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Classmate is pissing me off.
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Classmate is pissing me off.

She's not a bad kid, don't get me wrong. Its just that she seems like she can't do anything on her own. She's not super slow or seriously fucked up, but I do believe she is partially deaf, which can explain this, but nonetheless:

In computer class, every minute or so, she interrupts me because she doesn't know what the directions are (even when the teacher told the class or put on the computer), or she doesn't know how to spell a word. So I tell her how to spell the word or tell her the directions, but then a minute or two later, she's asking me the same fucking thing. And this goes on for the entire period and even the whole week. And she hardly asks the teacher for help. That right there frustrates the hell out of me. Ugh!

I'm failing a bunch of my assignments in computer class because I can never get any work done, mainly because she's always asking me how to do stuff. Like today for instance. Our teacher was out and the sub let us do whatever we wanted. I just wanted to listen to my music and type a story up, but I couldn't even do that because she kept interrupting me so I could help her fill out a job application (She pretty much wanted me to do the whole thing for her) and that took the entire class.

And my friend is the same way. While nothing is wrong with him, he likes to goof off and then expect me to fill him in on what we're supposed to be doing.

I swear, I 'm gonna move my fucking seat. Am I selfish asshole or too nice? You tell me.

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Be frank, "Sorry I'm the the idiots guide to life book"
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frank blunt asshole etc, Listen honey you need to figure this shit out on your own.
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He said that you must be honest that you are the "Idiot's Guide To Life" book lol
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She'll just ask me like five minutes later or flat out tell me she doesn't know what to do.

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Not if you tell her to fuck off
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Its gonna make me feel like shit cause she pretty much by herself and a little behind in terms of everyone else.

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Whats worse you being behind and having to retake the class or teaching derpina a life lesson
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Yeah, I'll tell her tomm.

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aha sometimes I goof off and then ask my friend for help, but it's okay when I do it since I help him when he goofs off too. So it's all good. As for the girl, just tell her you need to finish your work first, or help her do a bit and just continue the work and hopefully she'll ask the teacher. If she doesn't, ask the teacher to come and explain it to her because you're not good at explaining things.

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Cool ^^

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Just move your seat. Easiest solution. Personally, if it were me, I would've done this a long time ago, or would have just become really short/rude with her. But yeah.. If you want to go down the painless, non-confrontational route, move your seat. If the teacher gives you shit about it, explain why.
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Derchin update this thread with what happened, HERE PRAYING TO THE SPICY CHICKEN GOD YOU WERE A DICK.
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She didn't bother me that much today. She asked me a two questions and that was it.

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I would still move your seat. If it's affecting your grade and performance in class, move. The teacher is getting paid for her to be learning, not you.
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It's not like he gives a fuck about grades and performance.
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and also welcome to SS
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(02-29-2012 05:38 AM)Teini Wrote:  I would still move your seat. If it's affecting your grade and performance in class, move. The teacher is getting paid for her to be learning, not you.

Teacher told us we couldn't move even if we wanted too. Found out today.

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If she is hot you can help her with the computers and then fuck her.
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(02-29-2012 05:45 AM)Derchin Wrote:  
(02-29-2012 05:38 AM)Teini Wrote:  I would still move your seat. If it's affecting your grade and performance in class, move. The teacher is getting paid for her to be learning, not you.

Teacher told us we couldn't move even if we wanted too. Found out today.

If it's affecting your learning so profoundly that you're failing, then your teacher has an obligation to move your seat so you can focus and pass the class. The teacher also needs to address that student not paying attention or understanding what's going on. If the teacher doesn't move you, then go to the guidance counselor and explain the situation to them.
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hey Teini, gotta say it isn't "learning" its "memoraziation"
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That's true, lol. It really is. But if you tell that to a teacher/guidance counselor, they won't have much sympathy for your issue. Better to just speak their language and say "learning" if it means the outcome will be to your advantage and you won't have to deal with someone in class who can't pay attention and do their own work.
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Don't help - just do your shit. Sometimes, being egoistic is the only way to survive...

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I know a girl in my grade and whether it's health, science, or math class, almost every day she always has to raise her hand and say, "Wait I'm confused about ____"

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(01-13-2012 10:37 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  Mike you deserve an SS medal. Here, be proud:
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Congrats for doing something I never had the balls to do.
If you have kids, save them from the bullshit you are forced to go through.
(01-25-2012 05:36 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  Balls of steel re-awarded. 
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I found a picture for tungsten balls
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(03-01-2012 03:32 AM)Dirtbikemike Wrote:  I know a girl in my grade and whether it's health, science, or math class, almost every day she always has to raise her hand and say, "Wait I'm confused about ____"

Is she in any special classes?

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(03-01-2012 05:28 AM)Derchin Wrote:  
(03-01-2012 03:32 AM)Dirtbikemike Wrote:  I know a girl in my grade and whether it's health, science, or math class, almost every day she always has to raise her hand and say, "Wait I'm confused about ____"

Is she in any special classes?

No she's just a genuine idiot.

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(01-13-2012 10:37 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  Mike you deserve an SS medal. Here, be proud:
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Congrats for doing something I never had the balls to do.
If you have kids, save them from the bullshit you are forced to go through.
(01-25-2012 05:36 AM)UnschoolShqiponjë Wrote:  Balls of steel re-awarded. 
(02-07-2012 03:22 PM)flann Wrote:  Balls of Tungsten, now.

I found a picture for tungsten balls
http://bit.ly/xqd1zk

(02-14-2012 03:17 PM)Maelstrom Wrote:  Your balls are denser than white dwarf star matter.
(03-13-2012 08:27 PM)M3116 Wrote:  Balls of steel re-re-reawarded Nutter

(05-14-2013 03:01 PM)Prince Darkstar Wrote:  Dirtbikemike is the only guy I know of on here who won an argument with a teacher.
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(03-01-2012 03:32 AM)Dirtbikemike Wrote:  I know a girl in my grade and whether it's health, science, or math class, almost every day she always has to raise her hand and say, "Wait I'm confused about ____"
Sounds like this one dipshit I had the misfortune of having in my English class two years in a row. I swear the god she had no common sense and never listened.
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