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Stupid School thinks they know whats best
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Stupid School thinks they know whats best

Ok, so last semester I didn't get the most amazing grades. I had a C in everything except PE(A), Geogaphy(B), and English. In English I got a D. Which means I didnt pass.

So, the school decides to have a meeting which a counseler, vp, some other random adults working at the school and my dad. I thought this was a fucked up idea and said that I'd tried in school but I just had a lot on my mind for the past couple of months(which was very true).
I end up going to the meeting anyways, and the adults start talking about how they had arranged a therapist for me so that I could talk to someone about my "problems".

None of those adults that came to the meeting even knew my name when I walked into the room, so what I dont understand is how the fuck they thought they could sign me up with some damn therapist without my permission. And also how would they know whats best for me when 5 mins ago they didnt even know my name? And I dont need "help". They were all talking to me like I was some depressed little girl. I didn't answer any of their retarded questions. Then they tell me I have to go to summer school to make up for the class I failed. Which is like my worst nightmare come true.
The whole thing made me feel like shit.

About a week later, my english teacher calls me and my dad over for a meeting about how i failed the class. At the meeting, he starts talking about how this is going to affect the college I go to and my whole career and shit. It made me feel even shittier than before.
All this was about 2 1/2 to 3 months ago. I tried to put it all behind me and forget about it.

But 2 days ago, my english teacher sends an email, saying that he'd made a mistake and that I didn't actually have a D, but a C in his class.
Which means that all this shit I went through, and all the nightmares I had about summer school and living on the streets homeless and addicted to drugs when I get out of school was for no fucking reason. My life had been a living hell because of this fucking mistake.
Everyday for the last 2 months I felt like shit when I got out of bed because of school problems, home problems and this other fucking shit.

ANYWAYS, I'm just so overjoyed that all this is over. I'm not too mad about this anymore, but just thought I'd post it.
(This post was last modified: 04-23-2012 01:09 PM by noodlehead.)
04-23-2012 12:56 PM
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RE: Fucking School thinks they know whats best

At my old school all the fucking people said they "wanted to help me", but they kept getting my name wrong every time they spoke to me.
04-23-2012 01:01 PM
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(04-23-2012 01:01 PM)Fish Wrote:  At my old school all the fucking people said they "wanted to help me", but they kept getting my name wrong every time they spoke to me.

Yeah, help us by forcing us to stay in the system we hate. Yep, logic for you.

Noo

I get told they want to help me as well.

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04-23-2012 01:05 PM
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What fucking assholes, man. This is why I changed my mind about college. That whole "go to college to get a good job" line of BS just doesnt work so good anymore, and i'm not going down with debt and then i cant find no job!! And to the fucking asshole school admins, the REAL reason we're "not prepared" for college is that YOU DONT EVEN GIVE A SHIT ABOUT TEACHING US - YOU JUST CARE ABOUT HAVING US TO OPPRESS AND TURN TO MINDLESS SHEEP!!! YOU DONT CARE ABOUT HOW WELL ANYONE DOES AT SCHOOL, YOU JUST CARE ABOUT HOW MUCH MONEY YOU CAN GET OFF US!
04-23-2012 09:58 PM
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Yea bro, my english teacher loses assignments or marks them as late even if i turn them in on time.

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04-23-2012 11:58 PM
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English teachers mixing up their letters... no way LMAO. I think it's the teacher and administration that needs therapy Razz.
04-24-2012 01:40 AM
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Sounds like they were trying to make you depressed! My advice run the fuck away, if your parents went along with this they lose the rights to take care of you
04-24-2012 02:17 AM
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(04-24-2012 02:17 AM)iexist Wrote:  Sounds like they were trying to make you depressed! My advice run the fuck away, if your parents went along with this they lose the rights to take care of you

Nah, my parents agreed with me. They are pretty awesome. They knew that the way the school was trying to "help" me was pretty stupid, but instead of making it a big deal, the only reason they went along with it is because they pretty much had no choice. It was only a couple meetings, and I told the therapist I don't need to see her anymore, which my parents were ok with.
05-13-2012 01:28 AM
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(04-23-2012 01:05 PM)Dirtbikemike Wrote:  
(04-23-2012 01:01 PM)Fish Wrote:  At my old school all the fucking people said they "wanted to help me", but they kept getting my name wrong every time they spoke to me.

Yeah, help us by forcing us to stay in the system we hate. Yep, logic for you.

Noo

I get told they want to help me as well.
Wow, l can totally relate. My mom even sent me to a psychologist once. And people especially said they wanted to help me... by forcing me to stay in the system even though my main unhappiness was... the system itself. Why is it always me which is wrong? Not the system? LOL
05-13-2012 04:23 AM
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It's ironic how teachers can make mistakes and get away with them, but students can't.
05-13-2012 07:09 AM
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Dude, I know. It drives me crazy. A teacher makes a mistake, and I barely get a damn sorry. I make a teeny tiny mistake like screw up my grades because a lot was going on, and all hell breaks loose.
05-14-2012 04:15 AM
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(05-13-2012 07:09 AM)RandomTroll Wrote:  It's ironic how teachers can make mistakes and get away with them, but students can't.

So true.

"It does a fool no good to spend money on an education. Why? Because he has no common sense."-George Bush
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You look into the eyes of these people and tell them:
"No. I want to help YOU!"

I've found teachers and so-called adults have a habit of exaggerating everything way beyond proportion. It's so logic defying, my mind fails to compute.

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(06-14-2013 08:02 AM)Potato Wrote:  watch the fuq out, we've got an "intellectual" over here.

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This is pretty much what happened to me, except my nonexistent grades were terrible.
I hate when they give you that look, like they understand you or they're trying to be sympathetic. They sent me to a therapist too, they also asked me if the work was too hard and all that.
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(02-12-2013 12:49 AM)Natures Leftovers Wrote:  This is pretty much what happened to me, except my nonexistent grades were terrible.
I hate when they give you that look, like they understand you or they're trying to be sympathetic. They sent me to a therapist too, they also asked me if the work was too hard and all that.

Well at least a D is considered a fail in this circumstance.

In my school, a private school, if your GPA goes below a 3.0, they think you're doing bad(I believe that is a B). And no, my school isn't composed of geniuses(just a very impulsive administration). Its more an alternative for conservative families who worry about morals.

I think the problem here is that adults seem to assume that you need to finish your education and reach a specific age to be considered as "wise" as an adult. If you look at history however, we see that minors were able to do the same work as adults. Now, I can't buy a costume from a company without a "legal guardian" to conduct it for me. It's absurd, as society has been so broken.

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