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Major mindfuckery in english class today
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Major mindfuckery in english class today

Today in english we were looking at some newspaper articles and one of them was about Corporal punishment in schools (blatant child abuse obviously) I figured my class was pretty sane other then maybe one or two idiots who would be for it as a joke but 5 mother fucking people put there hands up seriously agreeing. Basically, they all thought that it would get kids to work harder and not mess up as much.

I made my point pretty loud that it was stupid and the teacher agreed with me (not a big surprise he seems pretty nice) but wtf????? How the fuck can anyone other then old conservative traditional fuckwits be for this, let alone youth in my fucking class?
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RE: Major mindfuckery in english class today

Because that's probably how their parents raised them to be.
We are a product of our environment.

I have similar debates like these in school and I find some kids to lack a few brain cells and the ability to think independently.

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Well one of the girls saw how I and the teacher was so opposed to it and I think that changed her mind as she started saying how she wanted to change to "not in support of it" but god knows what she actually thinks.
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Like EFS said it is all in how the kid is raised. Those kids probably get hit at home or did at least. I see little kids support hitting all the time. They think it is good and the right thing to do. Instinct dictates we follow what are parents do and how they raise us. I remember when I was an aid in an elementary school the teacher was reading some book and the kid in the book got a spanking and most of the kids nodded their heads and agreed that the main character should have gotten the spanking (ironically it was for not listening to his incredibly unreasonable grandmother).

It's funny though how quick kids will pick up reason (at younger ages). My cousins (who is 8) said she was gonna make her kids clean and beat them if they don't and I just simply asked her how she feels when her mom does that, and does she think her future kids will like that. Her opinion quickly changed. To be honest I just think she thought she would sound cool because nearly everyone (except me) in my family supports hitting as the go to method to teach their kids..... fucking Albanians lmao

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beat the shit out you little brats
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(04-18-2012 01:19 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  beat the shit out you little brats
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"Billy, clean your goddamn room!"
"Just one more level, Father The! Please?"
"I'm shoving my sword up your ass if you don't clean your fucking room!"

Now thats parenting

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The greatest way to get anyone not just kids to do anything, is to be respected.
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(04-18-2012 03:38 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  The greatest way to get anyone not just kids to do anything, is to be respected.

Which is a two way street and requires the giving of respect as well.

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(04-18-2012 03:38 AM)SaintVicious Wrote:  The greatest way to get anyone not just kids to do anything, is to be respected.

Not necessarily the easiest or most effective way, though.

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saintvicious and ayliana <3

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People tend to defend the way they were raised, even if it's ridiculous. But yeah that is pretty sad.

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