argue or "you go live alone then!" and "you are nobody!".
Just because they go out, I have to get my ass up and clean flat and do dishes and other shit? How about they do it at least once? Or going to work makes your children entitled to be house cleaners?
So going to school doesn't matter because I obviously just go there to have fun and it's all so easy and shit and I'm not tired at all every single motherfucking day? When I point that out they say that I'm not doing ANYTHING and when I tell em to get me out of school, they say that they won't let me sit at home doing nothing..
And they always fuck around with you, say shit to you and piss you off.
Like today, I asked mother how long does she plan to play coz I'm fucking sleeping, she said that I just started and then made speakers louder just to fucking piss me off.
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Parents get this stupid logic that if they have kids that it is the kid's responsibility for being born and that they must "Earn their keep".
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RE: "Family"???
Yea parents have this odd notion that kids are like little live in servants. They must follow the whim of their parents or be punished. This is why so many parents have problems with their kids.
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RE: "Family"???
That's some fail parenting right there...
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RE: "Family"???
Wow, ya, I'd fire them Lolz.
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RE: "Family"???
blah blah
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RE: "Family"???
(05-08-2012 09:04 PM)Ami Wrote: I'd fire them
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