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how and you and girl doing
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Well so far so good get to see her again tomorrow we are going to a movie. We are watching the devil inside.

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gj bro update after movie! WE WILL GET YOU THROUGH THIS
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(01-14-2012 12:24 PM)RedBird Wrote:  Well so far so good get to see her again tomorrow we are going to a movie. We are watching the devil inside.
If you guys are sexually active people, you'll get lucky and have sexy time in the movies. Public sex is glorious sex.

(01-10-2012 02:15 PM)Maelstrom Wrote:  Efs, your nihilism is beautiful.
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(01-14-2012 01:45 PM)SaintVicious Wrote:  gj bro update after movie! WE WILL GET YOU THROUGH THIS

LOL Roger that.

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(01-14-2012 01:48 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-14-2012 12:24 PM)RedBird Wrote:  Well so far so good get to see her again tomorrow we are going to a movie. We are watching the devil inside.
If you guys are sexually active people, you'll get lucky and have sexy time in the movies. Public sex is glorious sex.

I'll cross my fingersCrossfingers But don't count on it.

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UPDATE: The movie was alright and we had a good time we went to the mall today something I never do but she wanted to go there. I will see her in class tomorrow.

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(01-17-2012 01:35 PM)RedBird Wrote:  UPDATE: The movie was alright and we had a good time we went to the mall today something I never do but she wanted to go there. I will see her in class tomorrow.
Any lovin'?
DDEEEETAILLLS BRUDDA!

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(01-17-2012 02:09 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 01:35 PM)RedBird Wrote:  UPDATE: The movie was alright and we had a good time we went to the mall today something I never do but she wanted to go there. I will see her in class tomorrow.
Any lovin'?
DDEEEETAILLLS BRUDDA!

Making out and shit like that sure but no sex yet but it is in the near future most likely friday or saturday night!

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Don't rush things if you want to keep the relationship strong as rope. Just take your time to get to know her better, and you two will know when the time is right.

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(01-17-2012 02:14 PM)RedBird Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:09 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 01:35 PM)RedBird Wrote:  UPDATE: The movie was alright and we had a good time we went to the mall today something I never do but she wanted to go there. I will see her in class tomorrow.
Any lovin'?
DDEEEETAILLLS BRUDDA!

Making out and shit like that sure but no sex yet but it is in the near future most likely friday or saturday night!
That's perfect, sex isn't necessary for now ^_^

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(01-17-2012 04:31 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:14 PM)RedBird Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:09 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 01:35 PM)RedBird Wrote:  UPDATE: The movie was alright and we had a good time we went to the mall today something I never do but she wanted to go there. I will see her in class tomorrow.
Any lovin'?
DDEEEETAILLLS BRUDDA!
Yeah I am happy we get along great. I have not been this happy in a while.
Making out and shit like that sure but no sex yet but it is in the near future most likely friday or saturday night!
That's perfect, sex isn't necessary for now ^_^

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(01-17-2012 04:31 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:14 PM)RedBird Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:09 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 01:35 PM)RedBird Wrote:  UPDATE: The movie was alright and we had a good time we went to the mall today something I never do but she wanted to go there. I will see her in class tomorrow.
Any lovin'?
DDEEEETAILLLS BRUDDA!
Making out and shit like that sure but no sex yet but it is in the near future most likely friday or saturday night!
That's perfect, sex isn't necessary for now ^_^

Yeah I am happy we get along great. I have not been this happy in a while.

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(01-17-2012 04:33 PM)RedBird Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 04:31 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:14 PM)RedBird Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:09 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 01:35 PM)RedBird Wrote:  UPDATE: The movie was alright and we had a good time we went to the mall today something I never do but she wanted to go there. I will see her in class tomorrow.
Any lovin'?
DDEEEETAILLLS BRUDDA!
Making out and shit like that sure but no sex yet but it is in the near future most likely friday or saturday night!
That's perfect, sex isn't necessary for now ^_^

Yeah I am happy we get along great. I have not been this happy in a while.
That's all that matters then, as long as you two are happy. It's better to suffer in the world with another person then it is to be alone.

(01-10-2012 02:15 PM)Maelstrom Wrote:  Efs, your nihilism is beautiful.
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rape her

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(01-19-2012 10:38 PM)bulgvar Wrote:  rape her

TROLOLOLO

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(01-17-2012 04:37 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 04:33 PM)RedBird Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 04:31 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:14 PM)RedBird Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:09 PM)Efs Wrote:  Any lovin'?
DDEEEETAILLLS BRUDDA!
Making out and shit like that sure but no sex yet but it is in the near future most likely friday or saturday night!
That's perfect, sex isn't necessary for now ^_^

Yeah I am happy we get along great. I have not been this happy in a while.
That's all that matters then, as long as you two are happy. It's better to suffer in the world with another person then it is to be alone.

i know it means nothing to hear it from me, but congratulations to both of you! i wish you loads of joy<3

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Yeah. that's great dude! Keep it slow and steady. And as you do, we will gladly get all up in your shit and stuff, so keep us updated!!

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(01-20-2012 05:51 AM)cuttlefishCuller Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 04:37 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 04:33 PM)RedBird Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 04:31 PM)Efs Wrote:  
(01-17-2012 02:14 PM)RedBird Wrote:  Making out and shit like that sure but no sex yet but it is in the near future most likely friday or saturday night!
That's perfect, sex isn't necessary for now ^_^

Yeah I am happy we get along great. I have not been this happy in a while.
That's all that matters then, as long as you two are happy. It's better to suffer in the world with another person then it is to be alone.

i know it means nothing to hear it from me, but congratulations to both of you! i wish you loads of joy<3

Well thank you very much and it does matter to me.Smile

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(01-20-2012 07:13 AM)EnemyOfTheState Wrote:  Yeah. that's great dude! Keep it slow and steady. And as you do, we will gladly get all up in your shit and stuff, so keep us updated!!

LOL thanks I will keep updating!Biggrin

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Well it has been a good week for us. We have 2 classes and lunch together so that is nice. I am going to her place saturday will do an update then.

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Have good time with her,bro.
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UPDATE: We are still doing good had a nice weekend together. We stayed home saturday and watched some movies on netflix and played MW3 (Which she likes so awesome) Her birthday is in about a month and I am trying to think of what to get her.

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Have a good time if you know what I mean.
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(01-24-2012 01:39 PM)gore goroth Wrote:  Have a good time if you know what I mean.
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LOL Got YaThumbsupWink

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