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Sad Prom

Before my mom passed away she wanted me to go to prom. Now my aunt, sister and cousin are keeping her promise. Now I have to go. I don't wanna go, but they told me that its something important in our school life and our teenage lives.

Still don't wanna go....

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y not???

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(10-13-2011 12:02 PM)Derchin Wrote:  I don't wanna go, but they told me that its something important in our school life and our teenage lives.
Somebody want to explain this to me?

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(10-13-2011 02:29 PM)Lux Wrote:  
(10-13-2011 12:02 PM)Derchin Wrote:  I don't wanna go, but they told me that its something important in our school life and our teenage lives.
Somebody want to explain this to me?
blah blah very important experience blah blah everyone does it blah blah get a girlfriend you scumbag blah blah success and bitches. Blah blah.

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RE: Prom

I went to an all boy school. I was an insecure, shyish, chubby kid. I didn't go to prom I played video games with my friends. Nothing missed. My mom acted like I missed finding out the meaning of life. I just enjoyed playing smash bros melee.

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RE: Prom

My mother wanted me to go, but thankfully she did not force me. Why pay the school an unreasonable fee to hang out with students I didn't much like anyway?
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RE: Prom

I didn't go to mine. Of course they call it something different over here, but it's essentially the same thing... I'm sure your mom will understand if you really don't wanna go.

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Don't mean to be to harsh derchin but your family are controlling assholes and you need to grow a fucking spine. Your future doesn't bode well when at your prom your letting your family make huge ass decisions for you on attending pointless overpriced boring school events. Tell them to stop living their lives through you and get their own. If you plan to live your life independently then your gonna piss your family off all through your life but they have to learn to respect your decisions.

As a T I didn't go to the prom either as it was just some overpriced waste of time with rules so restrictive that we couldn't even be within hand holding distance of our dates with shitty food and shitty music and just went to a party instead.

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People think it's important because "everyone" does it and it would be terrible if other people had something to talk about that you couldn't relate to. People say the same thing about having a dog and having siblings and playing team sports or doing ballet and going to school. And a lot of other stuff.

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What errybody else said. Especially lunatic.

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RE: Prom

First of all, prom is fucking overrated expensive-ass bullshit. People just go there because everyone else does. If you don't like stereotypical teenage parties, then you're going to hate prom. Secondly, I completely agree with HeartofShadows. If you don't want to go to prom, then don't fucking go, goddamnit! I know this is easier said than done, but do not bow down to the will of your parents, grow up some balls and tell them you're not going to prom for whatever reasons you might have.

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RE: Prom

Most of my class is about to kill each other over prom. They're arguing over where to go, how much will it cost, what's our theme, ETC
(10-15-2011 11:14 AM)UltraRobot Wrote:  Secondly, I completely agree with HeartofShadows. If you don't want to go to prom, then don't fucking go, goddamnit! I know this is easier said than done, but do not bow down to the will of your parents, grow up some balls and tell them you're not going to prom for whatever reasons you might have.

I keep telling them over and over again that I don't want to go, but they keep telling me that it was my mother's dying wish. And they know I'm nervous around others and they think this will help. It won't. Not much, though.

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(10-15-2011 11:23 AM)Derchin Wrote:  Most of my class is about to kill each other over prom. They're arguing over where to go, how much will it cost, what's our theme, ETC
(10-15-2011 11:14 AM)UltraRobot Wrote:  Secondly, I completely agree with HeartofShadows. If you don't want to go to prom, then don't fucking go, goddamnit! I know this is easier said than done, but do not bow down to the will of your parents, grow up some balls and tell them you're not going to prom for whatever reasons you might have.

I keep telling them over and over again that I don't want to go, but they keep telling me that it was my mother's dying wish. And they know I'm nervous around others and they think this will help. It won't. Not much, though.

This might highly offend you, and I apologize if it does, but wanting your children to go to prom is an extremely retarded dying wish, and I can't believe your mother didn't have a better one. Also, did you actually directly hear it from her? If not, then it's possible your family might be lying to you about your mother's dying wish.

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Fuck opposite for me parents won't let me go but I want to get laid
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(10-16-2011 01:58 PM)sergeant Wrote:  Fuck opposite for me parents won't let me go but I want to get laid

I look to see if somebodies doing a prom after party or something.
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The frack I swear I posted in this thread

Anywho, I know you might be a bit iffy on not wanting to follow through with your dead mother's wishes, but I would seriously consider against going to the prom. I was seriously glad I didn't go to mine.
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RE: Prom

FYI, Prom is usually really formal.

But I may ask someone, but only if i find one attractive.


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My parents are starting to get on my nuts about this too... Eh, I don't really find many of the girls in my school reasonable enough to ask... That, and dancing isn't my style.

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I know it's pointless...but if MY mum said that to me before she passed away (for whatever reason o.O) I'd go just for that reason. Just fuck around and have fun, even if everyone there is gay and it's shit, make it worthwhile.

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(10-17-2011 02:11 PM)Absentinsomniac Wrote:  I kind of wish I could be like this guy:




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I never went to my prom lol

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Same here.

Naturally this was a disappointment to the line of attractive young women who would have given a limb to be taken with me to dance blah blah blah etc ego etc

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Lol ego.



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I'm goin cause I'm a normie

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Alistoriv for whatever reason I thought you got out of the faggy system already.

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Never been to prom. Sounds like fun these days ever since I learned to tango. Im a classy guy and I got a suave beard, so i liks to overdress and flaunt my wjngs even if it aint some expensive clothing. Cant afford ma confidence and thats all I got to spend.

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(04-25-2017 03:27 PM)Hansgrohe Wrote:  Alistoriv for whatever reason I thought you got out of the faggy system already.

nope, only a junior

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dude you should pimp it out in high school while you can

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