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Emo hater in my school... any advice?
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Question Emo hater in my school... any advice?

First off, I'm not neccessarily emo. My friend is. I'm just bitching about something that happened because it rly pisses me off...
Basically me and my 3 friends hang out alot. 1 is emo and 1 has another friend who hates emos.

Yesterday at break she came up to my friends (I wasn't there) and then they started talking. She said to my emo friend that bein emo is bad, because apparently "Emos are scary and ur making my friend [not mentioning name] emo so i hate u". I only heard this from my other friend at lunchtime, who I didn't mention in the first paragraph.

Then after school her and her band of pathetic, 1-Direction obsessed wierdos came up to us and started talking to my friends (I don't talk to that bitch). Then she came up to me and asked "are u emo". I said no, because I aint takin shit from no bitch. Then she turned to my friends again and they talked again, and she said "yeh and the music they listen to is dangerous". Biggest load of shit I heard in my life.

Why do I want advice? Well I wanna sort her out. That bitch has no right to pick on my friend just because she's emo, and then continu e to be friends with her friend. It's prejudice and the most shitty stereotype I've heard. Just give me some hints on how I can make her go away without violence or telling on a teacher. What Im basically asking for is hints to make me more assertive.

NOTE: Dont comment that ur not interested in my life so why am I posting it. Its ur own fault for reading this. And plus I need to tell someone about this who isn't a teacher. I posted the whole story because I need to let it out. Ranting

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RE: Emo hater in my school... any advice?

Ignore her or tell her that if she's going to pick on your friends you'd rather have her go away. If she continues to bother you, act odd. Pretend to be penguins, squawk and PRETEND to shit on desks/the floor/anything really, or slowly sing Ring Around the Rosies with a creepy smile the whole time.

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RE: Emo hater in my school... any advice?

Tell her people have different opinions and different likes and dislikes. Ask her what exactly is bad about "emo" music.

Personally, I dislike the emo culture however I just don't really associate with people involved in it.

It takes a big dick to go and seek out people to insult, sounds like she is incredibly insecure.

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I'm with Vivi. Freak the shit out of them to scare them away.

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RE: Emo hater in my school... any advice?

It's not really them. Its her thats the emo hater. I already hate her, but when she goes to insult my friends that's when shit gets serious. And thanks for the tips :3

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What the hell does emo even mean??

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RE: Emo hater in my school... any advice?

Quote:"yeh and the music they listen to is dangerous".

Ask her to define "emo" music. Ask her to name bands. Their music isn't dangerous. That's the equivalent of saying Cannibal Corpse promotes friendship and happiness. She might be confusing emo with metal, and it extremely annoys me when people do that.

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(04-21-2012 08:09 AM)Stadium Wrote:  What the hell does emo even mean??

Well from what I gather it is this:



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It is a less extreme form of that song lol

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Its just a subculture of people who dress in a certain way and listen to certain music.
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RE: Emo hater in my school... any advice?

That definition can applied to almost any group.

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Tell your friend to stop being faggot.
I'd rather be a conformist than an emo.

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Just tell her she's a conceited bitch for judging people without knowing them.
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(04-21-2012 10:37 AM)Derchin Wrote:  That definition can applied to almost any group.

A certain way, as in the emo way. Im not gonna got into detail, they usually have straight black hair and wear skinny jeans and stuff. I'm not gonna go into a whole thing, I was just saying that it was a group of people.
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I get classed as an emo because of what I wear. Black skinnies, converse, some band tee, coloured hair and piercings. I just like the style of dress.

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Cut her.
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I guess people think I'm emo cause I have side bangs and used to wear stripy glove armwarmer things. But I wear a lot of black and eye makeup and several people know I like metal, so maybe that makes me goth. If people can't classify other people as this or that in their little subgroups (goth, jock, nerd) they get panic attacks.

Oh and she likes One Direction?
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Punch her in the face.

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RE: Emo hater in my school... any advice?

lol @ these stupid labels. Fuck labels. I don't know how to get through to people stupid enough to actually think that stuff is important or whatever...

Quote:Just tell her she's a conceited bitch for judging people without knowing them.
I guess that could work. Maybe put it in kinder words or whatever if you don't want to piss her off too much. Razz

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Tell her it's better to be emo than a prejudiced, ignorant cunt.
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(04-21-2012 05:52 AM)Sneaxx Wrote:  First off, I'm not neccessarily emo. My friend is. I'm just bitching about something that happened because it rly pisses me off...
Basically me and my 3 friends hang out alot. 1 is emo and 1 has another friend who hates emos.

Yesterday at break she came up to my friends (I wasn't there) and then they started talking. She said to my emo friend that bein emo is bad, because apparently "Emos are scary and ur making my friend [not mentioning name] emo so i hate u". I only heard this from my other friend at lunchtime, who I didn't mention in the first paragraph.

Then after school her and her band of pathetic, 1-Direction obsessed wierdos came up to us and started talking to my friends (I don't talk to that bitch). Then she came up to me and asked "are u emo". I said no, because I aint takin shit from no bitch. Then she turned to my friends again and they talked again, and she said "yeh and the music they listen to is dangerous". Biggest load of shit I heard in my life.

Why do I want advice? Well I wanna sort her out. That bitch has no right to pick on my friend just because she's emo, and then continu e to be friends with her friend. It's prejudice and the most shitty stereotype I've heard. Just give me some hints on how I can make her go away without violence or telling on a teacher. What Im basically asking for is hints to make me more assertive.

NOTE: Dont comment that ur not interested in my life so why am I posting it. Its ur own fault for reading this. And plus I need to tell someone about this who isn't a teacher. I posted the whole story because I need to let it out. Ranting

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I HATE those jackasses and their stupid labels. Just ignore the bitch. At school when people call me a wierdo I just ig ore it, and it turns out fine.
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OP don't listen to the others. On this issue, my advice is the best.
Tell your friend to stop being an emo fucktard. In this case, both those girls are faggots.

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OP, why do you care?

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Pop her one in the nose. That'll tell her to fuck off.

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This might not help, but maybe your friend and the bully should both learn what Emo actually is. i.e, it is a genre of music. Emotional Hardcore. Look up "Rites of Spring" or "Cap'n Jazz".

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(05-08-2012 08:58 PM)Efs Wrote:  OP don't listen to the others. On this issue, my advice is the best.
Tell your friend to stop being an emo fucktard. In this case, both those girls are faggots.

And in this case, you're trolling

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