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An ultimatum
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RE: An ultimatum

(04-19-2012 01:49 AM)Stadium Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 01:41 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 12:36 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  You never say your dealers name you idiot, also STOP SMOKING WEED

Let's make something you enjoy doing suddenly illegal for no reason. Then see how cool it is to tell people to "der stop smoking weed"

This. Weed makes me happy god damnit. Why can't I smoke when other people can drink and smoke cigs? The fact that i can go to jail for doing something that harms no one and benefits me A LOT is a testament to how fucked we are as a society.

If jacking off was illegal, would you still jack off? Because I smoke more and probably like smoking more than you like jacking off.

If you get more pleasure from drugs than you do from orgasm then you have serious issues. But that's not the purpose of this thread. The fact is that even if weed was legal in this country you wouldn't be allowed to smoke it by virtue of being under age. The minimum age for weed would probably be 21 alongside alcohol. And even though you have a great father and stepmother, there is still a chance that your mother can get her way and ship you off to military school. If you and your father were to be dragged into court today the first thing a judge would do is order a piss test. In which case you would be fucked.

There are still plenty of judges in the family court system who would be willing to put you in a disciplinary program just to send a message to other stoners.

If you want to minimize the chances of that you need to do two things.

1. Cut off contact with your mother
2. STOP SMOKING WEED. At least until your 18 so you can no longer threatened by her.
04-19-2012 04:15 AM
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(04-19-2012 03:02 AM)Sociopath Wrote:  Eating weed > smoking.

Agreed.... though I haven't done either lol

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Mixing it with flavorful berries/herbs making a tasty tea is also good. But the taste, either you have to cover it, or get used to it.

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RE: An ultimatum

(04-19-2012 01:41 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 12:36 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  You never say your dealers name you idiot, also STOP SMOKING WEED

Let's make something you enjoy doing suddenly illegal for no reason. Then see how cool it is to tell people to "der stop smoking weed"
Well currently its illegal, I am for legalization of all drugs, but his current problem is he can't seem to stop getting caught, and then makes a thread baww my mom (who i know is a cunt) is being a cunt! Suprise!
(04-19-2012 01:49 AM)Stadium Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 01:41 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 12:36 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  You never say your dealers name you idiot, also STOP SMOKING WEED

Let's make something you enjoy doing suddenly illegal for no reason. Then see how cool it is to tell people to "der stop smoking weed"

This. Weed makes me happy god damnit. Why can't I smoke when other people can drink and smoke cigs? The fact that i can go to jail for doing something that harms no one and benefits me A LOT is a testament to how fucked we are as a society.

If jacking off was illegal, would you still jack off? Because I smoke more and probably like smoking more than you like jacking off.
1)Because that's the law deal with it unless you try to change it. 2)What are you going to do other than bitch about how its societies fault?
3) I prefer the real thing, but on the off occasion I do, I DON'T GET FUCKING CAUGHT. Clearly you are either too lazy or dumb to do something illegal and not get caught.
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(04-19-2012 08:41 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 01:41 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 12:36 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  You never say your dealers name you idiot, also STOP SMOKING WEED

Let's make something you enjoy doing suddenly illegal for no reason. Then see how cool it is to tell people to "der stop smoking weed"
Well currently its illegal, I am for legalization of all drugs, but his current problem is he can't seem to stop getting caught, and then makes a thread baww my mom (who i know is a cunt) is being a cunt! Suprise!
(04-19-2012 01:49 AM)Stadium Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 01:41 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 12:36 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  You never say your dealers name you idiot, also STOP SMOKING WEED

Let's make something you enjoy doing suddenly illegal for no reason. Then see how cool it is to tell people to "der stop smoking weed"

This. Weed makes me happy god damnit. Why can't I smoke when other people can drink and smoke cigs? The fact that i can go to jail for doing something that harms no one and benefits me A LOT is a testament to how fucked we are as a society.

If jacking off was illegal, would you still jack off? Because I smoke more and probably like smoking more than you like jacking off.
1)Because that's the law deal with it unless you try to change it. 2)What are you going to do other than bitch about how its societies fault?
3) I prefer the real thing, but on the off occasion I do, I DON'T GET FUCKING CAUGHT. Clearly you are either too lazy or dumb to do something illegal and not get caught.

fuck off

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I CANT REFUTE YOUR POINTS SO I'M GOING TO SAY GO AWAY CAUSE YOU AREN'T AGREEING WITH ME.
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If youre taking a piss test couldn't you just pay someone who was clean for drug free piss?

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(04-19-2012 01:03 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  I CANT REFUTE YOUR POINTS SO I'M GOING TO SAY GO AWAY CAUSE YOU AREN'T AGREEING WITH ME.

yeah I got caught, that was fucking stupid, I know that. I don't need you to fucking tell me.

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RE: An ultimatum

(04-19-2012 01:49 PM)Stadium Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 01:03 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  I CANT REFUTE YOUR POINTS SO I'M GOING TO SAY GO AWAY CAUSE YOU AREN'T AGREEING WITH ME.

yeah I got caught, that was fucking stupid, I know that. I don't need you to fucking tell me.

Apparently you do, because you're still not getting the message that every time you light up your mothers chances of sending you away to military school grows

Stop. Smoking. Weed.

At least for the next few months until all this shit blows over.
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(04-20-2012 04:42 AM)Aya Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 01:49 PM)Stadium Wrote:  
(04-19-2012 01:03 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  I CANT REFUTE YOUR POINTS SO I'M GOING TO SAY GO AWAY CAUSE YOU AREN'T AGREEING WITH ME.

yeah I got caught, that was fucking stupid, I know that. I don't need you to fucking tell me.

Apparently you do, because you're still not getting the message that every time you light up your mothers chances of sending you away to military school grows

Stop. Smoking. Weed.

At least for the next few months until all this shit blows over.

No. My mom's off this military school shit as soon as she realized she can't actually do it. As long as I stay at my dad's, I'll be fine. Plus I've smoked a lot in this last year or so, and I think it would take more than a few weeks for it to all get out of my system. Whether I smoke or quit smoking I would fail a drug test. But now my mom just says I have issues I need help with.

Because I smoke everyday.

But she fucking does too. But it's okay because "she's 43 and a productive member of society". I don't understand her logic. It's the same substance, shouldn't it cause the same problems?

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Apparently being a productive bitch of society/or over 18 gives you whatever right you want to excuse yourself with and be a fucking hypocrite. Fu
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stadium has never heard of the phrase do as i say not as i do, you want to know why she can smoke weed? Because whether you like it or not she is an adult and lives on her own under her own power, you don't so therefore you can't make your own rules.
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(04-20-2012 06:23 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  stadium has never heard of the phrase do as i say not as i do, you want to know why she can smoke weed? Because whether you like it or not she is an adult and lives on her own under her own power, you don't so therefore you can't make your own rules.

I don't live with her. The people I do live with are fine with me smoking.

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well then why do you give 2 shits what she thinks
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Sorry stadium but im with SV on this one

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Even the dealer sides with SV.

You Lose Stadium.
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several above posters are faggots.
I thought that this was SS. Who the fuck cares whether his mother's an adult? That doesn't make her actions any more right, or not fucking hypocritical. I think, however, that smoking in the first place is a problem because Stadium's clearly addicted to it; however, it's his choice to believe whether weed is a problem or some magical substance that's completely benevolent and cures cancer, or that it makes him happier.

I haven't had any sort of first-hand experience with weed, though.

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I do agree with Stadium on the fact that its his choice to smoke weed or not, but everything else im on SV's side for

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I don't really give a shit if anyone smokes weed, just be smart about it. You have to realize life is going to be unfair pretty much at all points. I am not saying stadium isn't right about wanting to smoke weed, but his mother gets to do what she wants cause no one but the government has power over her.
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(04-20-2012 12:18 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  I don't really give a shit if anyone smokes weed, just be smart about it. You have to realize life is going to be unfair pretty much at all points. I am not saying stadium isn't right about wanting to smoke weed, but his mother gets to do what she wants cause no one but
the government has power over her.

I just like how you said why does Stadium care if he doesnt live with his mom and how hes been being dumb giving too much information to her. Whether or not he should smoke shouldnt even be argued in this debate

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