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Suspension for Sexual Harrasment?
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Suspension for Sexual Harrasment?

My friend got suspended today for grabbing his girlfriends ass while they were making out... that's fucked up, in what way is that sexual harassment? Sometimes I swear schools just put you in trouble so you will fear them in the future, and to prove that Youth are a criminals and need to be trained...

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11-10-2011 08:38 AM
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RE: Suspension for Sexual Harrasment?

That's fucked up. If that was my school, you might get kicked out and sent to the police.

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11-10-2011 08:41 AM
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RE: Suspension for Sexual Harrasment?

They are penalizing him for something consensual. I guess they are getting him used to statutory rape laws.

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RE: Suspension for Sexual Harrasment?

(11-10-2011 08:38 AM)Krieg Wrote:  My friend got suspended today for grabbing his girlfriends ass while they were making out... that's fucked up, in what way is that sexual harassment? Sometimes I swear schools just put you in trouble so you will fear them in the future, and to prove that Youth are a criminals and need to be trained...

Is he one of those ME AND MY GF HOLD UP THE HALLWAY TRAFFIC JUST TO OBNOXIOUSLY SHOW OFF THE SEXY SHIT I DO WITH MY GIRLFREIND BECAUSE IT MAKES EVERYONE ELSE FEEL JELLY AND PISS EVERYONE OFF CUZ IM A DOUCHE type of people??

If he is, he shouldn't get in trouble for that, but I can't stand those types.

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RE: Suspension for Sexual Harrasment?

(11-10-2011 12:04 PM)gore goroth Wrote:  
(11-10-2011 08:38 AM)Krieg Wrote:  My friend got suspended today for grabbing his girlfriends ass while they were making out... that's fucked up, in what way is that sexual harassment? Sometimes I swear schools just put you in trouble so you will fear them in the future, and to prove that Youth are a criminals and need to be trained...

Is he one of those ME AND MY GF HOLD UP THE HALLWAY TRAFFIC JUST TO OBNOXIOUSLY SHOW OFF THE SEXY SHIT I DO WITH MY GIRLFREIND BECAUSE IT MAKES EVERYONE ELSE FEEL JELLY AND PISS EVERYONE OFF CUZ IM A DOUCHE type of people??

If he is, he shouldn't get in trouble for that, but I can't stand those types.

No, it was during a school dance by the wall... yes I do hate people like that though.

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RE: Suspension for Sexual Harrasment?

What??

Isn't sexual harassment when the other refuses, but the guy does it anyway?

If the girl was resenting this guy's hand on her butt, then I guess I would understand, (Even still, it would be a little off...) but y'know, if she "wanted" it, then there's nothing wrong, right?

Oh heck. What do I know? I'm nearly 13, I should be playing with my Lego blocks or something.
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RE: Suspension for Sexual Harrasment?

(11-11-2011 06:42 AM)currysawcc Wrote:  What??

Isn't sexual harassment when the other refuses, but the guy does it anyway?

If the girl was resenting this guy's hand on her butt, then I guess I would understand, (Even still, it would be a little off...) but y'know, if she "wanted" it, then there's nothing wrong, right?

Oh heck. What do I know? I'm nearly 13, I should be playing with my Lego blocks or something.

*cough*Sexism*cough*

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